The world’s hottest singles and swingers are right here on Adult FriendFinder.com. In this new series, we’re highlighting our hottest members and getting their advice on how to make your AFF membership work for you. This week, check out our Q&A with rubysaloongirl!
1. How long have you been an AFF member?
I first joined in 2009 under another profile name with my husband. My husband and I also have our own profiles that we currently use as well. Over the years I have taken time away from the lifestyle but always come back. I find that AFF has become my main go-to and home for finding hookups and sharing new content.
2. What made you decide to join the site?
I was searching for a way to meet like-minded people. When I joined I lived in a very conservative town and well, my views were looked down upon. If I was myself in public I was the “shamed slut”. On AFF no one judges and everyone is very supportive. If only AFF was an actual place where we could all live and be ourselves.
3. Tell us about your favorite AFF hookup.
This is an incredibly hard question to answer. I have had so many amazing experiences and continue to have great ones. My hubby and I are working on a series of videos to discuss the lifestyle and experiences. I have my favorites for each type of meeting. Sometimes it is just me with a single guy or girl or couple, sometimes it’s hubby and I with a single guy or girl or couple, or maybe a group of people. Having all those experiences that could of only been found on AFF it is hard to pick just one. Now, to answer the question. This full story will be told in one of my videos that will be coming out soon and it will have all the juicy details and the personal safety precautions I used. I met a much younger guy on AFF and we really hit it off. After a time talking on the site we started texting and calling each other. After months of chatting he offered to fly me out to Colorado to meet. After much verification that this was for real and safe, I went for a three-day trip. Not only did we have some amazing sex but spent some time in the mountains just having a good time. It went well and we continued to talk but have not made another trip. If I was to tell the whole story now it would fill 3 pages and still not tell it all.
4. What is your favorite thing about the site?
The live camming. I love to interact with members in real time. Broadcasting allows me to do that and even make some money while having a great time. I do a number of shows a week. Shows start early in the week very tame and just talking with members and at the end of the week move to more “hardcore.” I love knowing that those who come to late in the week shows are people who are all worked up just waiting for me to “go live.”
5. Do you have any advice for new members who don’t know how to start mingling with people on the site?
Be yourself first and foremost. While we are all here for the same goal, to have amazing and wild sex, realize that there is so much more to finding a “hookup” than just saying “You’re hot, lets hook-up” or just sending a dick pic. Meeting people here is no different than at the bar. Work for it, turn the charm on, and be yourself. Being someone on the computer who you are not will only lead to a failed meeting. I have had many failed meetings and many amazing ones as well. I am working on a video series that will dive deeper into this topic and will be be released soon. Another thing to keep in mind is this is a fairly small community and people talk. You don’t want to get a bad reputation. The biggest thing you can do is if you do find a person or couple and you decide to meet, make sure you show up. I would like to remind everyone that even though it is exciting when you find that first possible match to still keep your alertness up; don’t let the excitement cloud your judgement. Over all people on AFF are genuine with good intentions and AFF does a great job of addressing issues when they are notified of them.
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