When you hear that Adult FriendFinder is the place to meet other like-minded singles or couples, you might feel like all that happens effortlessly, and the moment anyone puts up a profile, they instantly have new hot dates planned for them every day of the week. The truth is, dating online is easier, but you need to bring your “A” Game if you want hot playmates to share intimate moments with any day or night of the week.
Read Her Profile Word for Word
So many newbies make the classic mistake of just skimming someone’s profile or looking only at the pictures. They invested the time and energy into telling you all about them, which goes much deeper than just Age, Gender, and Location. If you take the time to read what they wrote, you can learn a whole lot about them before you ever say hello.
That way, when you send that first instant message or message center email to them, you can make it personal and target it to earn their affection – instead of just copying and pasting a bunch of generic “hey babe you around” messages that go nowhere.
Put yourself in her shoes and imagine she checks her messages. A hot girl like her is likely getting a bunch of new messages every day – one after another complimenting her tits or asking if she wants to see some dick pics. Why not be the person who tries to connect on a much more meaningful level?
What if you said, “Hey, I noticed in your profile that you are a hockey fan, and in one of your photos you were wearing a Kraken jersey. You wouldn’t happen to be from Seattle originally would you? I know you said you want to meet people in Vegas, and I’m local here in town, but I love the Pacific Northwest and have been up there plenty of times so we may have a lot in common…”
That sort of deeper, more personal message shows you are paying attention and are looking at her as more than just another conquest you can notch on your bedpost body count.
Always Be Polite Even (and Especially) When There is No Connection
You can think of your time on Adult FriendFinder as a spider thinks about spinning a web. They don’t make their web to catch one particular target. They build it to span out and catch all the available targets that interest them. When you meet someone on Adult FriendFinder, there is a good chance they have already dated plenty of other people in the community, and even if they don’t match well with you, they may know others who do.
Just by being polite and showing what a gentleman or lady you are, it’s not just the person you are messaging who you are appealing to – it’s also everyone else they know online or in person. You want every person you message to either become your new playmate or an advocate willing and able to help you find other new playmates you can enjoy.
For example, let’s imagine you chat with a great girl, but she isn’t all that into feet, and feet are your go-to turn-on for so many reasons. She isn’t suddenly going to develop a fetish for pedicures and perfect arches, and you aren’t about to stop seeking out a girl with the perfectly scented pair of track sneakers. So, take it all in stride, be fun about it, and you may find out her roommate loves footjobs, or some other girl she dated last week didn’t work out because she was all about feet, too. Why waste your chance to expand your web when you could make every message count more than once?
Rude or Crude DMs Rarely Work, But Fun and Flirty People Are Always Welcome
There is no shortage of dudes willing to fire off a fresh set of dick picks. Any halfwit can type “NICE TITS” in ALL CAPS as the subject of an email. If it worked, sexy people to play with would swarm those guys… but as you already know, they aren’t swarmed by anything other than loneliness.
Start slower, take your time, and ease into anything sexual. It’s fun to flirt and share some intimacy before you get down to asking for a late-night booty call. You’ll get there. The people on Adult FriendFinder are just like you. They are here because they DO want to meet people in person for no-strings-attached relationships and casual sexual encounters. Just give them a chance to become receptive before you start unzipping yourself and ask, “what are we going to do about this?”
Wooing your new love interest is easy. Be yourself and follow this simple advice to turn a few minutes a day online into more hours of sex than you can count.
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