It’s hard to resist the number of sexy partners you’ll find through Adult FriendFinder. When potential hookups flood your inbox, you might find yourself saying “yes” to the soonest date you can get, and suddenly, you’ll have multiple dates lined up before you know it. While this sounds exciting, too many dates in one week can become physically exhausting, and your body will demand a break before your brain catches up to that fact.
As you quickly fill your calendar with the anticipation of fulfilling every desire you can imagine, you’ll find yourself trying to keep up or even turning down offers for sex. Your libido won’t be able to handle the number of offers you’re getting, and you’ll have to figure out how to manage the awkward moments when you’re too tired from your last six dates this week to keep up with the sexy person who’s with you now.
At this juncture, you have two choices: try to figure out how to handle the situation on your own, or try these five easy tactics as a preventative measure before you hit that awkward state when your joystick refuses to cooperate. While every point may not work for every situation or lifestyle, jumping into the parts that work for you can help when you have too many dates and not enough stamina to keep up with them all!
1. Even professional athletes need recovery time.
Give yourself a few days to recover after a particularly wild date, whether physically, mentally, emotionally, or a combination of the three. As your calendar fills up, you may mix up names or appear bored when you’re actually very interested and just feeling exhausted. Just like a pro athlete between games, your body needs to recover before jumping into bed with the next sexy partner, and the recovery times depend on your body and the amount of activity you’ve been enjoying lately. The mind may be willing and ready, but the libido needs a cool-down as your body recharges.
2. Respect the calendar for all parties involved.
When you find yourself unexpectedly exhausted, reschedule upcoming dates respectfully, but don’t make a habit of it. Try only to reschedule each date once since anything more often, especially for a first date, will make you seem flaky or uninterested. Find a day that works for both of you and let your potential new lover know that you want to meet up and just aren’t feeling up to it today. As long as this isn’t frequent, your date should be understanding and will appreciate the honesty, especially when you’re back to your peak performance later!
3. Repetition is not always key.
Vary your dates so you aren’t getting repetitive. For example, don’t go hiking three days in a row. Go to different types of restaurants or bars to keep things interesting. You can also avoid some extremely awkward scenarios at restaurants when you return multiple days in one week with a different date each time. Servers notice things, and people make comments that may ruin the mood for your date, even when you are both aware of your varying social calendars with new friends.
To avoid awkward looks, avoid the same eateries with different partners more than once every two weeks, visit different hiking trails or outdoor attractions by only returning once a week, and find new local attractions to keep things interesting. The change in scenery with every date will ensure your mind doesn’t wander with the “same thing, different day” mentality that we all experience by being in the same place too often.
4. Remember your original groupies.
Remember to enjoy time out with friends and family, too, so that date nights feel more “special.” When every night is a date night, things get monotonous. Enjoy a platonic night out with friends or a game night at home. Watch your favorite sports game on TV without romantic expectations, or visit family for a few hours to recharge your social batteries.
When your mind and body expect a romantic encounter daily (or more), the excitement of a new prospective partner, either long-term or a single event, becomes just another day. Give yourself a reason to get excited about a new date by changing things up and enjoying other non-romantic outings at least once or twice a week so your libido can recharge.
5. Organization is a necessity.
It happens to everyone, especially at the beginning of your hookup streak. You figure out exactly how to market your profile for optimal matches, and the messages pour in with a level of attention you never imagined possible. You are saying “yes” to the first date proposed by every match without checking your calendar because you’re so excited, and you keep scheduling overlapping dates or back-to-back hookups that make it impossible to perform by the third or fourth session.
To avoid overscheduling, create a calendar with a specific color for date nights and plan dates on particular days, such as weekends and whatever other day you may have off work. Try to maintain at least two to three days a week that are off-limits for new prospects and only schedule dates for long-term or repeat friends on those days when needed.
Having a schedule for dates ensures your brain has a break from the “first date nerves” and still gets excited about meeting a new sex friend. You also have time to give your body much-needed rest that will have you back to the bedroom Olympian in no time!
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