As a 23-year-old NFL cheerleader who also cheers for Team Poly, I’m here to give you the ultimate playbook on scoring big in the digital dating game. The energetic, high-spirited world of cheerleading and gearing up for the big game has appealed to so many students over the years that the desire to date the cheer team captain is now almost cliché.
For current and former cheerleaders who use online dating sites to find new lovers, a dating profile is like a digital set of pom-poms; their private messages are like cheers, and getting inside her miniskirt is about as thrilling as winning the Superbowl.
Creating Your Winning Routine – Building Your Profile
Think of your dating profile like a cheerleader’s routine at halftime. It needs to be eye-catching, full of energy, and most importantly, it should showcase your best moves. Choose photos that are as diverse as a cheer squad – from you leading a dance routine to laughing with friends. Show off your versatility and let prospective dates see you can do much more than just a basic cheer.
Your bio is where your personality shines brighter than the most glittery uniform. Are you the sassy, witty cheerleader or the thoughtful, deep conversationalist who looks amazing in knee-high sports socks? Maybe you’re a bit of both? Be bold, be you, and since we’re all about embracing poly love, sprinkle in your openness to different relationship dynamics. Let them know that you’re not just looking for a single teammate but hoping to fill out the squad so you can build a triad of lust together with you as the bottom of the pyramid or the top.
Perfecting Your Cheers – Messaging Like a Champ
Messaging in the online dating world can be as nerve-wracking as performing in front of a huge crowd, but it’s also where the fun begins. Start your conversations with something that shows you’ve paid attention to their profile. Be playful, but always keep it respectful. Remember, a good cheerleader knows the power of their words.
In cheerleading, as in dating, not every squad plays fair. Stay alert for those who don’t respect your boundaries or seem more interested in a trophy fuck. Once you feel comfortable with someone you’ve connected with, choose a public spot for your first meet-up, somewhere you can both be at ease. It’s like picking a neutral stadium where both teams can perform at their best.
Creating a deep connection goes beyond having shared interests (like being into cheerleading and other sports). It’s about opening up, sharing your passions and goals, and even those moments when you didn’t stick the landing. Remember to listen—really listen—when they share their stories. After all, adult dating in a polyverse is all about building a team, not just cheering solo.
Being part of the poly cheer squad is about love, respect, and communication skills. It means understanding that your heart has the capacity to cheer for more than one person and being open about this with everyone involved. It requires honesty and the rare ability to be competitive with your lovers in the most positive way possible. Who can give the most and bring the most passion to the interpersonal relationships that make you want to step out of the locker room even if your team is behind?
You’ll Get More Out of Dating When You Choose Not To be Shy
Put on your best cheer outfit, pick up those pom-poms, and get ready to jump into the thrilling world of digital dating with gusto. Whether you are a sophomore looking for more super-fans to come to the games with you or are a MILF who gave up cheering on the sidelines decades ago, there are so many men and women looking to share your joys and become part of your team. All it takes is the willingness to give them a fair opportunity to wow you.
Fortunately, the camaraderie and care that Adult FriendFinder has always been known for means there are thousands of like-minded adults looking for love online like you, and you can always take strength from the fact that we’re all cheering for you to find the no-strings-attached relationships that will have you smiling from ear to ear!
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