You’ve been an Adult FriendFinder member for a while now and have seen the benefits that come with having access to a massive amount of sexy people worldwide. But, now you may be asking yourself how you can stand out from the crowd and garner the widespread attention you deserve? Creating your own blog on Adult FriendFinder may be the easiest, most creative way to get the attention you deserve.
Think of Your Blog As An Extension of Your Profile
Instead of just showing people how you look and giving them some basic stats about yourself, you can use your blog to help them better understand what you’re into and how your mind works.
Your Blog Keeps You Current
When someone sees your profile stats, they may wonder if the information is recent or something you posted years ago when you joined the site. When members see a new blog post, they know your info is current, and they can see your way of looking at the world right now, as opposed to how you felt about things when you were new to the site. As your dating horizons expand, so does your blog, and all your AFF friends are along for the journey!
Your Blog Can Set The Mood
Are you looking for a romantic date? Are you interested in a one-night stand with a new mate? Have a fantasy you want to explore for the first time with someone patient? Your blog can explain any of that to potential mates browsing your profile, which helps you sort out actual potential dates from people who are on another wavelength. Sharing your interests and what excites you is another way to find the right dates even faster.
Amateur Erotica Doesn’t Require A License
You can take no class on what you think is sexy; you are the only arbiter of that domain. Unfortunately, too many people think erotica is something “a professional author,” writes and that their writing skills are somehow insufficient to create one sexy paragraph after another. Your blog is the perfect place to showcase your amateur erotic fiction, and with a bit of practice, you’ll find your voice on the page pretty quickly. Here are some helpful tips:
1 – Start by writing about something that actually happened
Pure fiction is much harder to write than something that really happened, along with some embellishments to enhance the story. You can change names and places for the sake of privacy, but keep the framework of your past encounter as the backdrop. Did you once get busy in a bathroom at a bar? Are you the guy who tried having sex underwater in a public pool while dozens of other people were only a handful of meters away? Those moments are great starting points for your most amazing blog posts.
2 – Leave Out What Isn’t Sexy
In your story about having sex on a pool table after hours in a swanky hotel, you don’t have to mention the part about the lube bottle spilling out all over the carpet unless you think that adds something sexy to your story. Arguments and “make up sex” are common themes, but your blog should be much less about the argument and much more about the make-up sex!
3 – Make Sure The Story Is True To Your Desires
Remember, others will be reading your blog, so if you simply want personal memories to look back on, use a diary instead. What you write on your blog should always be about what you think is sexy right now. So, if, for example, you used to really be into cosplay and aren’t any longer, a new blog post about your past cosplay sexual experiences is likely to bring out potential lovers who want to try cosplay with you now – even if that’s not what you are into any longer. Keep your blog current with themes, ideas, kinks, and come-ons that match your current mood, so you attract the kind of people who share your sentiment, and you can get sexy with the sort of dating enthusiasts who can give you fuel for your next few blog stories to come.
4 – Practice Makes Perfect
Read your blog after you write it. Try to read it as if you were seeing the words for the very first time and see if it brings out the sort of reaction in you that you want to bring out in others. If it doesn’t, don’t fret, that just means you may need to rewrite part of it or write about something else instead. Nobody is expecting your first draft to be perfect. The simple truth is, the more you write, the better you get at it, and each new story or blog post you put up will be better than the last. Enjoy the process, be excited to share your stories, and help potential lovers discover who you are – because all the wonderful things about you are just waiting to be unearthed. Your own fictionalized erotic stories are the best way to share more than any picture or video could ever convey.
If You Do It Right, You’ll Cum Too
Your blog doesn’t have to be some PG nonsense. You can get as down and dirty as you like, sharing your own flair for erotica, sprinkling in stories of your past, or ideas from your favorite fantasies to create the right mood. So go ahead and show your potential dates that you have what it takes to make any date memorable and enjoy your own posts as much as they will. Many dating enthusiasts agree that a fantastic read can be even more erotic than a handful of photos!
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