Last year was a difficult one for many sports teams and their fans. Cardboard cutouts packed the stands at most NFL football games in place of real fans, and there was a much lower sense of enthusiasm as people were more focused on overcoming the pandemic than they were on their favorite sports teams. Still, it’s fair to say no team has had a more challenging time than the Houston Texans recently.
First, they traded away their best wide receiver and got virtually nothing for him in return. Then their Coach and General Manager was fired, and in what many fans expected to think would be the worst moment of all, the best player in franchise history, J.J. Watt, demanded to be traded elsewhere. However, things got a whole lot worse as the team’s star Quarterback Deshaun Watson, amid trade rumors himself, found a way to get himself accused by dozens of massage therapists for a variety of lewd, sexual harassment events that allegedly took place during his recent massage sessions.
Let’s be clear; there is absolutely nothing wrong with getting a great massage. On a physical, emotional, and spiritual level, the expert touch of a properly trained and licensed massage therapist, can enhance human health.
What seems to be somewhat confusing to people like Deshaun Watson is that massage also has a long, less puritanical history that extends from the intimacy of couples massaging each other during foreplay to sex workers using forms of Nuru massage as a sort of appetizer that leads to other activities outside the scope of anything a licensed therapist might do. There is no excuse for the confusion, though, because as with any act of sex, everyone involved should also make consent the primary focus. There’s no harm in asking an adult if they want to engage in sexual activity as long as you respect their decision.
Had Deshaun Watson looked up from the massage table and said something like, “If you want to stick to massage only that’s totally fine, but if you want to do more than that be sure to let me know,” he could have determined if any of his therapists were interested in sexual contact. While it’s true that almost every therapist would have flatly rejected his question, as most licensed massage therapists never engage in sexual activity with their clients, there would have been no harm in asking.
Instead, Mr. Watson allegedly showed off his penis, attempted to grope at the therapists, and was not quick to take no for an answer. His behavior has led to dozens of lawsuits and could eventually lead to significant prison time and the end of his sports career. It’s already cost him lucrative contracts, and endorsement deals as sponsors wait for the ongoing allegations to unfold completely.
If you live in an area where legal sex work is prohibited, you’re left to seek out non-professional masseuses capable of giving a great massage, and if that’s something you see, it is worth mentioning on your dating profile. Likewise, if you enjoy giving a great massage and like to go even further than a professional therapist would, that can make you very popular in dating circles.
“I give a great massage, and I especially enjoy the build-up toward the happy ending you have always wanted to experience” won’t guarantee you dozens of dates, but it certainly will help you find plenty of people who could benefit from your loving touch.
The public, and especially celebrities, may see sex workers as something to be avoided, and while Adult FriendFinder doesn’t share that point of view, we understand the need to abide by the law. On an ethical level, we firmly believe every sexual interaction should always begin with consent.
Whether it’s massage, BDSM roleplay, or anything else adults want to explore together, it’s only acceptable if all adults involved fully consent at each step along the way from sexy start to sticky finish. That means if you and your cohort of lovely playmates want to arrange a group massage party, you need to make sure all participants are fully aware of what’s about to happen and are into it voluntarily. Even if they start by wanting a hot oil body rub and change their mind just as things start to heat up, the activity needs to end the moment they rescind consent.
Excellent communication is always a part of great sex, and for someone who plays QB in the NFL, calling signals in the huddle and trying to keep ten other players on the same page strategically, one would think communication would be easy for someone like Watson.
Seriously, it has to be a lot easier to say “do you want to do more than massage me” than it is to learn an NFL playbook full of coded offensive plays like “X Right Z Split 32 Hustle” so you can call those plays effectively for ten other players while thousands of fans shout in your ears and a defense tries to prevent you from succeeding.
No matter what kind of massage Deshaun Watson was supposed to get, there was no defense, crowd noise, or outside distraction there to prevent him from getting the message through to his therapist politely that what he wanted all along was a handjob or more.
Since most massage rooms don’t come with their own referee and defensive linemen to keep customers in the pocket, communication is vital to ensure everyone gets what they expect out of the experience.
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