Sex outdoors can be a thrill. The rush, the risk of getting caught, and the adrenaline-fueled orgasms could be enough to get anyone’s blood pumping. And while most people think sex outside should be reserved for warm, sandy beaches, there are ways to heat things up outdoors during the winter.
In fact, some of the hottest sex happens when it’s cold outside. It can be a huge turn-on during cupcaking season, plus the sex also has an edge to it in terms of new experiences.
While an outdoor tryst in colder climates can undoubtedly be sexy, you should also exercise extreme caution to keep everyone safe. The cold can make it harder for some people to get an erection, and the colder air can also affect the sensitive skin surrounding the genitals in more extreme cases. But, of course, there are ways to safely have sex outdoors in frigid temperatures, so let’s explore how.
Take Care When Choosing A Spot
As with any outdoor sex, choosing the right location is everything. Places where people are likely to come across you having sex, or areas where you will be on a video camera you don’t have control of, are all locations you should avoid. Make sure to choose a spot you’re comfortable in and consider other people in your decisions.
Many people choose to have their first outdoor sex experiences on private property, whether renting a cabin in the woods, having sex in their backyard or garage, or getting comfortable in other places that people don’t frequent. But, of course, there are other considerations when having sex outside in the wintertime.
While having sex in the winter is exhilarating, be aware of the temperature outside, how windy it is, and more. If you feel your face start to freeze the moment you step outside, it’s likely too cold to have sex outdoors. But, of course, if you’re feeling adventurous, you can use some strategies to have fun in the freezing cold.
Choosing a partially indoor spot or one protected from the wind can help protect you against the wind chill factor. Some people have outdoor hot tubs, for example, that offer an invigorating contrast between hot and cold. Many people also choose to have sex outdoors while camping, opening up some windows in their tents and enjoying nature. The tent can help keep the warmth in, and some people also use sleeping bags and blankets to help keep them warm. If you can plug a body heater in nearby, that’s another option. That said, there is a more simple way to keep warm when having sex outside.
Keep Some Clothes On
Many people are used to having sex naked, but there are benefits to leaving some clothes on. This is particularly true in the winter when being able to pull down your pants to give accessibility to your private parts can be a godsend. In addition, you can wear sweaters, jackets, pants, boots, and layer up to help keep your body warm.
The other benefit to partial clothing is if you hear people coming, you can quickly pull your pants back up. There also have been scientific studies showing that people who wear socks have an easier time getting off, plus they keep your feet toasty in the snow. If you’re wearing a skirt, pair it with crotchless tights or leggings. This gives easy access to your genitals while keeping your legs warm.
Eliminate Expectations
It’s healthy to have expectations of orgasm with sexual experiences, but that doesn’t have to be your only goal. Sex should also be about adventure and passion, all of which can be explored without orgasm.
Also, it may be easier for one person to get off outside in the winter than another. Oral sex, fingering, remote control sex toys, and other options are available. You and your play friends can alternate who’s getting pleasured, the location, what people are wearing, and more. Keep things practical, have reasonable expectations, and think about potential obstacles beforehand.
Always Be Safe
There are many places to have orgasms in the winter, even outside. That said, keeping it safe means understanding the environment. The sex should be quick and dirty, with a minimum amount of time spent having sex. Many people also recommend using different strategies for foreplay so that both people are ready to go when it is time to fuck. Dress as warm as you can and keep your clothes off only for short periods. You can always continue the fun inside if you’re still really turned on.
In terms of physical safety, you should always watch for signs of frostbite while out in the snow. It can be tough to focus on that at the moment, but your health should always come first no what else is going on. So before venturing out into the cold, be sure to research frostbite and make sure everyone involved in the sex is aware of potential risks.
Always Plan Ahead
Part of having a fantastic outdoor sexual experience is planning ahead. Make sure you’re getting the right gear, aware of the weather, and selecting appropriate clothing for the weather. Many people discuss the possibility of sex outside in advance but still keep things relatively spontaneous. Rather than carrying around lube, things like long-lasting vaginal moisturizers can be an alternative. Some lubricants last for up to three days, giving a larger window. Keep in mind that cleaning up after may also need to be done if you have sex on outdoor surfaces. Remember, it’s important to be courteous to those who may come along after you and your partner have left.
Final Notes
Outdoor sex is a fantastic winter activity, though you need to be safe and mindful about it. It can also be one of the hottest experiences, and awareness, research, and planning are three things that make it even better.
As always, have fun and be safe!
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