How to Ride Dick Like a Champ

‘Let’s talk about sex, baby, let’s talk about you and me, let’s talk about all the good things. . .’ 

What comes to mind when you talk about “sex?” Is it a steamy moment with a sexy lover? Or a solo session with your favorite toy? Either way, sex is a pleasurable activity that should be enjoyed by everyone who takes part, no matter how you choose to do “it.”

That said, there are lots of amazing sex positions to explore, including missionary, doggie-style, cowgirl, and more. Dick riding or girl on top is a common name for many positions where the woman, or the vagina bearer, is on top of her sexual partner. Examples include:

• Cowgirl 
• Lazy man
• Wrapped lotus
• Reverse cowgirl

Of course, these positions feeling good is contingent upon whether or not you can actually do them. Some people struggle to ride their partner, whether it be for physical reasons or even psychological in some cases. 

Are you one of the many people who struggles while riding dick? Here are some tips for riding like a champ, no matter your body type!

Build Your Confidence

Confidence is among the biggest secrets to having a mind-blowing sexual experience. Worrying about your stretch marks, the dimples on your bum or your tummy rolls will instantly kill your confidence and mood. 

You should feel sexy and desirable regardless of your body weight and size. If you wish, boost your confidence by wearing flattering lingerie and setting the mood with dim light and fragrance. 

Talk to your partner, express your desires, and don’t be shy to add a little dirty talk here and there to stoke up the fire. Try a drink or two if you have difficulty bringing out the naughty girl in you. The drink will help you overcome your mental barriers and boost your confidence.

If you’re too shy to make eye contact during the deed, spice it up by bringing blindfolds into the game. Anticipation will make your partner yearn for more while cutting off eye contact. Better still, get a full-length mirror where you can watch yourself in action; it will help you get over the eye contact phobia, boost your confidence, and make the moment more erotic.

Get Comfortable

Not everyone is comfortable with girl-on-top positions. However, the good news is that there are many ways to ride that dick comfortably. You can try any of the following techniques to make your riding experience more enjoyable:

Explore Different Girl-on-top Positions

There’s a sex position for everyone, and here are a few girl-on-top positions you can explore depending on your interests:

• Classic cowgirl – allows you to be in control and get maximum penetration.
• Squatting cowgirl – facilitates the introduction of sex toys and has less of a thigh burn compared to classic cowgirl.
• Leaned-back reverse cowgirl – allows your partner to play with your clit and breasts as you bounce.
•  Dead man’s cowgirl – a very intimate position with shallow penetration and maximum clitoral stimulation as you glide up and down on your partner.

Elevate His Ass

There’s a lot of motion associated with riding a cock, but you can save some energy by elevating his ass. If you put a pillow below your partner, the penetration will be deeper, with less up and down movement. Less movement saves your energy and prevents excessive thigh straining, making you last longer in position.

Avoid Jackhammering

There’s no need to rush things unless you’re having a quickie. Hopping on the dick and riding like a Tazmanian Devil kills the mood, and you could risk injuring yourself or your partner. Instead, start things off slowly and get the vibes flowing. 

Be careful when sitting on it; ease yourself down slowly, find the right angle, and let your pelvis match his. You can start riding slowly and build the speed up as you get more into playtime. Switch up your pace multiple times to add spice to the experience. If you ride more enthusiastically, ensure the dick doesn’t slip out to avoid penile fracture and other injuries. 

Switch Between Grinding and Bouncing

You can use two tactics to blow your man’s mind when dick riding: grinding on his penis by rolling your hips and bouncing up on down on the cock. A mixture of both grinding and bouncing feels best for both of you. 

When grinding, you can align your clitoris with his pubic bone and benefit from clitoral stimulation, while bouncing gives your man a feeling like he’s the one thrusting into you. The different sensations from the two movements can quickly turn into a mind-blowing orgasm from clitoral/G-spot stimulation and friction. 

If you’re having a hard time staying on your feet for long, grinding is a good option as it takes the pressure off your feet. Bouncing on the dick repeatedly requires you to squat over him while grinding has your body resting on him. Switching up saves you from straining your thighs and makes you last longer.

Keep Your Hands Busy

You can’t just cross your hands while riding, as that would be pretty weird. Luckily, there are many ways you can keep your hands occupied by either supporting yourself or giving pleasure. In addition, supporting yourself distributes your body weight and relieves your legs of strain.

Depending on your position, you can support yourself on your man or the bed. You can grab the headboard or support yourself on his chest while in a position such as cowgirl. Alternatively, play with yourself to arouse him even more. Touch your titties, run your hands over your neck and tummy, or play with your clit. 

In reverse facing riding positions, support yourself on his knees or bend and hold the bed as you give him a view of your glorious booty. Do you want to drive your man completely insane? Reach out to play with his balls as you ride. Let your touch be soft as you let him soak in your pussy power.

Finding Your Rhythm

Moving out of sync makes it hard to build an orgasm. Instead, find a good consistent beat that arouses both of you, and switch it up occasionally. There’s no pleasure in turning yourself into a contortionist, so be gentle and take a break if you need to.

Sometimes both of you might want to be active in the game, with you grinding and him pumping from below. This could be fun but might not lead to an orgasm. Alternatively, let him do all the work as you revel in the moment’s magic. 

Slightly lift yourself from the bed and give your man space to please you. Try to sync with your Kegels and let the joy of the moment unite you. Pumping from below might be a little more challenging than the reverse, but it’s a good way to switch things up and let you relax before going back to it.

Have fun! 

Resources 

1. https://www.bustle.com/wellness/how-to-be-on-top-when-youre-plus-size-sex-tips
2. https://medium.com/sexography/6-ways-to-make-the-cowgirl-more-pleasurable-and-comfortable-for-the-woman-1a61f97367bd
3. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a21066183/woman-on-top-tips/
4. https://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-ride-your-man
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