How to Loosen Up Without Getting Tipsy On a First Date


Clubs and bars have always been popular places to meet people, mainly because having a drink or two can help lower inhibitions and make talking to strangers a little easier. With online dating sites, you’ve already made the effort to talk to potential dates before going out, so the bigger question is where to meet up for that first face-to-face encounter.  

If you choose to meet at a bar — or any other place that serves alcohol – you’ll be best served to limit your alcohol intake for a variety of reasons. Here are two dating stories that have been passed along to us that spell out some of the reasons that drinking too much on a first date can be a bad idea.

Cautionary Tale #1 – Joe and Marisa

My name is Joe, and I saw you were asking for stories from people about experiences drinking too much on a date. It was around four years ago where I learned my lesson about drinking too much on a date. I’d been talking with a woman online for about three months and was extremely interested in dating her. I hadn’t gotten around to asking her out on a date yet, mostly because I was nervous. When I finally did, we decided that going to a bar for karaoke was a fantastic idea. We both enjoyed karaoke when we were younger and figured that it would be great to reminisce, share stories, and sing some tunes.

Unfortunately, the experience didn’t turn out how I would’ve liked. The night started out great with us getting food at the bar before the karaoke host showed up. Sharing stories about our past karaoke experiences was fun and the food was pretty good too. We had both ordered our first drink of the night with dinner, and when the karaoke host arrived, we took the book and started chatting about our favorite musical artists and what songs we used to sing. I had prepared a song that I had never sung before because I was excited about going to karaoke and wanted something a little more recent. We put our songs in and both did a fantastic job singing our first one. We ordered another drink when karaoke started, and took a shot after we completed our first songs. We put more songs in, took more shots, and ordered more drinks.

Unfortunately, after I sang my second song I started feeling a bit sick. The last thing I remember is going into the bathroom and throwing up. I didn’t get anything on me, I remember that much, but what I don’t remember is the rest of the night. I sent her a note the following day and even though we had a fantastic time early in our date, I never heard from her again. Maybe it’s because her time at the end of the night wasn’t that great. It’s hard to say when you can’t even remember the entire second half of the night. She was a sexy woman and I missed my chance. It’s on my list of dating mistakes to avoid in the future for sure.

Cautionary Tale #2 – Double Date Surprise, Billy and Maddie

Billy and I had an online relationship that started with us meeting on an online dating website where we had been chatting for a good two months before planning our first date. One of my best friends suggested going on a double date and I thought it was a great idea since safety is always a priority when meeting people from the internet for the first time. We decided to keep it simple with dinner and a movie and picked a local steakhouse that was about 15 minutes away from the movie theater. It was opening weekend for a film we all wanted to see, “The Avengers.” As you can probably remember, there was a lot of hype surrounding the film and everybody wanted to see it. Being that it was opening weekend, we bought our tickets in advance and made reservations for 2 1/2 hours before the show to make sure that we had plenty of time to get there and find good seats. I spent at least an hour getting ready for a date for the first time in years.

My friend, her boyfriend, and I got to the restaurant about 10 minutes before we were slated to be seated. About two minutes after we sat down, Billy arrived. I was excited to see I was getting a hot date in every sense of the word, as he was well-dressed and had an amazing smile. My friend looked at me and smiled; we both knew it was going to be a fantastic date night. Or so we thought. Billy started with a drink, and then ordered another one when the appetizers arrived. Over the course of our meal he had four drinks, and since we still had some time left after dinner he decided to grab one more drink before heading to the movie theater. As he was finishing his last drink, Billy’s speech started slurring as the alcohol kicked in. He started feeling queasy and mentioned that he had a headache. A lot of the conversation on the date was great, but he ultimately decided that he was not in a good position to head to the movies. We ordered him an Uber and waited for it to arrive, and he went home. I guess the positive in this is that we were still able to get great seats to see the movie, which was fantastic. Since it came out, the three of us who actually made it there have seen pretty much every Marvel movie together.

It’s a shame that I was successful in getting a hot date only to have it ruined because he decided to drink so much. I guess I prefer people who know how much they can drink and are responsible; I learned a little bit about myself too I suppose.

Final Notes

Professionals recommend that people limit themselves to two drinks over the course of a date in the first two hours, and one drink every two hours after that if the date continues. The idea is to make sure you can keep up with digesting the alcohol, can drive safely to your next point, and are of sound judgment on your date. If you have a lower tolerance, drink less. If you have a higher tolerance, do not drink more. Get dates that are amazing and be smart. This can lead to second dates, which is a huge goal for online dating site members. Take advantage of these tips, and learn from these stories; drinking too much on a date is simply a bad choice!

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Featured AFF Member – HungMarine4Cpl

The world’s hottest singles and swingers are right here on Adult FriendFinder.com. In this new series, we’re highlighting our hottest members and getting their advice on how to make your AFF membership work for you. This week, check out our Q&A with HungMarine4Cpl!

1. How long have you been an AFF member?

I have been a member since AdultFriendFinder since I turned 18 in 2006.

2. What made you decide to join the site?

I joined the site because I wanted to open my mind to sex & because I had a crazy addiction to MILFS!

3. Tell us about your favorite AFF hookup.

My favorite AFF hookup was when I first got back to the US from being overseas. I met a couple when I was in Florida and we went to a nude beach together, had plenty of fun there, went back to their hotel room where I was first introduced to MMF and for me it was absolutely the best threesome I have had to this day.

4. What is your favorite thing about the site?

My favorite thing about AFF site is the ability to hotlist and flirt. I’ve found over my years on the site that hotlisting in my case has always shown someone that I’m interested. If I see they have responded with a hotlist or flirt I then make a move. It’s always worked out for me so it’s definitely my favorite part about the site.

5. Do you have any advice for new members who don’t know how to start mingling with people on the site?

Biggest advice I could give to new members would be to be yourself. Nothing bothers us more than someone lying or being fake. Be open about your likes/dislikes. This is sex not brain surgery, don’t complicate it. Also don’t feel like you have to learn it all now. Take time finding out what suits you and what you like. Most of all, have fun & make memories!

Your Guide to Getting More Sex in 2019

If your goal is to have more casual sex, this how-to guide will help make 2019 your year.

While some may be hesitant to try casual sex, it can have a lot of benefits if you’re not looking for a serious relationship. Hooking up with new people can help you explore your sexuality without the need for a serious commitment. Many also find casual hookups to be a lot more primal and raw than regular sex because it’s easier to release your inhibitions and let passion takeover.

The key to enjoying these kinds of passionate, casual hookups is finding the right partner. Here are some tips on how to find a casual sex partner that will rock your world.

1. Decide What You Want (Short Term and Long Term)

In the long run, you might be looking to date or get married. In the short term, you may just be looking for a friend-with-benefits or even just a booty call. It’s important to figure this out first so you can narrow your search down to exactly what you’re looking for. That way you can spend less time vetting potential partners and more time hooking up.

2. Communicate Your Wants and Needs

Some people like hot sex with partners who don’t spend the night afterward, while others prefer something a little more intimate but with no future expectations. Others like to plan for an entire weekend sex romp every six months or so. Because everybody thinks differently about casual sex, it’s essential to communicate your needs and wants clearly. Sites like AdultFriendFinder offer messaging and chat features that help you figure this out before the first in-person meeting.

3. Use Reputable Sex Dating Sites

The easiest way to find casual sex is on adult hook up sites Adult Friend Finder.  Many rely on these sites as a way to get to know people before starting a relationship with a weekend lover, fling, or fuck buddy.

On Adult FriendFinder you can connect, send messages, view profiles, and find lovers that are sexually compatible with you. The site puts fantastic casual sex at your fingertips with all the tools you need to find your ideal sexual match. If you’re looking to get it on but don’t have the time to date, seek out love, or maintain relationships long-term, Adult FriendFinder is likely the best choice for you.

4. Let’s Talk About (Safe) Sex

If you’re having casual sex with a variety of partners, it’s important to be safe. While not everyone is concerned with safe sex, many people are and just by starting the conversation you are opening yourself up to both types of hookups. Making safe sex a big part of the experience will earn you the respect of people who consider it a big deal. Additionally, it will protect you by decreasing your likelihood of getting STI’s.

5. Be Yourself

This is huge. Many people go onto hook up websites like Adult Friend Finder thinking that they need to change who they are and present a wildly different persona. The key is to bring out elements of your personality that are real. It takes a lot of energy to maintain a fake persona and it can ruin your chances of hooking up once you meet in person and your cover is blown.

6. Focus

Sex is a fantastic thing, and the number of people who are interested in doing it on the regular is off the charts. If you want to have steamy casual sex, sometimes the best way to express your passion and desire is to focus on what you love most about sex. Let potential partners know exactly what you need – whether its oral sex, anal sex, kinky sex, or anything else you can think of.

7. Skip the Bar/Club Hookups

A night out at a bar or club can cost quite a bit of money between cover charges, drinks, and transportation. Not to mention you could put in all the effort and still go the entire night without meeting a potential match. Why waste time and money on something that’s not a sure thing when an Adult FriendFinder membership costs less than a night out and allows you to communicate with the people you know are looking to hook up just like you?

Stop wasting your time and go with a process that is much more efficient. More and more people are using the Internet for dating each month, and you’ll find many of them on Adult FriendFinder. The trend is sure to continue in 2019 and beyond, so go with a sure thing and make this the year you get all the casual sex you’ve ever wanted!  

AFF Member Erotic Stories — Jo, the Lawyer

I met Jo – a petite, 40-something qualified lawyer – at an industry event. Her hair was cut in a bob that framed her attractive face and her smile light up her eyes. Although she was no longer practicing law, she still did pro-bono work. She had moved into a related industry and was using her legal knowledge there as well. We worked in similar related industries and had a lot to talk about.

The next day I connected with her via social media. Her response to me included a suggestion to meet for coffee and have a catch up. I thought nothing of it as I usually meet business contacts for catch up meetings. A few weeks later we arranged to meet uptown for coffee. What I thought would be a 30-minute chat turned into a 2-hour coffee session.

We communicated regularly via email in the weeks that followed. Late one Wednesday, Jo phoned and sounded to be in a panic. She asked if I was free that weekend as she needed a partner for a wedding. My immediate response was to ask about her husband. When we first met, she was wearing a wedding band and engagement ring. She admitted that she divorced 4 years ago and wore that as a safety net to stop guys from hitting on her. Her current relationship ended a few weeks ago. I agreed to accompany her that weekend. It was only at the end of the call that she informed me we would be staying over at the hotel. Did I mind sharing a room, she asked.

After a very quick mental deliberation, I said it was fine. I collected Jo that Saturday and we made our way to the hotel. We changed into the appropriate clothes — I wore a standard lounge suit and Jo slipped on an off-the-shoulder black cocktail dress. It was quite snug fitting at the top with a flared bottom part. She looked stunning.

The wedding ceremony and reception passed uneventfully. The usual speeches and dancing took place. However, when it came to the slow dancing, we were both initially like two teenagers on their first date. How do we hold each other, how close? I took the initiative and pulled Jo close to me, feeling her breasts press softly into my chest. Wrapping my arms around her waist, I pulled her close to me with her head resting on my shoulder. Each time Jo spoke to me I could feel her warm breath on my neck and ear. Occasionally her lips touched my ear. This was starting to turn me on. I decided to see what would happen and did the same to her, making sure my lips touched her ear more often and also making sure they lingered there, almost kissing her. She did not object. I was concerned that Jo may be able to sense that I was getting an erection. If she did, she did not say anything or react. Maybe that is why she made sure we were holding each other close.

We returned to the room and Jo slipped into the toilet and I took my shoes off and lay on the bed. Jo returned and sat on top of me. She stated to undo my shirt buttons. I asked what she was doing. She told me to be quite as this was my present for agreeing to attend the wedding on short notice. She continued to undo my buttons. I tried to feel her legs. She stopped me. I tried to feel her breasts and she stopped me. Jo told me to lie still and not talk and to let her do all the work.

I was not used to being the submissive one. Once my shirt was undone, she moved to my belt and trousers. Once these were undone, she pulled them down, exposing my erect cock. Smiling, Jo moved her head towards my cock and began kissing and licking it. She then removed her dress, revealing her naked breasts. The dress she had on required no bra as it was one of those dresses with built in support. I noticed that she was completely naked. When she went to the toilet when we came back, she had removed her panties. Before I knew it, she had mounted me, Taking care to go down on my cock slowly, so she could get used to the feeling my cock. Her pussy was wet and so tight as my cock penetrated her for the first time. She grabbed my hands and placed then around her waist so that I could help her balance whilst she rode me, each time going down harder and deeper, bring us both to climax. Once she had climaxed, I could feel her juices trickle down my cock. My cum was also dribbling down, my cock still throbbing following my climax.

Jo leaned forward and we kissed what felt like for an eternity. She rolled off and lay next to me, her head on my chest and arms draped around me. We fell asleep like that. In the middle of the night, Jo got up to go to the toilet. I have always been and still am a light sleeper, so I stirred when she got up. Jo returned to bed and lay with her back to me. Out of habit, I snuggled up to her, spooning her. My arm draped around her and moved up between her breasts. She moved closer to me, pushing her hips into me. I though Jo was just making herself comfortable. Jo then started pushing her hips into me again, almost like she was slowly thrusting. This was turning me on, my cock started to become erect. At the same time, I could hear soft moans from Jo each time she pushed her hips into me.

I was not sure if she was dreaming or what, but I started to kiss her neck and play with her ear lobes with my tongue. I was kissing her neck, moving down and up her shoulder area. Her moans became louder. By now, my cock was fully erect and I was as horny as hell.

I positioned myself a bit lower down to Jo and guided my cock between her legs. She spread them for me, allowing me to enter her wet pussy from behind. I started slowly, thrusting gently before becoming more forceful. Holding her tightly, my thrusting and breathing became faster and harder. Jo was moaning louder now, pushing against me to create resistance as my cock fucked her pussy hard and deep. My hands moved to her breasts, fondling them, pulling at her nipples as she allowed me to fuck her. I came for the second time that night, filling her pussy once again. My cock throbbing as I shot cum and it started to dribble. Jo reached down with her hand, scooping some cum onto her fingers and licking them.

We departed that Sunday morning. We have met up again on a few occasions for chats. Occasionally we do have sex. We do not want to spoil something that seems special!


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Erotic Member Stories – Sleepy Morning Sex

You begin to stir ever so slowly with the sound of the morning birds drawing you from a deep sleep. The cool morning breeze blowing the bedroom curtains ever so slightly brings chills to your partially naked body. I nuzzle up behind you Misty as you pull the soft blankets up beneath your chin, leaving exposed only your beautiful face. My arm wraps softly around your waist, pulling your warm body against mine even tighter.

 You sigh sleepily as I brush your hair away from the back of your neck, my warm lips leaving a trail of soft kisses. Taking my hand in yours you trace our fingers slowly up your body to your sweet luscious breast. Cupping our hands together around your breast, we squeeze ever so gently as your nipple grows firmer between our fingers. Softly I tug on your sensitive nipple, pulling it between your fingers as you lean your head back moaning as I nibble on the nape of your neck.

 I guide our hands back down the length of your firm body and playfully place them over your smooth pink lips. Knowing your passion for morning sex my finger tips find you already wet with excitement as they glide between your swollen lips. In your sleepy state of existence, you murmur soft cries as I guide our finger tips teasingly in circles around your sensitive clit, coating them in your sweet nectar. Lifting them I place our fingers in your mouth as you enjoy the sweet taste of your essence, licking them clean with delight.

You feel my member growing stronger and thicker between your thighs as you press your soft ass firmly against my hips. Reaching down you take my cock in hand, pulling it between your pussy as your pink lips wrap around it tightly. Rubbing its thick head against your clit you beg me to complete your morning. I roll you over on your stomach as you spread your legs invitingly. Looking back at me Misty with your sweet sleepy smile you whimper at the sensation of your pink lips engulfing the tip of my cock as I slowly enter you. Raising your hips and arching your back slightly, my cock disappears deep into your tight pink pussy, my smooth balls pressed firmly against your wet lips. I can feel your body tremble with excitement as I lay across your back, taking the entire weight of my body beneath you.

The sounds of our love making fills the cool morning air in your bedroom as my cock thrusts in and out of your warm pussy with abandon. You beg for me to plunge harder and deeper as you bury your face in the pillow, one hand slipping between your legs rubbing and pulling on your throbbing clit. Squeezing your pussy tight around my cock with each successive thrust I know that you are almost ready. My hand reaches firmly around your chin Misty as I pull your head back even with mine and whisper in your ear to cum all over my cock. The mere words cause a stirring ripple in your body. You begin to scream out with passion as your body convulses in orgasm beneath the weight of mine. Both of us exploding together in waves of pleasure, one after another.


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Erotic Member Stories: Savoring Thick White Meat at Friendsgiving (Pt. II)

Check out Part I of this incredibly sexy story here.

The man groaned and I looked over at him. I could tell he was in heaven as the three women jerked him off. Amy removed the gag from his mouth and asked him whether he liked it.

“Fuck yea,” he muttered.

To my surprise Amy slapped him and held his jaw as she reached down and kissed him deeply. “You’re here for us, do you understand?” She put the gag back in his mouth. Wow, a little harsh. But to be honest, I wouldn’t complain. Having the duty to fuck five women: not a bad deal.

For a minute I just stood off to the side, watching everything go on around me. The cock passed between the women’s’ mouths. Debra sucked on it. Then Gabby. Then Rose. Then Amy. Finally everyone looked at me.

I stared at the rod of man meat. Some invisible, horny force drew me to it like a magnet. I wrapped my fingers around the shaft and felt the warm flesh throb below my fingertips. God it was heavy. I opened my lips wider than ever before and engulfed the tip. It filled my mouth. Slowly I descended down, but only got halfway before I was overwhelmed. I just stared down at the remaining shaft and his balls below as the rest of the women laughed. When I came back up Amy gave me a kiss.

From there things only escalated. While Amy and I made out I kept one eye on the three other women as they undressed each other and played with the man’s cock like they were children again. I could tell Rose was that child who had problems sharing, because Gabby had to finally pull it out of her mouth for her turn. I could see all the man’s bound muscles tightening as Debra deep-throated him as best she could.

Debra was the first to climb up and ride him, claiming seniority. Now I saw all the naughtiness spill out of that plain-old mom. There was perhaps a twenty-year difference between her and the man, but she descended down his cock like the years meant nothing. She knew exactly what she needed, and god did she take it, bouncing up and down, whispering: “Oh fuck yea!” It was so fucking hot. The man laid there bound as she just fucked him.

Five women, one cock. Everyone took a warm up round. Gabby went next. It looked comical as she stood over the big cock with her tiny body. I almost wanted to ask her if she was sure, but she was as eager as anyone. Her jaw dropped as she slid down inch by inch. She was obviously a rookie, and it was almost fitting that Amy followed her. She gave the performance of a veteran, bouncing up and down the cock like it was nothing.

Then it was my turn. To say I was ready was an understatement. By now I was undressed and just dying for it. I climbed up and straddled the man. I grasped his cock and held it for a moment, stroking the heavy shaft, slick with the other women’s juices, up and down. Then, slowly, I put the tip in my pussy and lowered myself down.

I moaned as the thickness utterly filled me. It pushed deeper and deeper inside. Amy came up beside me and we kissed as I rocked, then bounced. Oh my god. It was glorious.

Amy jiggled my tits and laughed. Then, oddly, she headed to the kitchen. When she came back she was carrying a serrated knife.

“How about we cut this beast loose?!” She yelled out. She proceeded to cut the ropes that bound the man’s legs and arms.

I was halfway down his cock when he began to rouse from his stillness. His giant hands gripped my hips and I watched as his feet took anchor and his powerful legs bent. Suddenly I was thinking about what all that muscle could do, and I was a little fearful. He was about to thrust when Amy slapped his face again. “As she commands…” She smiled at me.

I had never been in this position of power before. “Uhmm…” I started, “Fuck me…softly.” I gasped as his cock started to thrust gently inside me. Too gently. I wanted more. I was more assertive as I told him to fuck me harder.

Like a machine he followed my voice, holding me up as he pumped in and out. I just melted into his grasp and the minutes, however many passed, went by in growing ecstasy. But ultimately I wanted more.

“Fuck me harder.”

He thrusted harder and faster. Not enough.

“Fuck me harder!”

Even harder, even faster. Now the pleasure was starting to flood my body, pushing closer and closer to the brink. Still I wanted more.

“FUCK ME HARDER!”

He went into overdrive, fucking me without relent.

I don’t remember what words I said next. I don’t remember much of anything really. The only thing I remember is the explosion of pleasure between my legs. I closed my eyes and felt it consume my body. In that moment, nothing else in the world mattered.

It must have looked as amazing as it felt, because I heard the rest of the women cheer.

As I came to a stop Amy jiggled my breasts again, “THAT WAS HOT!!” I just slumped down off the cock, out of breath. It was hot. I won’t lie.

“Oh my god, I am next!” Rose yelled. She scrambled onto the table and down his cock. “Fuck me!” She yelled at him. She closed her eyes and a sloppy smile spread across her face as the man started pounding into her.

For me the pleasure didn’t end there. Not in a long shot. As the man fucked Rose, the rest of us made our own fun on the carpet floor, ending up in a circle fingering and eating each other out. It was all so much better to hear Rose’s screams in the background. When they finally reached a crescendo I looked over just in time to see her eyes roll back into her skull and her body shake. God I hoped I looked that hot when I came.

When Rose had sucked her juices off the man’s cock, Amy called for him to come over and fuck her. The man joined us on the floor, pulling Amy’s body aside to pound her doggy, all his glistening muscles devoted to the task.

What ensued was a fuck fest. That’s the only way I can describe it. I suppose technically it was a gangbang. But really it felt more like the most erotic lesbian orgy of my life—the hot muscle man with the big cock was simply our toy. And god did we use him. Eventually we pretty much put him on auto mode and gave him free reign. As we women pleasured each other he went around, pulling pussies aside to fuck. The room filled with all our moans…we all just fucked. It was beautiful.

Needless to say, I already have Friendsgiving at Amy’s marked on my calendar for next year.

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Savoring Thick White Meat at Friendsgiving (Pt. I)

It’s been a few months since I had to leave my friend Amy behind and move back to the West Coast. Ever since, I’ve been itching to get back to her. So, when she brought up that she was having her annual Friendsgiving’s party, I didn’t hesitate. I booked that flight the minute I hung up with her. Knowing the kinds of things that go on at Amy’s house, I had to ask whether this “Friendsgiving” was going to involve sex with the fellow guests. “Maybe.” She told me coyly. Then she not so coyly mentioned that the only thing I needed to bring was a clean STD test. So yeah, that was a pretty resounding yes.

Amy picked me up at the airport the day before the party. I’m actually surprised that we made it to her car before our hands and lips went wild over each other’s bodies. We made backseat love right in the parking garage before driving back to her place.

I was staying with Amy, but if you’ve read my other stories you know that she lives right next to my uncle and aunt. I couldn’t just fly across the country and not see them. The Friendsgiving party was the next day in the evening, and Amy said dinner wasn’t actually on the menu (which at the time I thought was weird), so I made plans to eat dinner that night with my uncle and aunt, and then head over to Amy’s in time for the party.

I felt a little guilty at dinner, because I was not there mentally. Not at all. The whole time butterflies were flying in my stomach as I imagined what waited for me when I got back to Amy’s. I even had the awkward Freudian slip of asking the waiter for a cock rather than a coke (for a split second, the guy’s eyes lit up in hope).

Finally I wrapped up the meal, and headed over to Amy’s. The lights were on in the library as I approached the door and I heard women talking and laughing. When Amy answered the door, she had a mischievous smile plastered across her face. She brought me to the library.

Three other women were already there. I knew one. Her name was Rose, and if you’ve read some of my other stories you may be familiar with her. One thing to know is that she and Amy were my first lesbian lovers (going all the way back to the story “First Lesbian Steps”). She is a little spitfire of a 32-year old woman, and always has the biggest personality in the room. It’s funny, because she’s a compact 4’11” Filipina. It’s even funnier because she has giant breasts that jiggle whenever she makes herself laugh, which is often.

Amy introduced the other two women as Debra and Gabby.

The two women were polar opposites. Debra was older, the heavy lines in her face placing her somewhere in her late 40s. She had that air about her that somehow reminds you of your mom or aunt. She was dressed rather plainly, with a blue blouse and jeans that gently rested on her mature curves, and her hair was styled into a rather simple bob, with curling light-brown tresses and bangs that flattered her pretty features I suppose. It was the total mom look.

Gabby stood in contrast. She must have still been a teenager, and in her youth she almost looked out of place among the rest of us. Her young, adorable face with a Latina complexion seemed to glow, as if she had yet to realize how much life can suck. Her short—she was barely taller than Rose—and slim nubile body only added to the sense of innocence. I couldn’t help but wonder if her outfit—a sexy tight red dress that showed off her female features—was a kind of overcompensation, a statement of her maturity. In any case, I thought she looked quite pretty.

The five of us chatted in the library for a little while. I didn’t know exactly what was going on, to be honest. I half expected Amy to suddenly get naked or something. As I talked to Debra about her son who just started college, I did notice that Gabby and Rose were getting friendly. Very friendly. Rose’s hand was traveling up Gabby’s thigh and the two of them shared the same lust-filled face. Then they kissed.

The two made out as Debra told me all about how her son didn’t know what major to choose. When she finally noticed Rose and Gabby, she leaned in and told me the story of how Rose and Gabby had met the previous year at this very Friendsgiving party. It had been Gabby’s first time at Amy’s house, and Rose apparently had taken her under her wing. Apparently so. “Funny how Amy can bring people together like that.” She told me with a sweet smile. Suddenly I could see the naughtiness hiding in Debra’s eyes. I was excited now. Clearly there was a whole other side to this unassuming mom, and I was just waiting for it to come out.

But before Debra and I could get closer, Rose broke away from Gabby’s lips and said, “Okay, I can’t wait any more…” She asked Amy who else was coming, and Amy replied that this year was going to be a smaller, more intimate party, and that this was it. Rose licked her lips. “What are we waiting for? I want to see what kind of meat we’re tasting tonight!”

Huh. I looked confusedly at Amy. I thought she told me that food wasn’t on the menu.

Amy smiled. “Lets.” She said, and Rose clapped her hands excitedly. Gabby looked thrilled, too. Debra even ran her hand over her breasts and bit her lip.

It was at that moment that I had that feeling: Rose wasn’t talking about turkey.

Amy invited us to head to the dining room. I tentatively followed the others as they walked down the hall. Amy hung back and waited for me. She took my hand and flashed me a smile. “Amy…” I began to ask as we approached the dining room, “what’s going–”

I didn’t finish my sentence. The scene in the dining room answered all my questions.

A man was spread across the table, gagged, bound, and naked except a shining steel plate-cover over his crotch.

I was speechless as the other women surrounded the table, running their hands over his body. He was a stud in the prime of his life. His tanned arms and legs were tied with thick rope, but I wasn’t sure if even that was enough to keep his powerful muscles from ripping free. I couldn’t keep my eyes from traveling over his body—his toned chest, his strapping arms, his bulging legs, his washboard abs, and then… the plate cover. It was such a tease. I didn’t blame Rose at all when she rushed over to take it off.

“Ah-Ah-Ah!” Amy stopped her. “I want that honor to go to Jen.” She nudged me on. It took me a few seconds to process what I was seeing. I looked back at Amy and that mischievous smile just widened.

“Go on!” She urged me.

Unconsciously, I found my feet leading me over to the table as the women made room for me. I looked down at the plate cover and saw my reflection in the stainless-steel finish staring back. I put my hand on the handle and the man shifted slightly. This was just about the most bizarre thing I had ever done.

Slowly I lifted it up.

Now, I don’t want to make guys self-conscious about the size of their dicks, because that’s way too common. It’s not disappointing if you don’t have a 9” dick as thick as a beer bottle (if it was, we’d be disappointed like 99% of the time).

That said…

This guy did have a 9” dick as thick as a beer bottle. Maybe even thicker.

“You outdid yourself this year!” Rose exclaimed.

“Mmm…I agree.” Debra said. Giggling like a school girl rather than a middle-aged woman, she reached down and wrapped her fingers around the man’s cock. You could see it swelling in her hand as she stroked up and down. Bigger and bigger it grew. Gabby added her hand and the two stroked together. There was enough room for another and Rose joined in…

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Join AFF for the Ultimate Swingers Tropical Vacation — Young Swingers Week March 2019

AdultFriendFinder.com and Young Swingers® Week are teaming up to bring AFF members the ultimate summertime experience! Young Swingers Week takes place from March 16-23, 2019 at the Hedonism II resort in Negril, Jamaica and YOU are invited!

About Young Swingers® Week

Young Swingers® hosts parties, events, and swinger travel for adults in their 20’s, 30’s, and early 40’s. The company offers swingers many opportunities to have fun with other couples, but Young Swingers® Week is their largest event, with hundreds of people gathering for a week of dancing, soaking up the sun, and sexy good times.

YSW offers people a chance to explore new fantasies, temptations, and interests that may not be available to them in their everyday lives. The event is held at a nudist resort where guests can be free to roam naked and explore their sexual desires in a safe, comfortable environment. Young Swingers® Week helps younger people enjoy sexual experiences with other couples, make lifelong friendships, and hopefully start a new yearly tradition.

The Resort

At Hedonism II, there’s no judgment so attendees feel free enough to be themselves. The sexy atmosphere makes tensions quickly disappear as new and curious young people mingle with more experienced couples to create memories that will last a lifetime.

Hedonism II Resort in Negril, Jamaica

At the resort you’ll find a sparkling pool, hot tub, all-inclusive beachside liquor bars, theme nights, and organized games run by the wonderful (and nude) staff. Not to mention the gorgeous surroundings as you enjoy the tropical paradise that is Jamaica. Sun, surf, and sex – what more could you ask for?

Hedonism II YSW Theme Night Schedule:

Saturday: Lingerie vs. Pasties – Boxers vs. Briefs

Sunday: St. Patrick’s Day — Sexy leprechauns

Monday: Animal Magnetism Night – Animal print patterns, plus lady’s animal tails

Tuesday: EDM Rave Glow Party

Wednesday: Steampunk/Fetish Night — A post-apocalyptic future past

Thursday:  Bikinis and Board Shorts — Swimsuit Competition

Friday: Dress to impress

Young Swingers Rave Glow Party Night — March 2018

Cost

When planning this event, we decided to make the experience as budget friendly as possible because we realize not everyone can afford expensive swinger vacations. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have the chance to try new experiences together as a young couple, however. Hedonism II is an all-inclusive resort which means food, liquor, beer, entertainment, and “TIPS” are all included. This eliminates the need to bring more than a few extra dollars with you. Besides, who wants to carry cash or credit cards around a nude resort?  Where would you even put them?

To make things even more affordable, Young Swingers® Week and Adult FriendFinder have teamed up to offer a special discount to AFF members attending the event for the first time. Just use the coupon code AFFJ18 and get $200 off when you book your trip!

Meet Swingers From All Over the World

Young Swingers Week draws people from all over the world who have two main points in common; they’re young and interested in the swinging lifestyle. Aside from those two factors, it’s a melting pot of the world’s hottest couples. We welcome all races, nationalities, body types, and backgrounds.

Guests will spend a week hanging out with people who grew up on the same movies, music, TV shows, styles, and trends. They can meet others who graduated college around the same time, got married around the same time, and have kids back home. If you go to most swinger/nudist resorts in your 20’s or 30’s, it’s hard to find people your own age and not feel like you’re the youngest person there. That’s definitely not an issue here!

Choose Your Own Comfort Level

Upon arrival, YSW attendees will receive a beaded necklace with their name on it. This helps people get to know each other and easily identify everyone’s lifestyle level. You can choose the color of the beads you want on your necklace; GREEN is for “We’re Open-minded,” RED is for “Full Swap -Situational “(swap at the right time with the right people), and BLUE is for those who want as much action as possible. This will help like-minded people find what they desire without feeling pressured to go farther than they want to. While everyone at YSW is interested in swinging one way or another, not everyone who attends is ready to participate right away. Many new couples will go just to hang out and gauge their comfort level first before diving into the action, and that’s perfectly ok! Just remember to wear your necklace at all times so it’s clear to other guests. Plus it really helps keep track of who you’re meeting and partying with.

Playroom at the Hedonism II resort.

Mingle With the Adult FriendFinder Team

The AFF team will be there the entire week to meet current members, sign on new members, and hand out lots of great AdultFriendFinder.com swag! Get an AFF hat and a limited edition AFF water bottle with a hidden storage compartment so you can stay hydrated and have a place to store cash (or condoms) as you walk around the resort in the nude.

For more information or to book your trip, go to youngswingersweek.com. To meet other AFF members who will be attending the event, go to AdultFriendFinder.com and start mingling now!

The First Time I Shared My Wife, Pt. 2

We all left and burst through the door of our happy home like a trio of best friends, laughing and chatting. We went straight to the bedroom where the action was going to happen. Vanessa didn’t take any time at all to strip down to the lingerie I had picked it out for her — a sexy lace bra, no panties, and thigh-high stockings. She was ready to go! Brent’s eyes were just about popping out of his head when he saw her amazing form naked. I had already set up a comfortable armchair in the corner of the room. I didn’t want to feel like a creepy voyeur, but I did want to make some directorial comments. You know, like my own personal porn movie!

I sat in the chair as Vanessa grabbed the collar of Brent’s polo shirt and pulled him towards the bed. She landed on her back with Brent on top of her. I could feel myself getting hard already; my boner was pushing against the zipper of my pants and they hadn’t even started fucking yet. Vanessa laid back and pulled Brent’s polo over his head. She flipped over onto her hands and knees, tossing Brent to the side on his back so she could get his pants off. She was filled with lust like I hadn’t seen in quite a while!

Once she got his belt buckle undone, she didn’t wait at all to pull down his pants. She just started going at his cock with her talented mouth. His dick was better than he described. It was at least 8 inches long, if not more, and quite thick. Just enough to satisfy my size queen wife. This guy Brent has won the lottery! He grabbed her hair and pushed her head onto his cock. I loved seeing another guy take control of my wife and I undid my zipper to let my hard cock out. She was gagging and drooling all over his dick with each stroke. The drool was making a big pool on the bed and giving Brent plenty of lube to work with once they moved on to something else.

Brent’s head tilted back in ecstasy.

“Fuck…so good,” he managed to eke out in between moans as he fucked her face almost as hard as any pussy. My good girl Vanessa took it like a champ and started playing with her pussy. My cock was rock hard now and I started to stroke it, but I didn’t go too hard because I didn’t want to cum yet.

Soon Vanessa came with a screaming and creaming orgasm while she rubbed her clit as Brent’s 8 inch dick was buried down her throat. Her muffled screams of pleasure were such a turn on for me, it was unbelievable! I had to stop stroking my own 7-inch cock to stop myself from coming so soon with all the sights and sounds.

After a particularly voracious thrust, Brent pushed Vanessa off his dick and pushed her onto her back. He lifted up her legs so they were resting against his shoulders and pushed his cock into her pussy. She wailed with the sensation, affirming that it felt great. Her wet snatch was making sploshing sounds with each pounding thrust. Vanessa reached for the vibrator on the side of the bed. Her favorite thing was to use this powerful wand with a cock in her pussy for a huge, squirting orgasm. It was the only thing that made her squirt and she loved it! I hadn’t told Brent she was a squirter, so this was going to be a big surprise.

With Brent’s studly pounding the vibrator switched on, bringing Vanessa closer and closer to orgasm with each stroke. After just a few minutes she was getting close. I could tell because her thighs were quaking and her chest was turning all red. All of a sudden she was screaming louder than anything I had ever heard before and I saw the juice squirt out of her pussy. It went everywhere and lasted for almost 30 seconds. I never knew she had so much inside of her!

Brent’s chest was glistening with sweat and squirt, and even his hair seemed damp from the shower. Of course the bed was completely soaked and we’d probably have to set up the air mattress tonight while we let it dry. I started to jerk myself off again, watching this stud thoroughly use my wife.

Brent turned Vanessa over so she was on her hands and knees and pounded into her again.

“Oh yeah,” she moaned. I could tell she was in that special place that happens when your brain is slightly broken from way too much sex. “Don’t stop!” She begged.

Brent continued thrusting with increased fervor. He was getting close. He scrunched his face and I could tell he was about to cum. He grunted and pulled out, spilling his creamy seed all over Vanessa’s round ass. I didn’t cum, saving mine for when I pounded my slutty wife later, thinking about her getting used in such a hot way!

We thanked Brent for coming over after cleaning up a bit, and scheduled another date in two weeks to see him again. I set up the inflatable mattress in the living room because our bed was totally soaked with squirt.

We laid down on the squeaky bed, Vanessa fresh from the shower. I couldn’t keep my hands off of her and she was still wet and horny from Brent’s raging reaming. Soon my hot wife was riding me on top with her beautiful, bountiful tits bouncing up and down and my cock being squeezed by her warm, wet hole. I looked at her sexy face and remembered just how she looked when she was in the throes of passion with Brent. I couldn’t hold on too long and shot my well-deserved load into her snatch after just a few moments, thinking of all the hot fun we were going to have in the future.

As we lay there nestled in each other’s arms, Vanessa whispered “Thanks, Brian. I really needed that.”

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The First Time I Shared My Wife, Pt. 1

I’m the luckiest guy in the world. I have a great job and a wonderful family, but most of all I’m grateful for my beautiful wife. Her name is Vanessa and she’s a stunning brunette with MILF curves in all the right places. She’s a goddess — but now that we’re getting into our 40s, Vanessa has had some…problems. She’s worried that she’s getting old and doesn’t feel attractive anymore. She thinks she’s fat, when really she’s just filled out her formerly petite frame into the most perfect curves, with D cup breasts and a wide booty that grew when she started lifting weights at the gym. I do my best to make her feel good about herself by lavishing her with attention and giving her everything that I can. We have a great sex life and go on plenty of adventures, but over the past few months I could tell that Vanessa wasn’t feeling good.

She didn’t want to put on the hot lingerie sets I got her and she started to dress more conservatively. When I tried to delicately bring it up with her one night she said dejectedly, “Well, I’m just old now, I guess,” with her head in her hand as she stirred her food around on her plate, sighing like a moody 19-year-old. I knew I had to do something.

I’ve always loved porn, and lately I’ve focused on one particular genre. It’s called hotwifing and to some guys I’m sure it sounds like a nightmare, but to me it only made sense. I always felt like monogamy was a sham, though I would never dream of cheating on Vanessa without her permission. So basically, hotwifing is when a husband or boyfriend finds a super-hot guy for his wife to fuck. Some dudes might find it humiliating but honestly, I find the idea exhilarating and it’s a boost to my self-esteem too. I know I can do right by my wife in the bedroom, we’ve been fucking for over 20 years after all. So having the hottest guys around also want to fuck her is a boost to me because my wife is just so damn hot.

I had never brought up this idea to Vanessa, but I had a feeling it could help with her feel sexy and vivacious again. I had to figure out the perfect way to bring it up to her. She was by no means closed-minded or prudish, but she was definitely in a darker place than usual these days and I didn’t want to upset her. So, I made her a beautiful, candlelit dinner one Friday night.

Vanessa was sitting across from me, looking beautiful through the candlelight. I felt those same tingles I had when we first met more than 20 years ago.

“You seem like you’ve got something up her sleeve…” she insinuated. 

“Well, I do want to talk to you about something.” I was so excited. I knew she was going to love this idea.

I explained the whole thing to her. As soon as I started to talk about it there was a glint in her eye that I haven’t seen in ages. She was smiling that big Vanessa smile I fell in love with as I explained to her that I would buy her the hottest lingerie and find her the best studs, then I would sit and watch, and maybe direct a bit as she got the fucking of a lifetime. Maybe I could even join in, but this wasn’t about me. It was all about showing off my super-hot wife!

“But…how are we going to find someone?” She asked, with a concerned look on her beautiful face.

I hadn’t thought about that yet. It had been so long since I tried dating or anything like that, that I had no idea what to do. After I cleaned up the dinner, Vanessa brought up a site she had heard of called Adult Friend Finder. The name of the site is pretty self-explanatory and it sounded perfect for our purposes, so I decided to check it out.

That very night we went online and signed up. I used pictures of her in our profile but was very explicit about our situation. It really didn’t take long before the messages started rolling in. Of course, duh, because Vanessa is so fucking hot! I could see this whole thing was already helping her self-esteem and making her feel better about herself. Vanessa went to bed while I stayed on, glued to the screen, waiting for the guy who was going to make my wife happy.

Most of the messages were kinda junky like dudes just saying “he” with not much effort put into it, but then we got a message that I thought sounded too good to be true. It was from a guy named Brent and his pics were super-hot. He was a muscular stud with a cute blonde crew cut and he looked like just the kind of guy that I would want to fuck my wife.

His message was pretty detailed. He was 28-years-old, recently got out of the military (that explains the muscles!) and was just looking for some fun. Most of the girls his age were looking for commitment and he just wasn’t ready for that. He needed time to sow his wild oats and have a good time! He wanted to let off some steam. He also mentioned that our particular situation turned him on because he liked to be known as a guy who could go all night long, and getting watched by a chick’s husband felt right! He liked the slight objectification of it all and wanted to experiment.

I was down, so I set up a date where we could all get to know each other. I invited him out to our favorite neighborhood haunt the following Friday night. I bought Vanessa a new dress and damn, did she look smokin’. It was a simple, skin-tight black dress. She wore it with her favorite heels – a pair of sexy ankle boots that always drive me wild. She wasn’t wearing any panties – her idea. See, I told you she’s a filthy slut!

We sat down in a booth together so we could have some privacy while we discussed everything under the sun. Brent looked even more masculine than his profile pics and I could tell that Vanessa was into it. We talked about work, Brent’s military history, our relationship, and finally after an hour and a half, we landed on the topic at hand: Brent fucking my wife for everyone’s mutual pleasure.

“So, you’re like, sure you guys want this?” He asked.

“Yes.” We both responded simultaneously and then burst out into peals of nervous laughter at the same time due to our enthusiasm. Sure, we were into it, but that doesn’t mean we weren’t a bit nervous!

“Vanessa…why don’t you take off your shoe and start running your foot up the leg of our friend here…let’s give him a taste and get him ready.” I directed.

Vanessa got a sly glint in her eye as she discretely took off her shoe and moved her leg up Brent’s and found his appendage. I could tell she was gently using her foot to massage his balls and Brent got a distracted but happy look on his face.

“Why don’t we go home, the three of us,” Vanessa suggested…

Check back next week for Pt. 2 to see how our first hookup with Chris went! And check out Adult FriendFinder to find some hotwifing fun of you own!