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DTF? Here are 5 Crazy Places to Hookup!

Someone needs to tell you this… no one is excited to hear the sex story where you hooked up at home, in bed, while staring at your ceiling. That’s not what makes for steamy love affairs, and it definitely doesn’t make for repeat performances. 

If you’re in a long-term relationship and have the same kind of sex in the same place every time, chances are your partner is over the monotony. If you’re hooking up with a fling, you should also regularly switch up locations to keep the relationship spicy. 

If you found someone to hook up with on Adultfriendfinder, you’re already on your way to some steamy fun. Hooking up in crazy places gives your sex life the blood-pumping, adrenaline-inducing thrill your partner yearns for. So get out of your rut and into new locations. Pitch one of these five insane places to get it on to your partner, and before you know it, they may have some ideas of their own!

The Ocean

That song, “Cake by The Ocean,” may be less about eating frosting in the sunshine and more about one of the best spots to go at it with your lover. After all, what can be sexier than rolling around in the sand with someone who gets you hot in all the right ways?

Most beaches are public so finding one you can access late at night is your best bet on this covert mission. When the night turns to late-night, grab your person and start stripping. Word to the wise, remember where you left your clothes. Fumbling around, nude, wet, and cold in the pitch-black night, is less than ideal. Leave your items in a hidden but memorable spot and head to the salty waters to join in on the first stop of this sexual bucket list.

Try to plan this for summer, too, because no one needs to worry about shrinkage when they’re trying to impress. Go at it in the shallows, and then get out of there. Cops are known to patrol many beaches, and catching you in the buff is just what they’re after. So sit at the beach for a little while to make sure that no one’s lurking in the shadows, and when the coast is clear, get to it.

Also, please make sure there are no children anywhere in sight. Nothing ruins your life like having to get on a registry. Better yet, try for a beach with no one on it and avoid the issue altogether. 

Public Bathrooms

What’s so great about getting it on in a public bathroom? For one, you can find one anywhere, and for two, THEY LOCK. When you’re moving your sex life out of the bedroom, getting caught is most people’s greatest fear, and for good reason! Public sex can be frowned upon, but that’s what makes it so thrilling.

However, you should know a few things before having sex in a public bathroom. First, pick a bathroom where two people can quickly enter together. Bathrooms that are single-stall or larger work best. You’re going to want to pick one that you know is likely to be clean as well. Nothing kills the mood like a foul-smelling bathroom. Finally, choose a nice busy restaurant so that no one will notice you two slipping in together.

Once you’ve checked those boxes, there’s not much more to it. So bend your partner over the sink and have at it. There’s something hot about doing it in front of a mirror, so the sink is the perfect location. Even if you wash up after, you’ll feel dirtier leaving than when you came in.

Dressing Rooms

Dressing rooms are designed for you to undress, which is precisely why they’re one of the wildest places to hook up. Think about it; you’ve been dragged around a mall all day for things you didn’t want to buy; the least your partner could do is give you something sexy in return.

To perfect your dressing room hookup, you’ll need to ensure there’s no attendant at the entrance. Most places divide by gender, so you may need to do a little searching. Once you find that holy grail of dressing rooms, lock that door behind you and start taking things off.

One thing to keep in mind about getting sexy in a dressing room is that the lower half of the stalls are often not covered. So to keep people from wondering why they see two sets of legs, get your partner on the bench on all fours to enter full stealth mode. Make sure you slip out one after another, and who knows; you may want to head to Old Navy more than you ever expected.

The Woods

Ah, the great outdoors. Miles of lush landscape, thousands of trees, and not a soul around make mother nature one of the steamiest locations to do what only feels natural. So pack a picnic, hiking boots, and a blanket and hit the trail. The view will be highly worth it.

Pay attention here because there are many things to consider when taking your partner out into the wilderness. Poison Oak is the first that comes to mind, so “leaves of three let em’ be.” This advice could mean all the difference in what that fire in your loins really means. Pick your location well off a trail, away from anything that looks remotely like poison oak and is private on all sides.

Spread a blanket down if that sounds nice, or bend your partner over a tree to really learn about the birds and the bees. But, of course, no one will hear you if your location is perfect, and if they do, well, it’s bear season. Doesn’t this already sound better than looking at your ceiling back home?

Up High

The beauty of having sex in locations up high is that people rarely look up. These days everyone’s face down in their phones anyway, so it’s pretty unlikely they’ll look up at a rooftop and see you. There are some things to consider when choosing a prime rooftop.

The ideal rooftop should be flat. It’s already hard enough to navigate clothes half on and half off. A pitched roof will have one of you end up in the hospital. Find a nice flat roof that has a hidden but simple access point. If you know a friend who owns a business or has access to a private roof, ask them to get up on it. Say you’d like to watch the sunset with someone special.

Once you have the place to yourself, make sure you’re truly alone. Just because you’re on a roof, it does not mean no one can see you. Pay close attention to the surrounding buildings, particularly if one might be taller than the one you’re on. If the coast is clear, then get to it. Your partner will not soon forget you for taking your sex life to new heights.

Word of Caution:

While all these ideas are sure to get your sex life extra steamy and let you have a scandalous story to tell, you need to be careful. Getting caught having sex in public places can have some grave consequences. Make sure to check and double-check your location before getting naked. Be sure that there are no minors around. This experience should be etched in your mind forever, not your record. You want this to be a quickie, so wearing clothes with easy access can help. You’d be amazed at what a summer dress with no panties can do.

Now that you’ve got some inspiration to spice up your sex life with these crazy locations try to think of even more on your own. Text your partner with a location, have them meet you there, and then go your separate ways afterward. Bust out of the bedroom and into a new, fun, and sexy chapter of your sex life. Your lover will thank you!

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How to Use Sex Dating Sites on The Down Low

Sometimes you just want to find sex and date privately. This can be hard with sites like Tinder and POF. Adult FriendFinder makes exploring your fantasies easier than ever with their safe and secure website. Find out how you can use AFF and sites like it to find sex, hook up, and explore your naughtiest fantasies while avoided crowded spaces like bars and nightclubs.

Adult Dating

Some people may not know exactly what adult dating is. Adult dating or sex dating is a date that usually ends in sex if you and your partner want it too. With normal dating, you may have to see the person several times before you finally get to the fun stuff you want to do in the bedroom. With AFF adult dating there’s a higher chance that it ends in getting laid because that’s what the site is for! Most members on Adult FriendFinder are looking for hookups, threesomes, nude cam chats, and more adult-friendly content without the commitment of “normal” dating.

Looking For Sex

Looking for sex can be something you don’t want your friends and family to know you’re doing. It’s a private thing that isn’t as serious as a committed relationship. You may want to introduce your hookups to your family and friends or you might just want a fun one-night stand with no-strings-attached. Thankfully, you can do all of this plus so much more on Adult FriendFinder. There are thousands of members on AFF that want the same thing you do. They want to hook up and then go back to their normal lives. Explore member profiles, find hot local singles, and have your fun without having to see any of the people you normally would.

Exploring Fantasies

Most of the time when you have a fantasy or fetish, you may not want your family to find out. There is a stigma that comes along with things like BDSM, roleplay and more so those closest to you may not understand. AFF is a safe place to share all your naughtiest fantasies and find others that want to do the same things. There is no fear of your family or friends seeing you so you can share all the information you want, or stay totally anonymous until you find your perfect match. Talk about, read up on, and explore all your fetishes and fantasies right here!

Swinging With Other Couples

AFF is one of the largest platforms for couples that like to swing. You can join the site as a couple and let others know you want to swing and exactly how you want to do it. By joining as a couple and being able to view other couple’s profiles you don’t have to be nervous that Billy from work is going to see you at a swinger’s club or party (unless he’s into it). Joining AFF also takes all the guesswork out of approaching a couple. You know that they are here for the same thing you are by looking at their profile and messaging them before you ever meet!

No More Let Downs

Joining AFF helps you take the time and effort out of finding a hookup or partner to play with. Everyone is there for the same thing; they want to have sex and hook up with other local singles. There are sections of the site for swinging, threesomes, cybersex, one-on-one dates, and more. You have so many options without having to approach someone at a bar only to be shot down. There will likely be more “yes” on this site!

Cybersex

There is even an option for people that want to fool without having to meet in person or ever leave the house. Cybersex can be anything from naughty messages to getting on camera and having a play session with stripping, naughty talk, and masturbation. The cybersex part of the site can include cam shows and nude shows. As a member of AFF, you can host your own cam show and have people watch you, or you can watch another member’s cam shows. It’s the perfect way to get off while you are sheltering in place.

Erotic Stories

Writing and reading erotic stories can be a great way for you to get all your naughtiest thoughts and fantasies out without anyone ever knowing who you are. There is a section on AFF where you can read other member’s stories about their real-life hookups and fantasies. You can even write and share your own stories under a discreet username so if someone you know comes across it, they won’t know it’s you.

No More Loud Clubs And Bars

Using AFF for adult dating and sex dating means that you never have to go to a club or bar again to find a hookup. Clubs and bars can be expensive and time-consuming. You have to get dressed up, plus you need money for cover charges, drinks, and food. If you do find someone you find attractive, you may waste your money buying them a drink or two just for them to shut you down. Going home empty-handed is one of the worst ways to end your night sometimes. AFF fixes all of that for you by connecting you to people that want to hook up because that’s why they’re on the site. Signing up is free, easy, and anonymous!

AFF is your key to dating and finding what you want without having to put yourself out there like you normally would. On AFF there is no fear that your family and friends have to know or even see who you are hooking up with unless you want it to turn into something more serious. Explore all your fantasies and hook up with local singles in your area by joining now!

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Featured AFF Member – Lookinforfun1672

The world’s hottest singles and swingers are right here on Adult FriendFinder.com. In this new series, we’re highlighting our hottest members and getting their advice on how to make your AFF membership work for you. This week, check out our Q&A with Lookinforfun1672!

1. How long have you been an AFF member?

I’ve been a member since June 4, 2015.

2. What made you decide to join the site?

I tried a few other sites and a friend told me about Adult FriendFinder, so I tried it and haven’t looked back since!

4. What is your favorite thing about the site?

My favorite thing is going on the member cams and interacting with others.

5. Do you have any advice for new members who don’t know how to start mingling with people on the site?

Yes, don’t be shy like I was at first! Just be yourself and put yourself out there!

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How to Loosen Up Without Getting Tipsy On a First Date


Clubs and bars have always been popular places to meet people, mainly because having a drink or two can help lower inhibitions and make talking to strangers a little easier. With online dating sites, you’ve already made the effort to talk to potential dates before going out, so the bigger question is where to meet up for that first face-to-face encounter.  

If you choose to meet at a bar — or any other place that serves alcohol – you’ll be best served to limit your alcohol intake for a variety of reasons. Here are two dating stories that have been passed along to us that spell out some of the reasons that drinking too much on a first date can be a bad idea.

Cautionary Tale #1 – Joe and Marisa

My name is Joe, and I saw you were asking for stories from people about experiences drinking too much on a date. It was around four years ago where I learned my lesson about drinking too much on a date. I’d been talking with a woman online for about three months and was extremely interested in dating her. I hadn’t gotten around to asking her out on a date yet, mostly because I was nervous. When I finally did, we decided that going to a bar for karaoke was a fantastic idea. We both enjoyed karaoke when we were younger and figured that it would be great to reminisce, share stories, and sing some tunes.

Unfortunately, the experience didn’t turn out how I would’ve liked. The night started out great with us getting food at the bar before the karaoke host showed up. Sharing stories about our past karaoke experiences was fun and the food was pretty good too. We had both ordered our first drink of the night with dinner, and when the karaoke host arrived, we took the book and started chatting about our favorite musical artists and what songs we used to sing. I had prepared a song that I had never sung before because I was excited about going to karaoke and wanted something a little more recent. We put our songs in and both did a fantastic job singing our first one. We ordered another drink when karaoke started, and took a shot after we completed our first songs. We put more songs in, took more shots, and ordered more drinks.

Unfortunately, after I sang my second song I started feeling a bit sick. The last thing I remember is going into the bathroom and throwing up. I didn’t get anything on me, I remember that much, but what I don’t remember is the rest of the night. I sent her a note the following day and even though we had a fantastic time early in our date, I never heard from her again. Maybe it’s because her time at the end of the night wasn’t that great. It’s hard to say when you can’t even remember the entire second half of the night. She was a sexy woman and I missed my chance. It’s on my list of dating mistakes to avoid in the future for sure.

Cautionary Tale #2 – Double Date Surprise, Billy and Maddie

Billy and I had an online relationship that started with us meeting on an online dating website where we had been chatting for a good two months before planning our first date. One of my best friends suggested going on a double date and I thought it was a great idea since safety is always a priority when meeting people from the internet for the first time. We decided to keep it simple with dinner and a movie and picked a local steakhouse that was about 15 minutes away from the movie theater. It was opening weekend for a film we all wanted to see, “The Avengers.” As you can probably remember, there was a lot of hype surrounding the film and everybody wanted to see it. Being that it was opening weekend, we bought our tickets in advance and made reservations for 2 1/2 hours before the show to make sure that we had plenty of time to get there and find good seats. I spent at least an hour getting ready for a date for the first time in years.

My friend, her boyfriend, and I got to the restaurant about 10 minutes before we were slated to be seated. About two minutes after we sat down, Billy arrived. I was excited to see I was getting a hot date in every sense of the word, as he was well-dressed and had an amazing smile. My friend looked at me and smiled; we both knew it was going to be a fantastic date night. Or so we thought. Billy started with a drink, and then ordered another one when the appetizers arrived. Over the course of our meal he had four drinks, and since we still had some time left after dinner he decided to grab one more drink before heading to the movie theater. As he was finishing his last drink, Billy’s speech started slurring as the alcohol kicked in. He started feeling queasy and mentioned that he had a headache. A lot of the conversation on the date was great, but he ultimately decided that he was not in a good position to head to the movies. We ordered him an Uber and waited for it to arrive, and he went home. I guess the positive in this is that we were still able to get great seats to see the movie, which was fantastic. Since it came out, the three of us who actually made it there have seen pretty much every Marvel movie together.

It’s a shame that I was successful in getting a hot date only to have it ruined because he decided to drink so much. I guess I prefer people who know how much they can drink and are responsible; I learned a little bit about myself too I suppose.

Final Notes

Professionals recommend that people limit themselves to two drinks over the course of a date in the first two hours, and one drink every two hours after that if the date continues. The idea is to make sure you can keep up with digesting the alcohol, can drive safely to your next point, and are of sound judgment on your date. If you have a lower tolerance, drink less. If you have a higher tolerance, do not drink more. Get dates that are amazing and be smart. This can lead to second dates, which is a huge goal for online dating site members. Take advantage of these tips, and learn from these stories; drinking too much on a date is simply a bad choice!

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Featured AFF Member – HungMarine4Cpl

The world’s hottest singles and swingers are right here on Adult FriendFinder.com. In this new series, we’re highlighting our hottest members and getting their advice on how to make your AFF membership work for you. This week, check out our Q&A with HungMarine4Cpl!

1. How long have you been an AFF member?

I have been a member since AdultFriendFinder since I turned 18 in 2006.

2. What made you decide to join the site?

I joined the site because I wanted to open my mind to sex & because I had a crazy addiction to MILFS!

3. Tell us about your favorite AFF hookup.

My favorite AFF hookup was when I first got back to the US from being overseas. I met a couple when I was in Florida and we went to a nude beach together, had plenty of fun there, went back to their hotel room where I was first introduced to MMF and for me it was absolutely the best threesome I have had to this day.

4. What is your favorite thing about the site?

My favorite thing about AFF site is the ability to hotlist and flirt. I’ve found over my years on the site that hotlisting in my case has always shown someone that I’m interested. If I see they have responded with a hotlist or flirt I then make a move. It’s always worked out for me so it’s definitely my favorite part about the site.

5. Do you have any advice for new members who don’t know how to start mingling with people on the site?

Biggest advice I could give to new members would be to be yourself. Nothing bothers us more than someone lying or being fake. Be open about your likes/dislikes. This is sex not brain surgery, don’t complicate it. Also don’t feel like you have to learn it all now. Take time finding out what suits you and what you like. Most of all, have fun & make memories!

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AFF Member Erotic Stories — Jo, the Lawyer

I met Jo – a petite, 40-something qualified lawyer – at an industry event. Her hair was cut in a bob that framed her attractive face and her smile light up her eyes. Although she was no longer practicing law, she still did pro-bono work. She had moved into a related industry and was using her legal knowledge there as well. We worked in similar related industries and had a lot to talk about.

The next day I connected with her via social media. Her response to me included a suggestion to meet for coffee and have a catch up. I thought nothing of it as I usually meet business contacts for catch up meetings. A few weeks later we arranged to meet uptown for coffee. What I thought would be a 30-minute chat turned into a 2-hour coffee session.

We communicated regularly via email in the weeks that followed. Late one Wednesday, Jo phoned and sounded to be in a panic. She asked if I was free that weekend as she needed a partner for a wedding. My immediate response was to ask about her husband. When we first met, she was wearing a wedding band and engagement ring. She admitted that she divorced 4 years ago and wore that as a safety net to stop guys from hitting on her. Her current relationship ended a few weeks ago. I agreed to accompany her that weekend. It was only at the end of the call that she informed me we would be staying over at the hotel. Did I mind sharing a room, she asked.

After a very quick mental deliberation, I said it was fine. I collected Jo that Saturday and we made our way to the hotel. We changed into the appropriate clothes — I wore a standard lounge suit and Jo slipped on an off-the-shoulder black cocktail dress. It was quite snug fitting at the top with a flared bottom part. She looked stunning.

The wedding ceremony and reception passed uneventfully. The usual speeches and dancing took place. However, when it came to the slow dancing, we were both initially like two teenagers on their first date. How do we hold each other, how close? I took the initiative and pulled Jo close to me, feeling her breasts press softly into my chest. Wrapping my arms around her waist, I pulled her close to me with her head resting on my shoulder. Each time Jo spoke to me I could feel her warm breath on my neck and ear. Occasionally her lips touched my ear. This was starting to turn me on. I decided to see what would happen and did the same to her, making sure my lips touched her ear more often and also making sure they lingered there, almost kissing her. She did not object. I was concerned that Jo may be able to sense that I was getting an erection. If she did, she did not say anything or react. Maybe that is why she made sure we were holding each other close.

We returned to the room and Jo slipped into the toilet and I took my shoes off and lay on the bed. Jo returned and sat on top of me. She stated to undo my shirt buttons. I asked what she was doing. She told me to be quite as this was my present for agreeing to attend the wedding on short notice. She continued to undo my buttons. I tried to feel her legs. She stopped me. I tried to feel her breasts and she stopped me. Jo told me to lie still and not talk and to let her do all the work.

I was not used to being the submissive one. Once my shirt was undone, she moved to my belt and trousers. Once these were undone, she pulled them down, exposing my erect cock. Smiling, Jo moved her head towards my cock and began kissing and licking it. She then removed her dress, revealing her naked breasts. The dress she had on required no bra as it was one of those dresses with built in support. I noticed that she was completely naked. When she went to the toilet when we came back, she had removed her panties. Before I knew it, she had mounted me, Taking care to go down on my cock slowly, so she could get used to the feeling my cock. Her pussy was wet and so tight as my cock penetrated her for the first time. She grabbed my hands and placed then around her waist so that I could help her balance whilst she rode me, each time going down harder and deeper, bring us both to climax. Once she had climaxed, I could feel her juices trickle down my cock. My cum was also dribbling down, my cock still throbbing following my climax.

Jo leaned forward and we kissed what felt like for an eternity. She rolled off and lay next to me, her head on my chest and arms draped around me. We fell asleep like that. In the middle of the night, Jo got up to go to the toilet. I have always been and still am a light sleeper, so I stirred when she got up. Jo returned to bed and lay with her back to me. Out of habit, I snuggled up to her, spooning her. My arm draped around her and moved up between her breasts. She moved closer to me, pushing her hips into me. I though Jo was just making herself comfortable. Jo then started pushing her hips into me again, almost like she was slowly thrusting. This was turning me on, my cock started to become erect. At the same time, I could hear soft moans from Jo each time she pushed her hips into me.

I was not sure if she was dreaming or what, but I started to kiss her neck and play with her ear lobes with my tongue. I was kissing her neck, moving down and up her shoulder area. Her moans became louder. By now, my cock was fully erect and I was as horny as hell.

I positioned myself a bit lower down to Jo and guided my cock between her legs. She spread them for me, allowing me to enter her wet pussy from behind. I started slowly, thrusting gently before becoming more forceful. Holding her tightly, my thrusting and breathing became faster and harder. Jo was moaning louder now, pushing against me to create resistance as my cock fucked her pussy hard and deep. My hands moved to her breasts, fondling them, pulling at her nipples as she allowed me to fuck her. I came for the second time that night, filling her pussy once again. My cock throbbing as I shot cum and it started to dribble. Jo reached down with her hand, scooping some cum onto her fingers and licking them.

We departed that Sunday morning. We have met up again on a few occasions for chats. Occasionally we do have sex. We do not want to spoil something that seems special!


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Erotic Member Stories — Daydreaming

I’m in a mood today. Not even sure what it’s about or why. Got dressed and came to work…didn’t do anything unusual. I was reading emails when you messaged “Good Morning.” Then I looked down and realized I was in the tight, button-down white shirt I took a picture of open for our couples Adult FriendFinder profile and remembered how much you loved the photo.

I had unbuttoned the top button so the shirt popped open a bit more for you to see my cleavage when we started videoing. Your facial expression and reactions were so amazing. You know exactly how to make me feel so good about myself. Sometimes I realize I feed off the reactions. So watching you become excited made me more horny and then I have to go into work.
God, that mouth of yours. The fantasies I have of those lips and your tongue gliding off my lips…down my body kissing, licking and sucking down to my boobs.I can practically feel you teasing and latching onto my nipples, teasing and pulling with your teeth. Oh fuck! I…I wish I could explain the visions I’m having right now and how much my pussy is longing for you to make it down my body.

Opening my eyes…to appear to be working. My head cannot seem to stop. Imagining you, moving back up to my neck…moving my hair over to the side as you start to lick and suck on my neck as your fingers start to run my nipples through your fingers. I shut my eyes at this thought and that brings the vision of you sitting in front of me. Kissing and licking back down my body…caressing my belly and saying my “beautiful babygirl”as you head down in between my legs. Your beard whiskers gently ticking my thighs as you work up to where you want to be. Feeling your hands grasp my thighs and forcing them open more to give you full access.

You raise your head up and look at me… “Babygirl, now listen. I am going to take over your body. And you will NOT be shutting your legs or saying NO…do you understand?”  I let out a sigh because I’m so turned on by the instructions. I nod yes and quietly say “Yes, Sir.” I feel lost in my thoughts but when I feel your warm breathe in between my legs…my body shudders a bit.
I moan loudly as soon as I feel your hands holding my thighs open and feel your wet tongue run over my outer lips…circling and pressing down on my already swelling clit. I lean my body back and start to twist my nipples with my fingers. Oh my god! What you do to me.

“Fuck,” I scream as I feel your tongue moving quickly in and out of me. My thighs must have loosened up because I feel one of your hands start massaging my mound as you work on me with your tongue. Pushing slightly down and then the thumb adds pressure to my clit. “Ooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh”I manage to mumble. You raise your head and say, “Babygirl you all right?”

But the voice is different…I look up to see someone at my desk looking at me smiling. “Molly, are you ok? You look like you were in another world,” she says.” I blink a couple times…surprised,realizing you aren’t here. WOW ummmm…how you make me feel. Fuck! I say “Yes, I’m fine…just daydreaming I guess.

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Sex Toys Reviewed – We Vibe Nova

It’s hard to avoid the space puns when reviewing a toy called Nova, so we’re just going to get it all out of our system now: Blast off! Take a rocket to the orgasm zone! An explosion of pleasure awaits!

There, that’s better. Now we can get into the review.

The Basics and Not-So-Basics

The Nova is basically We-Vibe’s take on the rabbit-style vibrator, featuring dual vibrating heads — one for vaginal stimulation and one for clitoral stimulation.  We say “rabbit-style” because in the original dual-head vibrators, the smaller arm was often shaped like a rabbit with ticky vibrating “ears.”

It’s sheathed in hot pink silicone, with a contrasting white silicone handle. The advertising copy says its waterproof and encourages you to take it into the bath or shower, and the silicone sheathing means you’re less likely to lose your grip while fooling around.

How it Works

Each head’s vibration pattern and strength can be independently controlled either by buttons on the toy’s handle or via the We-Connect smartphone app. There are dozens of pattern variations to play with. The shorter clitoral arm is highly flexible, allowing it to stay in contact with your tender parts even as you move around. It also delivers consistently stronger vibrations than the g-spot arm.

The Nova isn’t quite “whisper-quiet” as advertised, but it’s still pretty low-noise. Especially compared to other toys on the market, so no worries that your neighbors might catch on to what you’re doing (although your moans of pleasure might still give it away).

The “Ins and Outs”

The controls are fairly intuitive – up and down to increase or decrease vibration strength, left or right to change the vibration pattern. You might have better luck finding them by feel than by sight however, as they’re little more than bumps and divots. In fact, it’s easy to mistake the little magnetic recharging port (clever!) for the control buttons if you’re the type who prefers to ditch the manual and dive in. Alas, pressing that shiny metal port will do you no good whatsoever.

That’s right — like other We-Vibe toys, Nova doesn’t require external batteries and is instead rechargeable via USB port. There’s a handy indicator light that will flash when you’re running low on power, which shouldn’t happen often, as Nova holds a charge for about two hours at a go. (It does take a full 90 minutes to recharge, though.)

The WeVibe App

Like other We-Vibes, you can sync this up to your smartphone via a downloadable app.  You can only sync up one We-Vibe toy at a time to the app, and the sync process can sometimes be a little tricky. But once you’re hooked up, you also have the option of letting your long-distance lover (whether they’re a room away or across the country) control your toy. It makes cam dates much more entertaining, I bet.

Final Thoughts

If you’ve been looking for a classier version of the classic rabbit vibe – or one that was waterproof – look no further. Nova is the toy you’ve been waiting for. If you find multiple points of stimulation more distracting than satisfying, or if you’re looking for deep, focused G-spot stimulation, the Nova probably isn’t for you.

I wouldn’t recommend a toy this pricey for rabbit-style newbies (test-drive a cheaper version first), but if you’re a double-your-pleasure fan looking for an upgrade, the Nova just might become your new best friend! The Nova retails for $149 and shipping is free on orders within the US over $50. Adult FriendFinder members also get a special 5% discount off their entire order with the coupon code AFFWEVIBE at checkout.

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