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The weather is getting nicer, and summer break is on the horizon. The winter vacationers have gone home, and the spring break party crowd is on patrol, looking for new experiences and excitement to get them through until summer. Now is the perfect time to head out on the swinger’s vacation you’ve wanted to try, but where should you go? 

Do you go to a swinger’s resort on an island somewhere or take to the ocean for a swinger’s cruise? Do you stick with nude beaches, or do you enjoy the nightlife of some of the hottest swinger clubs around the world? The world is calling your name. Where do you want to visit first?

Set Sail with Adult Cruises

“The ocean is everything I want to be. Beautiful, mysterious, wild, and free.” – The End of the Ocean, by Maja Lunde

Cruises are the perfect escape from landlocked boredom and an adventure that will bring you joy for years to come. Swinger Cruises, also called Lifestyle Cruises, combines the maturity level of adult-only cruises with the promiscuity and excitement of partner swapping, swinging, and any other form of polyamory you enjoy practicing. 

Companies like Bliss Cruises in Florida have international destinations in places like Jamaica, Mexico, and the Caribbean, with thousands of like-minded couples onboard to make the journey even more exciting. 

Other companies, like Lifestyle Cruises in Las Vegas, Nevada, provide global options for places like the French Riviera, Greece, Barcelona, and many other destinations. They have ports in multiple cities, so you can board wherever is closest, and they offer different comfort levels, ranging from clothing-optional cruises to cruises with speed dating and workshops to help you learn to connect with others.

Pamper Yourself with Swingers Resorts

“Sunset to sunrise, a resort vacation unwinds time, letting spontaneity and joy lead the way.” -Anonymous

Swinger and adult-only resorts are some of the most widely popular swingers’ vacation options and can be found in some of the most beautiful locations worldwide. Here are some of the most popular resorts for your next vacation:

Desire Riviera Maya Resort in Mexico is a clothing-optional location for couples and singles who want to explore their desires with polyamory in a sensual and erotic environment. The all-inclusive resort features themed nights for parties and meeting other partners, sexy playrooms to use and experiment with different furniture, and a welcoming, judgment-free zone for swingers and like-minded individuals. Desire Resort also has a popular location in Spain for European attendees.

Hedonism II is located in Negril, Jamaica. This adults-only resort has a clothing-optional policy and a sexual buzz that encourages intimacy and personal sexual liberation. Hedonism II vacationers can enjoy a wide range of activities and events focused on the swinger lifestyle, including group activities, themed parties, and plenty of other like-minded people who create a community-like atmosphere throughout the resort. It’s also home to the popular yearly event, Young Swingers Week. 

La Mirage Swingers Complex is located in Gran Canaria, Spain, in the Canary Islands. This complex offers a destination for couples 18 years and older who enjoy the swinger lifestyle. Guests can enjoy swimming pools, hot tubs, themed event nights, and clothing-optional areas throughout the complex. The surrounding area also provides a welcoming attitude to every relationship dynamic and lifestyle so visitors can explore the area openly. 

Cap d’Agde, France: Often referred to as the “Naked City,” Cap d’Agde is a naturist resort located on the Mediterranean coast of France. While not exclusively swinger-focused, Cap d’Agde is known for its liberal attitudes toward nudity and sexuality, making it a popular destination for swingers looking to enjoy a clothing-optional beach and a vibrant nightlife scene.

The City is Calling Your Name

“Dare to live the life you’ve always wanted. Travel, explore, and find the fun in every adventure.” -Anonymous

Finding entire cities or towns that are open and accommodating to the swinger and polyamorous lifestyle can be a struggle if you don’t know where to look. However, certain cities stand out as accepting of polyamory, as well as their nightlife scene, so you can meet like-minded couples or individuals for some fun and adventure!

New Orleans, Louisiana, is a staple vacation city known for its vibrant nightlife, liberal attitudes, and adventurous way of life. It is a popular vacation and travel destination for swingers who want to explore the city’s diverse and open-minded culture. The town hosts swinger-friendly events, poly-friendly clubs, and wild parties throughout the year, particularly during special events like Mardi Gras and the annual Naughty in N’awlins lifestyle convention.

Famous for its “hedonistic” party scene, Ibiza, Spain, attracts travelers from around the world who crave sun, fun, and freedom in every sexual and physical sense. While not necessarily swinger-focused specifically, Ibiza offers a lively nightlife experience with clubs, beach parties, and events where swingers can connect and explore their desires in a relaxed and open-minded environment with like-minded partners.

Miami, Florida, has sunny beaches, glamorous and wild nightlife, and a vast population with liberal attitudes toward sexuality. Miami is a popular destination for swingers and other non-monogamous or non-traditional lifestyles who seek to indulge in a fun and adventurous vacation while enjoying the wild party scenes. The city hosts swinger-friendly clubs, parties, and events, with South Beach being the main polyamory thoroughfare. 

Spotting the Swingers Who Want You

It’s easy to spot other swingers and potential partners looking for fun, and many of the signs are decades-old methods that draw the eyes of like-minded individuals without tipping off those who aren’t interested. Here are a few popular methods swingers use today to display their desire to meet others. 

Some swingers, especially when they are alone or single, currently wear a black ring on their right hand as a symbol of their involvement in swinging or other non-monogamous lifestyles. A black ring doesn’t always mean this, of course, but the symbol became more commonly used in the early 2000s to signal to other swingers that they are looking for fun.

On a more current and global level, the pineapple is a recently popularized swinger symbol that has been around for a long time. It is frequently used in swinger resorts and cruise ships where the pineapple can be rotated for two different meanings. The pineapple for hopeful swingers is typically right-way up, and an upside-down pineapple signifies those actively swinging. In community neighborhoods and homes, an upside-down pineapple by the door signals a home where swingers actively seek other swinger couples. Pampas grass is also commonly used in places like the UK, where pineapples are difficult to find. 

For the mature community, retirement neighborhoods and communities have begun displaying loofahs when they are seeking out other swingers or polyamorous relationships. The trend started in Florida and has begun spreading across the USA, with different colored loofahs having different meanings when displayed openly. Some examples include a yellow or black loofah for swinger couples seeking other swingers, teal indicates they are bisexual, and pink loofahs indicate they enjoy when people watch them having sex.

Now that you know where to go and how to spot future partners, enjoy your next adventure!

If you aren’t a gaming nerd, you may still have heard about “Baldur’s Gate 3.” Not just because it’s the hottest video game of the year but also because it’s filled with all kinds of sex!

“Baldur’s Gate 3” is a roleplaying video game (RPG) developed and published by Larian Studios. While the game primarily focuses on the epic adventure and perilous quests typical of the RPG genre, it also incorporates elements of romance that add depth and complexity to the character interactions. 

So much so that when the game was first released, players had to choose from different genitalia during their character creation. Male characters could even decide if their character was “cut” or “uncut” when it came to choosing what kind of dick their character was packing beneath his plate mail. 

Companion Video Game Romances

“Baldur’s Gate 3″ features a cast of diverse and intriguing companions who accompany the player on their journey. These companions have their own unique personalities, backstories, and quest lines, which players can explore as they progress through the game.

Unlike many other games, Baldur’s Gate also includes romance options with many companions, allowing players to develop deeper connections that often result in cut scenes of their character having sex with the NPC of their choice.

Who Can You Have Sex With In Baldur’s Gate? 

Astarion is a male vampire spawn with a dark past. He approaches you in camp and is willing to suck on your neck or much more if you ask him nicely.

The pretty brunette Shadowheart is a cleric with perfect tits and a mysterious past full of secrets all her own. Railing her under the moonlight feels especially empowering while her deity watches you from above.

Lae’zel the Githyanki Warrior, has a strong sense of duty and is a take-charge kind of lover who leaves you sore and broken every time she finishes using you for sex. 

That’s just a few of the possibilities of characters you can fuck in camp between the quests of your persistent campaign, and multiplayer lets your friends join in on the fun as well (though there is no in-game method for boning your human teammates online). 

Dynamic Story Makes The Sex More Intimate

The romantic possibilities in “Baldur’s Gate 3″ are not static. Each evolves based on player choices and interactions. Your relationship with potential romantic partners can change as you make decisions throughout the game. Engaging in meaningful conversations, making choices aligned with their interests, and even participating in romantic scenes can influence the progression of your romantic relationship.

That goes for NPCs as well, which players will note when they visit a blighted village full of goblins only to stumble upon a bugbear and his huge troll of a wife going at it full depth in a dark hut on the edge of town.

Game Makers Are Learning Sexual Character Development Matters

Romance in “Baldur’s Gate 3” adds depth to the character development of the player and companions. These relationships provide insight into the vulnerabilities, fears, and desires of the characters, making them more relatable and multi-dimensional.

To pursue a romance in the game, players may need to complete companion-specific quest lines or navigate conflicts and challenges within the narrative. These quests often involve making choices that align with the companion’s values and personal goals.

The romances in “Baldur’s Gate 3” also have a narrative impact, affecting how certain storylines unfold and how the companions respond to your character’s decisions. Successful romances can lead to special moments and dialogues that deepen the emotional connection.

In these ways, the game’s design of sexual encounters also encourages player agency, allowing you to decide whether or not to pursue romantic relationships. Your choices can lead to different outcomes, including rejection, friendship, or romance.

Multiplayer Campaigns Get Even Hotter After You Log Out

Playing together online is one thing, but on a LAN with your computers just a few feet away from each other, a game like “Baldurs Gate” may be the right way to set the mood.

Are you the cute tribal shaman ready to cure him by sucking out the illithid mind flayer poison? Perhaps you are more of the strong female paladin ready to protect and satisfy him as you use your ability to lay on hands to heal him? Would you lay back and relax as your vampiric lover takes his time nibbling his way down from your neck to drink your nectar?

The roleplay and cosplay possibilities are endless when you play a game together for hours and share all the same references to the source material in such intimate ways.

Playing Together Is An Important Part of Any Arrangement

Why try to compete with your lover’s hobbies when you can choose instead to be an important part of them? You don’t want him thinking about the sexy female Tiefling barbarian Karlach while he is fucking you. You want him thinking about you while his character is fucking her!

Put a couple of hours into the game with them, even if they continue independently. You’ll have imprinted yourself in their minds indelibly, leaving your mark on their hobby over the next 100 hours as they fight demons, have sex with rogues, and come back so juiced up all they can think about is having the chance to completely satisfy you… again!

The surprising connection between orgasms and skin health. 

While the benefits of orgasms are well known for the positive effect they have on emotional well-being and intimacy, there’s also a link between orgasms and great skin. 

Orgasms often bring a set of physiological responses, including improved blood circulation, hormonal balance, and stress reduction. All these factors contribute to healthier skin. Perhaps orgasms hold the power to provide both inner ecstasy and outer beauty. This article discusses the holistic benefits of our intimate moments, which can have lasting effects far beyond what we know. It’s almost as if because it feels so good to cum hard and plenty, the orgasm has other far-reaching benefits that continue way after the sweet release. 

1. Stress relief and glowing skin: the impact of orgasms on cortisol levels 

Orgasms help reduce stress and improve your physical and emotional state. The feel-good brain chemicals dopamine, endorphins, and oxytocin are released during orgasms. All of these feel-good chemicals help reduce stress and cortisol levels. Oxytocin invokes feelings of connectedness and love. Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that assists with motivation, such as reaching a goal, and rewards you once you reach that goal. Endorphins are chemicals that elevate mood and are usually released during highly pleasurable experiences such as orgasms and the “runner’s high.” 

Imagine feeling all these good chemicals at once when you cum! The rush of stress relief is said to benefit and improve skin health, so go ahead and cum more often, as it may affect your skin and improve its radiance. 

2. Collagen Production and Anti-Aging: Orgasms’ Effect on Skin Elasticity

Collagen is the protein created to maintain your skin’s elasticity. If your body needs to make more collagen, you may need to take supplements, and they’re not inexpensive. The more collagen your body produces, the higher your skin’s elasticity. Luckily, there are some natural ways to produce collagen in your body, such as orgasms. 

When you have an orgasm, your body produces estrogen, which helps the production of collagen and helps to keep your skin’s elasticity in place. You can forget all the expensive supplement options and orgasm more to get the release of collagen you need. 

3. Incorporating Pleasure into Your Self-Care Routine: Prioritizing Orgasms for Skin and Overall Wellness

Self-care is a multi-faceted realm where you get to decide what to add to your routine to make yourself feel good inside and out, which can include a variety of actions, including pleasure and orgasms. We already know the benefits of orgasms for mental and physical health, including skin health, so now we must incorporate it into our routine. 

Having orgasms may also motivate you to do other healthy things like eating better, increasing or starting an exercise routine, and working on your happiness. Feeling good is always a wonderful thing, and the benefits of orgasms make it easy to see why it’s crucial to make it a priority. 

4. Understanding Your Body and Its Unique Responses: Customizing Your Approach to Better Skin

Understanding your body’s unique responses will help you gain better skin as you approach your skincare in a way that provides you maximum benefit. It’s important to observe your skin and understand your skin type. 

Several skin types include oily, dry, normal, combination, and sensitive. All types of skin benefit from daily washing with a cleanser and moisturizer. Once you recognize your skin type, you can get the right products that match it. 

Another way to keep your skin glowing and healthy is to develop healthy habits such as drinking 8-12 glasses of water daily, exercising regularly, having positive social experiences, and getting proper sleep. `Orgasms also help you sleep more soundly, reduce stress, and make you feel fantastic. By enjoying yourself sexually with a partner or via masturbation (or a combination), you can cum often and benefit from the pleasure you experience through orgasms. 

5. Exploring Different Pathways to Pleasure: Solo and Partnered Practices for Skin Benefits

There are hundreds of ways and pathways to orgasm and experience intense pleasure. Exploring what feels best for you is a journey that will bring you happiness, healthy skin, and positive well-being. 

You can explore by yourself and learn what turns you on. Partnered play also is plenty of fun as you can explore pleasure with someone else and see how much you can orgasm as well as how much you can help your partner to cum.

Solo practices allow you to try whatever turns you on without having to cater to or worry about someone else’s sexual ideas. In contrast, partnered experiences will enable you to have connected, fun, and varied experiences and explore pleasure with another person. Of course, partnered experiences are the combination of you and another person. Both are wonderful and provide an extensive range of pleasure. So, go ahead and explore what’s right for you and fulfill yourself with orgasms for improved health. 

Final Thoughts: Embracing Pleasure for a Holistically Vibrant You

Orgasms can benefit you in a myriad of ways. It’s well-known for the immediate effects on mood, stress relief, and overall pleasure one receives from orgasms. However, orgasms are also beneficial for your skin health, and prioritizing orgasms can be the ticket to improved health both inside and out. Whether you want to increase collagen production in your body naturally or want your skin to look radiant and healthy, instead of buying expensive creams and supplements, make sure you are increasing the pleasure in your life via orgasms and reap the benefits. 

The changing seasons bring a sense of adventure and excitement—it’s the perfect time to spice up your love life. Whether you’re single and ready to mingle or already in a relationship, going over your fall hookup horoscope can be the key to finding romantic connections that align with your astrological sign. So, let’s dive into the world of astrology and find out what the stars have in store for you this fall!

**Aries (March 21-April 19): The Fiery Flame of Passion**

Aries, you are fiery and impulsive! That nature makes you irresistible this fall. You’ll radiate confidence and charm, attracting potential partners with ease. Your infectious energy and enthusiasm make you the life of any party, which makes it easy for you to make connections. Just be careful not to rush too quickly into anything without considering the long-term consequences of it!

**Taurus (April 20-May 20): The Sensual Lover**

Taurus, your fall hookup horoscope prediction is a sensual and intimate season ahead. You embody comfort and stability, making your potential partners feel safe and secure around you. Your down-to-earth nature makes it so that you can take time to build relations based on trust and mutual understanding. This fall, indulge in the relationships that bring you the most emotional satisfaction and physical pleasure.

**Gemini (May 21-June 20): The Social Butterfly**

Gemini, your vibrant and adaptable personality makes you the social butterfly of the season. This fall, you’ll find yourself surrounded by a whirlwind of potential partners. But take heed! Your intellectual conversations and quick wit will attract those who appreciate your stimulating company. Embrace new opportunities and connections this season, but remember to ground yourself in authentic connections. This is important so that you can maintain your vibrancy!

**Cancer (June 21-July 22): The Emotional Connection Seeker**

Cancer, you’re nurturing and intuitive nature longs for deep emotional connections this fall. While this is true nearly all the time you find yourself single, it will be especially true this fall. You seek a partner who can understand and support your emotional needs. Take this season to focus on building long-lasting relationships based on trust, empathy, and genuine connection. Avoid rushing into affairs that do not fulfill your emotional desires.

**Leo (July 23-August 22): The Charismatic Lover**

Leo, your magnetic personality shines bright! With your natural confidence and charisma, potential partners will be drawn to your presence like moths to a flame. Enjoy the attention, but remember to give equal importance to others’ needs and desires. This season is about finding a balance between indulging in your desires and maintaining harmonious relationships. It does no good for you to find the one if you drive them away!

**Virgo (August 23-September 22): The Analytical Dater**

Virgo, this fall is the perfect time for you to use your analytical skills when it comes to dating. You value practicality and efficiency, so go ahead and make sure that your potential partners meet your high standards. Embrace connections that offer stability and intellectual stimulation. Your mind craves that. However, remember that no one is perfect, and being open to imperfections can lead to unexpected romantic encounters.

**Libra (September 23-October 22): The Diplomatic Matchmaker**

Libra, your knack for diplomacy and harmony will make you the ultimate matchmaker. You’ll naturally attract likely partners who value your ability to create a peaceful and balanced space. Highlight building connections that offer equality, understanding, and companionship. This will be your best bet. This season, prioritize emotional balance and seek harmony in your relationships.

**Scorpio (October 23-November 21): The Seductive Enigma**

Scorpio, your mysterious and intense aura will draw others towards you this fall. Prospective partners will be magnetically attracted to your energies this time of year. Embrace the passionate connections, but be sure to communicate your boundaries and desires clearly. This season, explore the depths of your sensuality and embrace vulnerability with trustworthy people.

**Sagittarius (November 22-December 21): The Adventurous Explorer**

Sagittarius, your daring spirit makes you thrive! You’re looking for partners who share your love for exploration and excitement. Hold on to any opportunities to meet new people and have thrilling experiences. Remember, they are hard to see if you aren’t looking!
Also, be mindful of maintaining a balance between the intensity of connection and the freedom you value dearly.

**Capricorn (December 22-January 19): The Pragmatic Seeker**

Capricorn, your practical and goal-oriented nature will guide your romantic choices this fall. Look for partners who support your ambitions and desire for stability. Relationships that offer emotional security and shared values will most likely appeal to you this season. Be open to letting your guard down and let love find you in unlikely places. Remember, you can’t keep a love you drove away!

**Aquarius (January 20-February 18): The Unconventional Lover**

Aquarius, your love for all things unique and strange will set the tone for your romantic pursuits this fall. Accept ties to people that challenge societal norms and allow for individuality. Open yourself to new experiences and connections, but remember to balance your independence with the intimacy that deep connections require. A shallow connection will not best serve you!

**Pisces (February 19-March 20): The Dreamy Romantic**

Pisces, your dreamy and compassionate nature makes you a hopeless romantic this fall. Your intuitive abilities attract potential partners who are captivated by your gentle and empathetic personality. Embrace relationships that allow you to express your emotions freely and bring out your creative side. This season, focus on finding connections that fulfill your imagination and deeper desires.

So, your fall hookup horoscope can provide insight into the type of people you’re looking for based on your astrological sign. However, it’s important to remember that astrology is just one lens through which we can view our romantic lives. Ultimately, it’s up to you to embrace the opportunities, maintain that open communication, and nurture the relationships that bring you the most happiness and fulfillment this fall season. Now, get out there!

Many of us aren’t ready for the party to end after the Fourth of July. We spend so much time, money, and physical exertion to honor the U.S. on this day by celebrating with beer, fireworks, and emergency hospital visits, but where does that leave us on July 5th? Tired, hungover, and forced to clean up a mess? Yay!

But what if the world could offer you much more in July than one party? Do you think you could accept the challenge of finding a way to celebrate at least five special days set aside for fun in America’s Unofficial Holiday Calendar? The coolest thing about these holidays is that, yes, many of these days do have an important purpose, to bring awareness to an issue that’s important to many people. Still, we’re Americans and can honor our personal understanding of freedom in July. 

To many Americans, freedom means individuality, sexual liberation, and sparkling explosions in the night sky. It can be a wild ride, but someone has to do it. And you can. Let’s keep the party open for the rest of the month, shall we?

World/National Kissing Day, July 6

Our first holiday, World Kissing Day, is also referred to as National Kissing Day. It’s the day we show loved ones we care with a big ol’ smooch, even if it’s just on the cheek. It’s also a great day to experiment and see if kissing is indeed the gateway drug to sex, as many junior high sex-ed textbooks would have you believe.

Experiment with your kissing skills and try some new tricks while you’re at it. Practice by kissing your loved one all over their body and communicating with each other about how it makes you feel. You’ll burn calories, relieve stress, and increase your natural immunity to disease. Who knows where else it will lead?

Do it for the kissing. Do it for science. Do it for your country.

National Nude Day/ National Tape Measure Day/ Pandemonium Day, July 14

National Nude Day allows you to embrace your body and walk around naked and confident all day (just not out in public in the U.S.). You can also encourage others to let it all hang out and love themselves, just as they should. WARNING: Nakedness has been known to lead to general debauchery and sexual exploration. Have fun!

National Tape Measure Day is a celebration of a handy tool you can use to measure the length and width of things all over the house. If your partner has a penis, you can put any worries or ego trips to rest by measuring it once and for all. Measure the extra space in your basement to see if you have room for the sex swing you want to order. Use it to measure the door frames before ordering any other large toys for the bedroom. Keep it handy; you never know when you may need it. 

National Pandemonium Day is an excellent holiday for proud hedonists who enjoy a little chaos in their sex lives. This is a most beautiful day for an orgy. Invite some like-minded friends, throw a tarp on the floor, and ensure that there’s plenty of drink, food, and lube to keep the energy up and the friction down. Amp up the chaos by having everyone wear a blindfold. You may not know whose junk you’re fiddling with at the moment, but that’s okay. The purpose of this day may not be to learn how to control the chaos, but instead, try embracing it and going with the flow. 

Fifty points if you can find a way to celebrate all three of these holidays at once. As they say, you’re only limited by your imagination. 

Toss Away the Could Haves and Should Haves Day, July 16

This holiday may sound more like Marie Kondo’s birthday, but the day is actually for getting rid of the ‘what if’ feelings that ruminate in our minds:

Should I have bought the Toyota instead of the Chevy? Could I have been chosen for that job instead of this other person? I should have bought that other vibrator; this one isn’t doing what it should/could? And the ever-popular: I should have worn a condom!

Ignore the past and concentrate on your future decisions. Let go of what doesn’t bring you joy. Move on from old hook-ups that have gotten stale and start looking for what, or who, you want to do right now. If you have someone, invite them over. If you’re alone, jump online and find someone to spend the day with. Regret is a bad place to make your home, and the cost of living there is much too high. Instead, try out new things, people, positions, and adventures.

You can treat this day as your sex life’s New Year’s Eve and make a resolution or two. Out with the old and in with the new exciting possibilities, practices, and routines. Your new sex life begins now.

Gorgeous Grandma Day, July 23

Have you heard of a GILF? Back in the 90s, American Pie and Stifler’s gorgeous mom taught us what a MILF is. But what is a GILF?

On Gorgeous Grandma Day, a GILF is a Grandma I’d Love to Fuck. If you’re into cougars, pumas, and other crazy cat names they have for older women who enjoy the sexual talents and seemingly unlimited stamina of a younger person, then this is your day. There are adventurous grandmas out there that don’t spend all their time knitting sweaters and finding suitable mates for their children/grandchildren. Grannies want to have fun too. They’re experienced, knowledgable, and comfortable in their skin. They also carry small candies in their purse and will still give you a dollar for the ice cream man. 

When you’re over 18, age is just a number. So gorgeous Grandma Day is a win for everyone. 

National Hire A Veteran Day, July 25

It comes as no shock to anyone that too many of our veterans are neglected and ignored when they come home. While July 25th is a day for HIRING a veteran, not all of us have hiring capabilities for paid jobs. But we can show our appreciation in other ways.

A short unpaid internship may brighten their outlook and put a spring in their step. So what do you need them to do? Check out the strength and durability of your mattress? Monitor your water pressure in the shower (of course, you would need to be in there too. Safety in numbers.)? Help you set up the sex swing you bought last week? The entire goal is to say thank you by giving something back in return for your freedom, even if it’s just a blow job. 

Check us out the member groups and advice lines for more ideas, and have fun this month!

Last night was wild, with a coworker and I going on an impromptu date that ended with amazing sex at his place. This was uncharted territory, and I hadn’t even brought a change of clothes because I didn’t anticipate spending the entire night at his place. So I woke up early, planted a kiss on William’s lips, and let him know I had a wonderful time but had to get a change of clothes.

William wished me safe travels, and I headed out, glad I lived nearby. The sense of adventure many Sagittarius sun signs have was fun, though I also hoped I would not be too late for work.

I was still thinking about how passionate the night before was when I got home. In about an hour, we’d be at work together, and while I knew there were no expectations for what I should wear, I still wanted to dress to impress. 

I threw on a body con dress that was sexy yet still office appropriate and headed into the office. I was only a few minutes late, so we were already off to a good start. A few people in the office complimented me on my outfit, lifting my spirits even further. William had already gotten to the office, and we smiled as we passed each other. He and I had our own offices, though they were on opposite sides of the building. William worked in analytics, and I was a legal assistant.

Occasionally, our paths would cross, though most of the time, we would not see each other for days at a time. Finally, about an hour into the day, William sent a note asking if I wanted to do lunch. We continued some of the conversations from the previous night, and William also let me know that we would be working more closely on upcoming projects together. 

I was happy to hear the news, though I was not expecting him to ask me to come to his office that afternoon. Sure, I was still sore from the night before, but something about our connection kept me so freaking horny.

The second I saw him and heard his voice, our playful banter about fucking in the office jumped to the forefront of my mind and stayed through lunch and over the whole afternoon. We had set our meeting up for 3 o’clock, and with it being a Friday, a number of people had already left the office by then.

Like any Sagittarius sun sign, I love passion and see creativity as a big positive in the bedroom. That’s likely why I always tend toward longer sex sessions with people I have connected with in the past. Though I did not expect anything to happen, partially due to my tendency to be quieter about expressing my emotions and fantasies with others, I decided to be a little naughty and remove my panties before heading to our meeting. 

William was not my boss, though he had been with the company for several years longer than I had. I valued his advice and, as of last night, valued his talents and creativity in the bedroom as well. Excited to have met another Sagittarius to bond with, there was still a sense of mystery as to what would happen next. We both expressed interest in a second date, though due to my recent breakup, I had been, before our first date, thinking about mainly just having hookups and no strings attached fun. Could I be overthinking things? Either way, I would make the most of our passionate moments as they came.

One major benefit of the offices in our building is the lack of inside windows. There were wall-to-wall windows toward the outside, but fortunately, our offices were pretty high up, and people on the outside were unlikely to see inside while we were there. 

As I entered William’s office, I sat at his desk and looked around. I had been in the office many times before, though this time was different. As we started discussing our overlapping projects, I found my mind wandering. 

I thought about what it would be like to fuck on his desk, bent over his chair while looking over the window, and in various other scenarios. William noticed me daydreaming and asked if I was tired. I told him I was, though he could tell there was another reason for my daydreaming. 

One of the many things I liked about him is his straightforward nature. While many Sagittarius sun signs are not great at communicating emotions and being more forward, William was an exception. He asked what else I was thinking about, and I wanted to be honest. This was a relationship, casual or not, that I wanted.

I confessed that I was thinking about the many different places and ways we could have sex in the office. I told him it was a fun fantasy, even if it might be too risky to try out. William smiled, thanked me for my honesty, and continued discussing what we needed to do to complete these projects. After that, we worked on a few things, chatted more about life and our upbringing, and got a lot done. 

Before I knew it, the day was done. Both of us were on salary, making 5 o’clock the time of day we generally started to head home. It was already 5:30, however, as we had been distracted by our fantastic conversations. William got up, went over to the door, cracked it open, and peeked out. “The office is practically empty,” he stated. Then, closing the door, he locked it and came over to where I was sitting. Kneeling next to my chair, he looked at me and continued, “I wonder what else we can work on.” 

William was a good communicator, even when it came to fantasies and desires. Having talked about how fun it could be to get it on in the office just last night, it seemed the stars aligned yet again.

William reached between my legs as I sat in the chair facing his desk. His reaction when he noticed I was not wearing any panties was priceless. He smiled, tracing his finger around me, and my light moans made my desires even more apparent. 

William stood up, motioning for me to do the same. I stood, standing just a few inches shorter than he was. Looking up into his eyes, I went up on my toes to give him another kiss. Suddenly, my feet were in the air, wrapping around him. William had picked me up, and suddenly my head was above his, kissing down towards him. I pulled away, looking down at his beautiful blue eyes as he walked me toward the desk. Laying me on it, he started to unbutton his pants. William was already hard, pulling on his pants and spreading my legs. “We have to be very quiet,” he told me. “I know. I can,” I replied. I wasn’t sure I could pull it off, but I was so turned on that I knew I had to try. If necessary, I’d pull his hand over my mouth when the time came.

Will was already hard, I was already wet, and my body was feeling the cold wood on top of his desk through my dress, which I was still wearing. We were at work, and a coworker could knock on the door at any point, asking for a stapler or pencil or maybe just popping in with a question. Dripping and ready, the possibility of being caught made me want to fuck even more. 

William slowly positioned his body and penetrated my wet spot. With his hips moving back and forth as he moaned, I tilted my head and looked out the window. While he pushed inside me, I could almost feel myself orgasm right then and there…

Have you ever seen an upside-down pineapple at someone’s house and wondered what that was all about? Sure, pineapples can be a wonderful addition to your tropical decor, but the upside-down pineapple means something a whole lot sexier. 

For many, the meaning of pineapples is a celebration of warmth, and hospitality. Flip the pineapple upside down, however, and you suddenly have the international symbol for swinging. 

Yes, Pineapples. 

For many years, pineapples have been used as a way to honor guests in businesses, hotels, restaurants, and more. In fact, pineapples were prominent in the 18th and 19th centuries when the hospitality industry used them as central parts of large food displays. Since then, they’ve also been used to decorate tapestries, napkins, and even pineapple-shaped string lights to set the tone at a summertime soiree. 

In more recent years, however, pineapples have been used as symbols of swinging. No one knows precisely how this use of pineapples came to be, but these days, seeing an upside-down pineapple is a telltale sign that swingers are near. 

All About Pineapples

This article isn’t a book report on pineapples, we promise. But if we’re to understand how the use of them as a symbol for swingers came about, we should take a brief look at the history first. Pineapple has been cultivated in South America for centuries and was introduced to Europe sometime in the 17th century. After it arrived in other parts of the world, commercial growth started, and they became more prominent in greenhouses. The fruit is good for health, has a lot of fiber, and possesses anti-inflammatory properties. It’s also a little-known fact that drinking pineapple juice makes bodily fluids taste sweeter when consumed regularly. 

Pineapples are associated with wealth, luxury, nobility, hospitality, royalty, and beauty. In addition, being a unique fruit, people love the playful attitude it brings as a decoration or embellishment.

All About Swingers 

Swinger, as a term, is commonly associated with couples in the lifestyle. However, the term swinger can also mean “a fashionable and lively person who goes to a lot of social events,” as well as “a married couple or individual who engages in group sex, wife swapping, or the swapping of sexual partners.”

As for how swinging got started, Wikipedia suggests it was American military communities who began swapping partners during the 1950s. As time progressed, the Summer of Love and Swinging 70s ushered in a new era where “key parties” made partner swapping even more acceptable in sexually liberated circles. 

Where Do Pineapples Fit In?

Though no one can say for sure how upside-down pineapples became the symbol for swinging, some think it’s because pineapples have long been associated with welcoming environments, warmth, and hospitality. The same symbolism is associated with swinging and like-minded people who want to welcome new partners into their lives, explore new relationships, and more. So, for many, the pineapple is turned upside down in swinger symbolism to help correlate it with swinging rather than the typical symbolism pineapples usually have. 

How to Use the Upside Down Pineapple as a Swinger

Some swingers wear pineapple print shirts to show their love of the lifestyle, while others do so simply because they want to look like the fun guy at the family luau. How you approach the conversation is essential if you want to figure out who is who. Asking, for example, whether the pineapples on someone’s shirt have significance can be a way to open up a conversation. This is one of many reasons people tend to utilize upside-down pineapples rather than those that are right-side-up. If you’re wearing a pineapple print shirt with an upside-down pineapple, you’ll likely be identified as a person looking for a swinger party by other swingers. Tact in conversation is always essential, though. 

If you’re at an event, on a cruise, or want people to know you’re open to swinging no matter where you are, then the upside-down pineapple gets the message across. Putting an upside-down pineapple on your front door sends the message that a swinger party is going on inside or the people living in the household are interested in swinging. On a cruise, sometimes people put upside-down pineapple magnets or symbols on their cruise cabin door. This can also mean that people are looking for a swinger party or having one of their own.

Other Swinger Symbols to Know About

Pineapples on top of a mailbox or a front porch can signify a swinger party. Upside-down pineapples on jewelry, shirts, and stockings can mean someone is looking for a swinger partner. Some people utilize toe rings as a way to communicate that they are swingers as well. Also, some married couples or individual partners swap their wedding rings from their left hand to the right hand as another way to identify that they’re swingers. 

Other symbols include garden gnomes, pink flamingos, metal stars on the front of the house, and more. There are many ways people can communicate that they’re a swinger, and many swinger couples use more than one. 

How do you let others know you’re interested in swinging?

Ah, winter – when you find a nice full-bodied drink to warm your insides and hide from the cold weather. What could be better than sitting by the fire with friends, sipping whisky, and playing good old-fashioned drinking games?

When it’s a quiet night, though, and it’s only you and your partner, you can still play plenty of drinking games, but sexier! So, if you need a few ideas, keep reading for the sexiest drinking games we could find.

Can’t Keep a Straight Face

This can be played a few different ways, but the premise of the game is to keep a poker face at all costs. Players take turns reading something highly erotic and try not to laugh or make any expressions. You could read porn scripts, erotic passages of a romance novel, or prewritten fantasies that you’ve each written out using as much graphic detail and dirty language as possible.

Players have up to 30 seconds to read and try to make their partner laugh, smirk, cringe, or make any other face. If the reader can’t change their partner’s expression, they drink. If their partner laughs or makes a face, their partner drinks. Either way, someone always drinks!

20 Questions, Adult Version

The adult version of the game puts a naughty and fun twist on this classic. Just as in the classic version, one person thinks of a person, place, or thing. If you have trouble thinking of something on the spot, you can write a list before you play and pick one thing for each round.

One round consists of the guesser asking 20 yes or no questions to try to guess the other person’s word. The guesser must take a drink for every “no” they receive. If, after 20 questions, the guesser can’t identify the word, they must remove an article of clothing, then players switch roles and play another round. The game ends when one player is naked, or you can’t keep your hands off each other any longer.

Naughty Jenga

Gameplay is just like regular Jenga, but Naughty Jenga has an adult twist. Players write down naughty actions or “drink” on the Jenga tiles before playing. Some examples may include taking a sip, taking a shot, kissing the partner’s neck, or licking the partner’s ear. Players take turns removing one tile each, then completing the action on the tile. If the tower collapses, the losing player takes two shots.

Adult Chutes and Ladders

Have a bunch of old board games sitting around and collecting dust? Adult Chutes and Ladders will again put one of those games to good use, but with two additional rules to make it more engaging and naughtier. First, anytime a player climbs a ladder, it’s bottoms up, and takes a shot. If you get stuck going down, one clothing article is removed and hits the floor.

For an even naughtier finale, the loser has to do whatever sexual act the winner wants!

Quiz Game

This game takes some preparation but is well worth the time. Quiz Game tests a couple’s knowledge of each other while introducing other facts your partner may not have already known.

Players each write 10 to 15 questions on separate pieces of paper or index cards and place them into one stack or in one pile. Questions can be things like where you shared your first kiss, your favorite pizza topping, or what color underwear you’re wearing today.

Players then write the same number of naughty actions on other paper or index cards. These can be as innocent or as naughty as you want. Some ideas may be a ten-minute shoulder rub, your partner licking you from your toes to your chin, or a simple kiss. Make sure the actions can be something either of you can do because you never know who will draw the action.

To play, player one starts by blindly drawing one question and one action. Player 1 then asks player 2 the question. If player 2 gets the answer right, player 1 performs the action on player 2. If player 2 is wrong, player 2 must take a drink and perform the action on player 1.

Once the action is performed, players swap, and player 2 draws a question to ask player 1. The game ends when all the questions are done or when players can’t keep their hands off each other any longer.

Sexy Spin the Bottle

If you thought Spin the Bottle was naughty before, this takes it straight to the bedroom. Players combine adult toys and shot glasses of adult beverages or soda in a circle, then take turns spinning the bottle. If the bottle points toward a liquid, the player must drink it. If it faces a toy, players must use it on each other for a set amount of time, whether it is 30 seconds or 5 minutes. You may end up sober with soda or ready to party.

Naughty Roulette

Any game of roulette is based on chance. In Naughty Roulette, players need enough shot glasses to make a large circle. Usually, 15 to 20 is a good starting point, but this can be adjusted as needed. Fill about one-fourth of the shot glasses with the alcohol of your choice. Fill the rest of the shot glasses with a drink that is similar in color. Clear alcohol and water are the easiest choices for this game but use whatever drinks you enjoy.

Players take turns spinning a bottle in the center of the circle, then drink whatever is in the glass. If you get alcohol, you also must remove one article of clothing. Once all the shots have been drunk, fill the glasses again, but with more of the glasses containing alcohol. The game ends when one person is naked or the booze runs out.

Flip, Sip, or Strip

All you need to play this game is a coin and a partner. Partner 1 flips a coin, and partner 2 guesses Heads or Tails before the coin lands. If partner 2 is correct, they flip the coin next. If partner 2 is wrong, they take a shot and try again. If partner 2 is wrong the second time, they remove an article of clothing, and then it is their turn to flip the coin.

The game ends when someone is naked. Happy flipping!

Naughty Go Fish

This game is a classic with a sexy and slightly boozy twist. You only need a deck of cards and a drink for each player. Players set up the game and play by the standard Go Fish rules. When a player asks their partner if they have a card, if the answer is no, the asking player takes a drink. If the answer is yes, the other player removes an article of clothing. If either partner gets all 4 cards of any number, the other player removes an article of clothing and finishes their drink. Don’t forget to get a refill before continuing.

If you run out of clothing to remove, you lose and must finish your drink. If the game continues to completion, the loser finishes their drink!