Dating should be a fun experience, and preparing can be part of the fun as well. Some avid daters find the process stressful and taxing, so here are some tips to help you enjoy getting ready for a night on the town…or in the bedroom!
Grooming
Shave, get a haircut, and take this opportunity to get yourself looking good. Many use going on a date as an excuse to pamper themselves, and we see nothing wrong with this logic. If there’s at least the possibility of sex, don’t forget to groom down there, too. Shave, wax, trim, manscape, or whatever else you have to do to feel confident when you’re going into a situation with a new partner.
Get a Mani/Pedi
At the very least, trim your nails and make sure they look clean. People of all genders should consider getting a manicure or pedicure before a date as well, regardless of whether you choose to go with colors and nail designs. Again, it’s about looking polished and being confident when you meet that potential mate.
Take a Bubble Bath or Shower
Get yourself clean with a relaxing bubble bath or hot shower before you step out of the house, so you look and smell fresh. Bust out the fancy soaps, too – whatever you have to do to get yourself psyched up for your date. Some people prefer to do their shaving in the shower before a date, and this is another excellent way to prepare. You can even put some music on, which leads to the next piece of advice…
Tunes to Get You in the Mood
Music can provide the motivation you need before heading out for your date. While everyone has different musical interests, it’s generally best to stick to something upbeat. On the other hand, if you’re the type of person who needs a whole playlist, try choosing different songs to play while you’re taking a shower, getting dressed, or doing your makeup. Regardless of what route you decide to go, music adds a sense of energy to the preparation process that might not be there without it.
Details, Details, Details
Ensure you know the right reservation time for dinner, showtimes for a movie, and the pertinent details for the activities planned for a date. Think about whether or not you need to stop and fill up your gas tank, make sure that you have the correct address to pick your date up if that’s a thing, and make sure you have enough cash on-hand just in case. Most times, you’re fine with just a credit card, but you want to be prepared in case you end up somewhere that’s cash-only. By reaffirming all of the details of a date, you’ll make sure you’re on time, prepared, and ready to make a great first impression.
Dress to Impress
This is the part that stresses people out the most. You may be tempted to buy a whole new outfit, but be sure to pick something you are both comfortable and confident in. Buying a new outfit for a date, taking on a drastic new haircut, changing aspects of your facial or pubic hair, or even trying an extreme new makeup style you’re unsure of might impact your confidence and your ability to close the deal. Whatever you do, choose something that expresses your personality and lets you comfortably be yourself.
Clean Up All Visible Areas
This can include your car if you’re picking someone up for a date, as well as your kitchen, bathroom, and bedroom if you think you may be having sex at your place later. If you’re unsure, though, go ahead and do all of them. Make sure that you have enough toilet paper in the bathroom, too, and make sure you have condoms, lube, and sex toys in a place that are not readily visible but easily accessible. Keep a bottle of wine or some hard liquor (with mixers) on-hand, too, in case you need a nightcap.
Extra Items to Bring
Putting gum in your pocket, mints, and maybe even a hair tie can provide good opportunities to make a good impression on a first date. Odds are most of these things won’t be needed, but being able to offer your date a piece of gum or a mint is almost always appreciated. Hair ties might also come in handy for active dates, especially if an impromptu BJ happens out of nowhere. A few extras to keep in your car: an umbrella, jumper cables, and a few different types of USB cables so your date can charge their phone.
The biggest thing to remember is to be yourself and have fun. Not all of these things necessarily have to be done before each date, but if you have time and plan well enough in advance, they are all great suggestions that could help you make a great impression as you get to know each other.
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