Double penetration is the act of being fucked in the pussy and ass simultaneously. People are into it for various reasons, whether they like the feeling of being double-stuffed or want to physically connect with multiple people at once. With trust, experience, preparation, and good communication, double penetration is an option for those who love casual sex, are in open relationships, and more. However, following the proper tips and preparations is essential to do it safely.
More Reasons People Love Double Penetration
Double penetration may sound like a taboo experience reserved for porn, but it happens more often than most vanilla people would think. In fact, many say that having both holes penetrated simultaneously creates an explosively orgasmic sensation. If you’re considering trying double penetration (otherwise known as DP) for the first time, there are some things you should take into account.
Preparing the Vagina for DP
For people who have already engaged in active vaginal sex, the pussy often does not need additional preparation. However, having a good lube on hand is essential since DP can be rough on the delicate vaginal tissue. You should also exercise extreme caution if your sexual experience is limited and work your way up to double penetration as you don’t want to hurt yourself.
Preparing for Anal Sex
If you’ve never had anal sex before, you may want to do a little extra prep work before taking the plunge into double penetration. Try anal a few times on its own first to help you ease into things, and have some anal-specific lube on-hand to help things go in a little more smoothly. Many people also choose to start training on their own with smaller toys in each of their holes, slowly building up to larger toys over a few weeks, a month, or more.
You should also discuss your partner’s penis sizes, as things like length and girth make a big difference when you’re just getting started. For example, a massive penis in the pussy may take up some of the space an average-sized penis would have in the anus itself. Either way, communication and preparation are essential for everyone to have a good time.
Lube, Lube, and More Lube
We touched on this topic above, but it bears repeating because so many things happen during double penetrative sex, and you want to minimize any excess friction. For anal sex, in particular, plenty of lubricant is also needed for the initial penetration. The anus is not self-lubricating in the same manner that vaginas are, so using lots of lube is critical for a good experience. Once initial penetration is complete, you should reapply lube anytime it’s needed. The more, the better!
Also, remember that matching the proper lubricant up with the experience is essential. Silicone lubes, for example, are great for toys but do not pair up well with condoms because they could cause them to break. Instead, use water-based lube whenever using condoms for sex with other people.
Don’t Forget the Condoms
For double penetration, condom use is highly recommended, particularly for people who are not already fluid bonded and have not had the appropriate conversations about fluid bonding yet. Condoms can help prevent the transmission of STIs, help prevent pregnancy, and help keep things a little cleaner. Also, keep in mind that anal sex can get messy. Some people choose to douche before having anal sex, cleaning their anal cavity out. Others simply recognize that things can get messy when many genitals are all in the same place.
Communication Is Essential
Double penetration can be intense. The vagina and anus are full of nerve endings, and psychologically speaking, double penetration can be an immense rush. That’s why the receiver must communicate with their partners if something feels uncomfortable.
With proper lube and training, most people do not feel pain during double penetration. If you do, stop the process, evaluate, and reset. Proper warming up is essential, so if you are trying the anal sex portion of double penetration and need to step back to add more lube, do more foreplay, or stretch the ass a little more before the initial penetration, take the time to do so. Also, note that there is nothing wrong with having a fun threesome without double penetration and saving the double penetration for another time. Double penetration is not something to be forced, so take your time and experience it on your own terms.
There are many other reasons to communicate with your partners as well. For example, if you are having second thoughts when the day of the double penetration arrives, calmly, politely, and tactfully let the other people know.
Final Notes
Double penetration can be lead to incredible orgasms and endless pleasure for everyone involved. Those who enjoy it will tell you there really is nothing like having all your holes filled at once. Just remember that preparation and communication are the keys to a great experience.
Take your time, go at your own pace, and check out the Adult FriendFinder advice lines for tips from real members with real DP experience. Enjoy!
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