In the age of social media, selfies have become the norm, especially when it comes to flirting. Of course, when you’re ready to take the flirting up a notch, that’s when you might consider sending the object of your flirtations a nude selfie or two.
If you’ve been sending nudes for a while, then posing for the camera and hitting “send” is probably no big deal. If you’ve been out of the game for a while, however, the thought of sending a naughty photo of yourself to someone you’re interested in can feel downright intimidating.
Taking a hot nude selfie is an art, and this guide is designed to help you master that art to send sexy, flattering nudes that are sure to stop your partner dead in their tracks!
Confidence Is Key
The most important thing you need when taking a nude selfie is confidence. Remember, you don’t need the physique of an Instagram model to look great in nude selfies. You just need to work what you have and know that you are the sexiest thing on the planet to the other person.
The first step to building that confidence is to admire your body and take it all in. Stand naked in front of a mirror and do your best not to pick yourself apart, instead focusing on what you like about yourself. Maybe you have incredible boobs, pouty lips, or an ass that won’t quit. The chances are that if you like it, someone else will, too.
Practice, Practice, Practice
Now that you’re comfortable with your appearance in the mirror, it’s time to get comfortable with how your naked body looks in photos. Try different poses, take a bunch of pictures, look through them, and pick out the best ones to recreate when the time is right. If you’re not entirely comfortable taking naked pics right out of the gate, try wearing some lingerie or a sexy outfit, and build up to full nudes at your own pace.
Set The Scene
You are the focal point of your selfies, but you should still make sure you set the scene behind you as well. If you are taking selfies at home, for example, find some clean spaces and areas where you can show off properly. Piles of clutter and dirty clothes behind you can be a huge turn-off no matter how sexy you are. If you’re too busy to clean your place up, you can minimize the time it takes to tidy up your background using doors, walls, and other interesting places as a backdrop. You should also think about how props can enhance the overall tone of your pics. For example, a glass of wine, a fantastic piece of art, or lingerie on the bed can turn up the heat on your already sexy selfies.
Learn About Lighting
Gret lighting is essential when it comes to taking sexy selfies. While many intimate moments happen in the dark and at night, the best selfies often come from bright white lighting. Yellow household lighting is generally unflattering, so try to find an area of your home flooded with natural daylight. If you have to take selfies at night or the lighting in your home isn’t super great, you can also purchase a ring light on Amazon for under $50.
Once you have the proper setup, experiment with light and how it looks on your body. Some people find that having light shining on them from one side creates fantastic shadows that are quite flattering. Having a light that hits you on both sides can also look great.
Use Angles That Feel Good
Finding your most flattering angles can take some trial and error. The best poses can depend on what you want to emphasize, and testing a bunch of them out can be the best option. Many people find that parts of their bodies they did not consider flattering are more flattering than they thought. Consider the tools you are using when exploring angles; you may want to buy an inexpensive tripod for a digital camera or cell phone. This can help shoot your whole body from a distance, providing more options in terms of angles. Remote or timer camera features can also allow you to shoot from higher up, which can also be flattering. Shooting from the ground can also be exciting, making you look longer and taller in the process.
Highlight Your Best Features
If you love your bust and want to be more creative about showing it off, try straight-on shots of you grasping your boobs. Using other strategies such as showing off manicured nails in the pictures, doing light scratches, and touching on different emotional expressions can all work well. There are many options for butt shots, too. If you want your booty to be the focus of your pics, try arching your back, throwing your shoulders back, and popping out your butt. Silhouettes from behind are a great option if you want to get creative (and minimize your tummy area).
Love Your Body
It’s hard not to be overly critical of yourself while taking nude selfies. Social media has created impossible standards that the average person cannot achieve without filters and plastic surgery. However, remember that bellies, thighs, and scars are all beautiful and a big part of what makes you unique. Furthermore, your potential partners are likely sick of seeing highly photoshopped pics and will appreciate seeing what you look like in all your natural glory. That said, comfort is essential. It can take some time to get more comfortable being naked on camera, including taking selfies, so go at your own pace, knowing you will look fabulous no matter what you do.
Relax
Talking to trusted friends about your interest in taking nude selfies can help with your confidence. Plus, it’s a great way to get tips from people with more experience in the nude selfie game. Some people are nervous about taking selfies due to their thoughts on privacy and identification. Due to this, many choose to hide their faces in their pictures. If you’re worried about the recipient posting your photos online one day, then leaving your face out of the pictures is a wise choice. You should also consider covering up identifying marks such as tattoos as well.
Express Yourself
A facial expression can make or break a nude selfie. Sure, you’re showing off your body, but if you look bored or uncomfortable, it can ruin the whole tone of the photo. Practice your facial expressions in the mirror, and try out a few to suit your various moods. Sexy, playful, sultry, and intense are all options that work great for sexy selfies. While practicing expressions and getting comfortable with your feelings, emotions, and needs is essential, trying too hard can show in pictures. That’s why it’s important to make sure your expressions always look natural.
Send Safely And Securely
Where and to whom you send nude pictures matters. Make sure you’re using secure servers, and never send nudes using public wifi or an email address that isn’t fully protected with two-factor identification. If you want to use a super-secure system, you can also send photos to the object of your desire via private message on Adult FriendFinder.
If taking pictures on your phone, look into whether your device has a remote erase option to protect your photos in case your device ever goes missing.
Consent is Key
If you’re thinking about sending someone nude selfies, chances are it’s because you have already been talking and engaging with them in a sexual way. Still, it’s vital to get their consent before sending nude photos of yourself, so they know what to expect when they open their device. You would hate for them to open up a nude photo of you in a public setting by accident, or worse yet, receive nude images they didn’t want.
When it comes to sending selfies, the goal is to have fun and feel good about yourself. So, whatever you choose to do, make sure you’re enjoying yourself, and that will shine through in your photos!
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