Some people think of an orgasm as the end goal for any sexual experience. That may not hold true for every single person, but I think we can all agree that having an orgasm is usually the desired result of a sexual encounter, no matter who you are. While most of us associate the pleasure of having an orgasm with the physical touch used to reach that point, some claim they can achieve an orgasm without physical contact. A claim this big surely requires some deeper exploration to determine if it is true and how it could be possible.
Big Name Celebrities Say They Can “Think” Themselves Off
Lady Gaga and TikTok influencer Maya Ansar say they can “think” themselves off, insisting that they require no physical stimulation of any kind to reach the point of orgasm. Maya Ansar recently noted in an interview with Vice that she discovered she could “think herself off” a few years ago. According to the interview, Ansar regularly had orgasms in her dreams and soon realized she could do the same in her waking hours as well.
In the early nineties, research surfaced that indicated women could reach orgasm without physical stimulation. Thus far, the same ability to have an orgasm without physical touch has not been observed in men, but much of the research is still preliminary and ongoing.
People who can achieve an orgasm this way say that it provides many of the same sensations that an orgasm generated by physical touch does, but there may be some slight differences. The ability to feel an orgasm throughout their body remains the same regardless, and that is what most people care about when they are talking about achieving orgasm in the first place. They want it to feel good, and those who make it happen with their mind say that it does.
Some Use Dreams To Train Themselves To Cum Without Physical Touch
The path to orgasming without physical touch is not the same for everyone. Still, many people who ultimately reach this goal say they use their sexy dreams as a starting point for learning how to stimulate themselves without touch.
Most experience sexual dreams of some kind throughout their lives. Sometimes, dreams are unwanted, but they are often enjoyable and a relatively harmless experience. Upon waking from such a dream, some find their body and mind have responded physically to the dream they had. This physical response is outside their control, but the feelings are often pleasurable. These dreams may be the best way to help someone understand how they can reach the point of orgasm without physical touch.
Some people say that connecting the mind and soul to the rest of the sexual experience is the ultimate manifestation of all the is good about sex. Combining the physical pleasure received from sex with the mental and even spiritual connections made through non-physical stimulation allows them to enjoy the overall sexual experience in a much more fulfilling way.
The next time you awaken from a sexy dream, it might be ideal to try to capture as much of that feeling as you can and store it somewhere in your mind. It might be just what you need to experience the sensation of having a non-physically stimulated orgasm in your waking hours.
How Does it Feel?
Those who have yet to experience a non-physically stimulated orgasm often wonder what the feeling is like and if it is something they truly want. To understand the experience, we must rely on those who have enjoyed this feeling before.
A few individuals spoke to Bustle about their experiences, and all had somewhat personalized outcomes from this type of orgasm. Here are a few of them:
- It feels like electricity in my body – This was the sentiment of Alicia Davon, who stated that she could reach the point of orgasm by simply anticipating her partner’s touch. She refers to non-physically stimulated orgasms as “a whole-body experience that cannot be replicated by anything else that she knows of.”
- My orgasms are induced through words – Tania Simirenko told the magazine that she can reach the point of orgasm through dirty talk alone and can have an orgasm without laying a single finger on her body.
- Hypnosis was my surprising introduction to non-physical orgasms – 29-year-old Felicity says she had a full-body orgasm after watching hypnotic videos intended to help people climax.
If you’ve never had a non-physically induced orgasm, you may find the idea a little odd. However, it is just another layer of human sexuality that can be fun and enjoyable. It may not be possible for everyone to do, and it may not even be something everyone wants to do, but it is nice to know that it is possible for those who would like to try.
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