Sex is a fun way to stay in a positive mindset, and many people find themselves getting it on more often over the winter months for that reason. For those who have mastered missionary and some of the other most commonly used sex positions, this is the perfect time to explore wild new sex positions to pass the time when it’s too cold to go outside. Here are some of our favorites!
Keeping Sex Fresh and Fun in the Winter Months
Keeping your sex life fresh and fun is essential. There are new things to try, and for people in open relationships, swingers, and those into group sex, there are new people to meet. Experimentation and exploration are part of a healthy sex life. Plus, a person’s desires and capabilities often evolve over time. So new sex positions and other ways to enjoy sexual play can play a significant role in pursuing the things you can do to maximize pleasure.
The Little Dipper – Sex Position
Named after the famous constellation, this position requires the person on top to have a little arm strength. Using a couch, chair, or bed, the person on top uses their arms to move up and down on the bottom partner’s penis, sex toy, or strap-on device.
Essentially, the person on top is sitting on the other partner, leaning back for the best angle for penetration. The person on the bottom can also use their hands to stimulate the top partner simultaneously. This position works regardless of gender and gives the top partner a bit more control overall, which many pairs like.
The Chair – Sex Position
This position is similar to the Little Dipper, though it involves both people on a chair. The top partner straddles the bottom partner, who is seated. Their legs are spread out, while the person on the bottom has their legs together. This is an excellent position for people who would like more back support. It’s comfortable and great for viewing pleasure, particularly if there’s a mirror to add to the excitement.
Scissoring – Sex Position
Scissoring provides great pleasure for two people who have vaginas. It allows coital alignment and can be an excellent way to maximize enjoyment. Allowing both the women’s clits and labia to stimulate each other (the term for this is tribbing) also gives each person doing it a way to participate in the action. In many cases, the person on their back can move up and down, and the person on their side generally moves side to side. This multidirectional pleasure can be truly orgasmic.
The Doggy-Style – Sex Position
Doggy style isn’t exactly new, but people don’t do it as much as they should. In addition, there are plenty of ways to add some excitement and spice to this classic sex position. For example, people can use their nails or fingers to pleasure the front person’s back.
Some also find that playing with the other person’s hair can stimulate their partner even more. Rather than grabbing for the outside of the hair, if you choose to do hair pulling, grab from the root. Before touching your person’s hair, communicate with them and ensure it is not a boundary.
Bumper Cars – Sex Position
Both people are laying down for this unique position. One positions their pelvis and legs above those of the other partner. Each person’s head is facing away from where the penetration will happen. In this position, a person with a penis should be on top. Couples who do not have penises can always use a double-ended dildo or strap-on.
The person on top penetrates the person who is on the bottom. Individual vibrators can also be used, regardless of gender. Something to consider with this sex position is that a partner on top’s penis may end up at an unnatural angle. That said, the friction can feel amazing, and this sex position can work for any combination of genders.
Spooning – Sex Position
Spooning is another sex position people don’t often do that can help them get a bit more intimate. Making things even more pleasurable, kissing and nibbling on a person’s ear can lead to excellent sensations. Sex in this position can be a full sensory experience with little mental work needed.
Reach around your partner to play with their nipples or their genitals. Then, run your fingernails lightly up their thigh. This position can also be excellent for adding a little power exchange by pinning the other person down playfully or pulling their hair with their permission.
Cowgirl – Sex Position
This XXX position has a lot of benefits. It allows closeness and intimacy with the other person. In a face-to-face sex position, clitoral stimulation is also possible. Rather than doing the traditional cowgirl position, the person with the vagina lays forward and cradles into the other partner. The goal is to align both people’s bodies in a way that provides more direct stimulation to the clitoris.
The person on the bottom has both hands free, allowing them to reach around and stimulate the other, hold their hips, or explore other erogenous zones.
The Pretzel – Sex Position
Bring your appetite for sexual pleasure with this one. The Pretzel is excellent for deep, powerful thrusts. The sideways angle it provides gives different sensations, and this option is a fantastic way to spice things up while keeping it simple.
This intimate position allows both people to look into each other’s eyes. One person is on the bottom, lying on their side. The other person straddles one leg, making this a perfect position for grinding and penetration. Outside of this, fantastic erotic zones are accessible, including a person’s nipples, neck, hair, stomach, and the person on the bottom’s ass.
The Booty Cross – Sex Position
This position is best done when one of the partners has a flexible penis; it can also be an excellent option for people using dildos. When using this XXX position, both people feel more of their partner’s body as they move. The person on the bottom can offer some spanks or a butt massage if they like, and the position can also provide easy access to the person on the top’s back.
With this position, the person with the penis or strap-on will lay perpendicular to the other person, face down, forming a cross. Then, penetration happens with the penis in between the bottom partner’s legs. This position can sometimes take a try or two. First, the person on top does the thrusting, while the person on the bottom takes the penetration and stimulates their partner in other ways.
Some Final Notes About Winter’s Best Sex Positions
Choosing new and fresh positions within your capabilities is essential when you’re trying to keep things hot during the winter months. There are ways to spice up the sex positions you already know, plus there are hundreds of additional sex positions that may be excellent options for you. So enjoy the opportunities and have fun; pleasure awaits!
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