The clitoris is one of the body’s main pleasure organs and is where most orgasms in women occur. It comprises a smaller outer part, which can be seen and played with directly, and a much bigger internal part, which can be simulated indirectly. Many people with vaginas do not regularly orgasm from vaginal penetration alone; stimulation of the clitoris often gets them to climax.
While many people use clitoral stimulation during their sex, whether in relationships or casual sex, others are still unaware of the immense pleasures the clit can bring. Outside of this, exploration of this area of the body can be lacking even in relationships and sexual partnerships where general awareness of the clit exists.
If you want to learn more about putting the clitoris front and center, this article is a great place to start. While talking about sex, and sexual imagery, have been increasing over the last few years, there’s still a lot of vague conversation about how sexual pleasure and the body works.
Some of the most significant barriers to sexual pleasure often stem from the sex-negative attitudes and structures society sometimes brings. Prioritizing both male and female satisfaction and encouraging all genders to explore their bodies is essential to learning. Whether a clitoris is in the picture or not, recognizing there is always more to learn when it comes to pleasure with your partners is a significant step towards increasing sexual satisfaction for everyone involved.
Tips For Increasing Clitoral Pleasure
First, pay attention to the parts of the clitoris. One of them, the clitoral glans, is often considered the entire clit. Scientists have studied this area of the body for decades, though in recent times, scientists have learned the clitoris has multiple parts, with this being just one of them. With many nerves, all located in a small surface area, the clitoral glans are a sensitive body area. Each person with a vagina is unique in how their body looks and presents. Some clitoral glans are more prominent, while others are smaller.
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Exploring this body area can be beneficial no matter who you’re interacting with sexually. Discussing it is also critical because people have different preferences and sensitivity levels. For people who have explored their clit on their own, there is often a wealth of knowledge they can impart.
The clitoral glans are easy to access, and many ways exist to stimulate them. Putting pressure on the clit is one, and others include licking it, nibbling on it, sucking it, and placing a vibrator on it. Exploring and changing things can help keep things fresh, whether with a dating partner or hookup.
Build Up Slowly and Focus on Variety
Building up slowly and focusing on variety can have immense benefits. Keep things fresh, having fun with the clitoral glans using your fingers, tongues, vibrators, dildos, and more. Try out different types of sex toys if you’d like, including glass toys, steel toys, silicone toys, and other styles. Always ensure the toys you use are made with body-safe materials, as your safety is a top priority.
Clitoral stimulators also utilize air and suction to bring people intense orgasms. Whether you are using sex toys or other ways to pleasure the clit, it is often a good idea to start slow unless your sex partner has informed you they are turned on in other ways. This area of the body is quite sensitive, and too much too fast can sometimes negatively affect the overall mood and energy.
Explore the Clitoris Inside as Well
While a small and noticeable part of the clit is outside of the body, the majority of it is located inside. The clitoris has two more extended parts that attach it to the pubic bone, and it also has two bulbs found alongside the vagina and urethra. It is fascinating that the tissue here is made of the same erectile tissue that penises are made of.
This area of the body fills itself with blood when the owner of the clit feels arousal. As it is located inside the body, this area cannot be reached directly from the outside. You can please it indirectly, however. Going through the vagina and pleasuring the front part of the pussy wall about two inches in is a popular way to make it happen. This method hits the G-spot, which some people believe is a separate organ or unique area of the body unto itself. However, this area of the body is where the bulbs of the clitoris, the vagina, and the urethra come together.
An up-and-down motion is often best rather than using an in-and-out motion to explore and pleasure this area. Fingers and G-spot toys are often ideal for pleasuring the G spot, as well as other parts of the clit.
Focus on Other Areas of The Body as Well
Focusing on other areas of the body is essential. Some people get caught up with the pleasures the clit can bring, paying less attention to the other erogenous zones. Moving slowly can help with this, as can focusing on other zones before moving toward the clit.
Getting the other person aroused before pleasuring this region can yield faster and better results. In addition, stimulating multiple erogenous zones simultaneously can lead to intense orgasms. Kissing the neck, licking the nipples, nibbling on the ears, and gently touching pretty much everywhere can complement the clitoral play.
Mix things up and focus on variety. Communicate with your partner to understand more about what they are most interested in, and remember sex is meant to be pleasurable and fun. Enjoy yourself, and always take the time to learn more!
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