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Beginner’s Guide To Double Penetration

Double penetration is the act of being fucked in the pussy and ass simultaneously. People are into it for various reasons, whether they like the feeling of being double-stuffed or want to physically connect with multiple people at once. With trust, experience, preparation, and good communication, double penetration is an option for those who love casual sex, are in open relationships, and more. However, following the proper tips and preparations is essential to do it safely.

More Reasons People Love Double Penetration

Double penetration may sound like a taboo experience reserved for porn, but it happens more often than most vanilla people would think. In fact, many say that having both holes penetrated simultaneously creates an explosively orgasmic sensation. If you’re considering trying double penetration (otherwise known as DP) for the first time, there are some things you should take into account. 

Preparing the Vagina for DP

For people who have already engaged in active vaginal sex, the pussy often does not need additional preparation. However, having a good lube on hand is essential since DP can be rough on the delicate vaginal tissue. You should also exercise extreme caution if your sexual experience is limited and work your way up to double penetration as you don’t want to hurt yourself. 

Preparing for Anal Sex

If you’ve never had anal sex before, you may want to do a little extra prep work before taking the plunge into double penetration. Try anal a few times on its own first to help you ease into things, and have some anal-specific lube on-hand to help things go in a little more smoothly. Many people also choose to start training on their own with smaller toys in each of their holes, slowly building up to larger toys over a few weeks, a month, or more. 

You should also discuss your partner’s penis sizes, as things like length and girth make a big difference when you’re just getting started. For example, a massive penis in the pussy may take up some of the space an average-sized penis would have in the anus itself. Either way, communication and preparation are essential for everyone to have a good time. 

Lube, Lube, and More Lube

We touched on this topic above, but it bears repeating because so many things happen during double penetrative sex, and you want to minimize any excess friction. For anal sex, in particular, plenty of lubricant is also needed for the initial penetration. The anus is not self-lubricating in the same manner that vaginas are, so using lots of lube is critical for a good experience. Once initial penetration is complete, you should reapply lube anytime it’s needed. The more, the better! 

Also, remember that matching the proper lubricant up with the experience is essential. Silicone lubes, for example, are great for toys but do not pair up well with condoms because they could cause them to break. Instead, use water-based lube whenever using condoms for sex with other people.

Don’t Forget the Condoms

For double penetration, condom use is highly recommended, particularly for people who are not already fluid bonded and have not had the appropriate conversations about fluid bonding yet. Condoms can help prevent the transmission of STIs, help prevent pregnancy, and help keep things a little cleaner. Also, keep in mind that anal sex can get messy. Some people choose to douche before having anal sex, cleaning their anal cavity out. Others simply recognize that things can get messy when many genitals are all in the same place.

Communication Is Essential

Double penetration can be intense. The vagina and anus are full of nerve endings, and psychologically speaking, double penetration can be an immense rush. That’s why the receiver must communicate with their partners if something feels uncomfortable. 

With proper lube and training, most people do not feel pain during double penetration. If you do, stop the process, evaluate, and reset. Proper warming up is essential, so if you are trying the anal sex portion of double penetration and need to step back to add more lube, do more foreplay, or stretch the ass a little more before the initial penetration, take the time to do so. Also, note that there is nothing wrong with having a fun threesome without double penetration and saving the double penetration for another time. Double penetration is not something to be forced, so take your time and experience it on your own terms.

There are many other reasons to communicate with your partners as well. For example, if you are having second thoughts when the day of the double penetration arrives, calmly, politely, and tactfully let the other people know.

Final Notes

Double penetration can be lead to incredible orgasms and endless pleasure for everyone involved. Those who enjoy it will tell you there really is nothing like having all your holes filled at once. Just remember that preparation and communication are the keys to a great experience.

Take your time, go at your own pace, and check out the Adult FriendFinder advice lines for tips from real members with real DP experience. Enjoy!

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All About the Ass – Your Guide to Butt Worship, Butt Sex, and Belfies!

Who doesn’t love the sight of a juicy, round butt bouncing up and down as you pound someone from behind?

While appreciation for the big butt didn’t hit mainstream culture until the 2000s, for many big butts have always been a thing. But aside from the allure of a good ass-pounding, why do people like them? Well, if we don’t want to get too cerebral, we can all just agree that they’re totally hot. However, for those who do want to get more intellectual, let’s dive right in — all puns intended.

Big Butts – A Historical Introspective

Ancient history indicates the ass has been widely revered for centuries. Many primitive cultures had big booty idols and statues — the Greeks were particularly famous for revering the glory of the Rubenesque ass in their sculptures. They would often pose models in ways that would accentuate their butts to make them look as large as possible.

Some sociologists believe this adoration stems from the fact that butts have been an important part of the mating process since the caveman days. Since a round butt and wide hips are a direct result of the female hormone estrogen, they’ve always been associated with health and fertility. Wide hips are also good for child bearing, making them an even bigger indicator of fertility. Some even think the reason boobs are so hot isn’t because they give us milk, but because they kinda look like a butt.

Big Booties are Back

There was a time in the 90s when skinny butts took over thanks to the rise of slender supermodels like Cindy Crawford and Kate Moss. While the rap and hip hop movement of the 80s brought big booties to the forefront of mainstream, suddenly they took a backseat, if you will. Instead men were lusting after thin, waifish models with flatter butts flanked in high fashion. While these women were all babes in their own right, the sudden shift left us longing for the “juicy doubles” Sir-Mix-a-Lot was rapping about.

Luckily for men like me (and Sir-Mix-a-Lot), big butts have bounced back (ha!) thanks to celebrities like Kim Kardashian, Beyoncé, and porn superstar Nikki Delano. Suddenly, big butts are once again breaking the internet and inspiring songs like “Anaconda,” “Bubble Butt,” and the ever romantic “Ass n’ Titties.”

When Butt Love Becomes a Butt Fetish

If you’ve got an actual butt fetish, then the butt is likely your primary focus when it comes to sex. That means you want to touch it, feel it, lick it, kiss it, and anything else you can think of. You probably can’t even get off without at least thinking about butts. Of course the butt is very close to the anus — the hole used for anal sex — so it only makes sense that people who like butts also want to fuck those holes. If you do take the plunge, be sure to use plenty of lube as the anus is not self-lubricating. Of course you don’t absolutely need to have anal, as many butt enthusiasts love fucking from behind whether their cock is going into the ass or pussy.

The best thing about having a butt fetish is that since everyone has a butt, it’s pretty easy to find one to fool around with. If not, an AdultFriendFinder account will help you remedy that situation pronto.

Get That Ass

 If you weren’t born with a juicy ass, fear not. There are plenty of ways to work with what you have and make your own ass look nice and round. The most natural thing you can do is head to the gym and build some muscle with protein shakes, squats, and lunges. If you’re looking for an easier way to build your booty, there are also a few surgical options you can look into. Some celebrities who have allegedly gone the surgical route have made an entire career out of their (rumored) fake butts. Nikki Minaj, Blac Chyna, and Coco are all prime examples. Butt implants and even silicone butt injections can help you fake it till you make it, but buyer beware. Butt enhancements may seem tempting but have the potential to go horribly awry if you choose the wrong doctor.

 If you’re already a big booty babe and looking to attract some ass worship into your life, then consider posting a few butt selfies, or “belfies” to your profile if you haven’t already. A “belfie” will allow you to show off your ass while still showing off your face, thereby featuring your best ASSets in the same shot.

Appreciating the Ass

 If you’re looking for the big butt girl of your dreams, then get acquainted with many bootylicious babes on AFF. You’ll find lots of big bottom girls looking for someone to appreciate the glory of their ample posterior. Why just dream about having Kim K on the end of your stick when you can find a lookalike of your own to slam? Ass worshipers and ass owners alike can find a lot of butt-related fun on Adult FriendFinder. Find someone to play with in person, or play online by going to cam-to-cam.

The people on Adult FriendFinder are total freaks who are looking to play, so give them what they want! Don’t wait any longer because they might find someone else! Signing up is super easy, so why haven’t you done it yet?

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Butt Sex for Beginners – An Introductory Guide to Anal

Have you ever watched someone jump right into CrossFit when they’ve spent their whole life being a couch potato? They sweat a lot. They make noises that have nothing to do with pleasure. Their position is off. They aren’t really doing it right so they’re more likely to hurt themselves. They tend to make a mess of themselves, then the next day they’re sore and can’t move. They didn’t have a good time and don’t really want to do it again, despite how many of their friends say they love it.  Yeah, anal sex is a lot like that.

You look at CrossFit and think “I can do jumping jacks and jump onto a box.” Or at least you think you can until you try it and discover there’s a lot more to it than you originally thought. Anal is like that, too.

Most people think, “Hey, I have a butt! I’ve been using it my whole life so I can totally figure out how to stick something up there.” Can you? Sure. Will you enjoy it? Probably not. Just like with CrossFit (and life in general), you need to prepare yourself or your ass will be sore and you won’t have a good time.

If you want to dive into the deep end of anal sex, then you need to prepare yourself. This is a marathon, not a sprint; so it’ll take some prep work before you’re ready to take the big D in the big B.

Start Small

Most people brag about how big their member is, not how small it is. In the case of butt loving, however, smaller is usually better. But even if you’re lucky enough to have a guy with a tiny peen, it’s still probably not small enough, so start things off with a finger.

Start by letting him “ring your doorbell” by pressing on the outside to start stimulating and relaxing you into the feeling of pressure on your back door.  We suggest using lube because there’s no such thing as too much lube when it comes to anal sex. And by lube we mean lube — not spit, not lotion, actual lube. The butt doesn’t lubricate itself naturally like the vagina, so when it gets aroused it’s still puckered.

Once your body starts to relax to a little ding dong pressure, he or she can start lightly inserting the tip of their finger in.  Err on the shallow side, as you’re about to encounter a whole lot of sensations you’ve probably never had before.

I know they all say it’s just the tip…but really, start with the fingertip and just push in and out. You don’t need to make a come hither motion with your finger; a simple in and out is usually good enough. All the nerve endings are in the anus, which is the port of entry to butt town, so only putting in your tip will feel better for the recipient. As you’re receiving their finger, try to relax, breathe, and use lots of lube. When in doubt, add lube! If that’s pleasurable you can start putting more of the finger inside.

This shouldn’t hurt, so if it does then you need to spend more time relaxing and trying other foreplay. Basically it should just feel like you need to poop — I know there is nothing terribly sexy about that, but that’s what it feels like.  It might not feel good to start, but with practice you’ll hopefully have an A-Ha moment where suddenly it starts to feel good…really good!

Push It Real Good

As he or she is putting their finger in, you can push against them. I know pushing seems counter intuitive, but the pushing can make it easier for their finger to go in. Plus when you relax, your little butthole kind of sucks their finger in like an anal vortex of pleasure.  Oh yeah…add more lube.

Anal Training

Anal training isn’t just for the pros. In fact, it’s meant more for beginners than anyone else. If you want to be able to take a penis in the backside you may need to train your body to accept something of that size. This is where butt plugs become your friend. You can buy small butt plugs and then buy ones that get progressively larger until they are the size, or just slightly bigger, than your partner. When you use a sex toy, make sure it’s one that’s meant for anal. It should have a flare base — this will ensure you don’t suck the toy up into your leather cheerio. Trust me, you don’t want to do that.

Starting with something small can help get your butt used to having something in there at all. It’s like stretching before a work out — you can’t do a tree pose until you stretch out your legs. In the same vein, you have to stretch your butt muscle too.

As people start anal training they’ll often leave a butt plug in for many hours at a time, then continue this process for a few days. Once they feel they’re able to easily receive that size plug, they go to a bigger size. Then it’s just rinse and repeat until they’re at the size they want.

Your butt won’t stay stretched out, so the initial training is to get your body adjusted to the feeling. You may also want to do training if you know you’re going to have anal sex later that night. You can start small and work your way up, but instead of doing it over days, you do it over a few hours. That way your body is ready when you and your partner are ready.

Can it be messy?

Yes. You’re doing stuff to the butt and that’s where poop comes out of your body. If you’re not OK with possibly encountering poop, then don’t try anal. You can do something to help reduce the likelihood of having a close encounter of the poop kind, like eating things that do not make you poop or constipate you. You should also stay away from spicy things for the day, and anything else that might give you the trots. Don’t eat for a few hours before having anal sex, as you don’t want to have anything in your belly when pushing on the back door. You can also give yourself an enema to clean out your insides, but don’t eat after the enema as that will just refill your guts with food. Even with all this prep you still might encounter unsanitary results, so be prepared to clean up with a smile.

Slow and Low

Now that you’ve managed to get a peen into your bean hole, don’t go all crazy monkey sex. Slow is more likely to feel better, so take the time to find a position you like. Not all anal has to be on all fours — you can do it reverse cowgirl, lying on your side, or even in missionary. Whatever is the most comfortable to you is the position du jour, but use lots of lube no matter what position you’re in.

Anal sex is something to work up to and can be a very satisfying sexual act, but it’s not for everyone. Not everyone likes anal sex, and this includes men and women. So if you give it the old college try and still find it to be lack luster, that’s OK. Some people love it, some people hate it, and others just like to talk about butts.

Wherever you fall on the butt-loving spectrum, it’s OK. Just use lots of lube!

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