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Guide to Outdoor Sex – Winter Edition 

Sex outdoors can be a thrill. The rush, the risk of getting caught, and the adrenaline-fueled orgasms could be enough to get anyone’s blood pumping. And while most people think sex outside should be reserved for warm, sandy beaches, there are ways to heat things up outdoors during the winter. 

In fact, some of the hottest sex happens when it’s cold outside. It can be a huge turn-on during cupcaking season, plus the sex also has an edge to it in terms of new experiences.

While an outdoor tryst in colder climates can undoubtedly be sexy, you should also exercise extreme caution to keep everyone safe. The cold can make it harder for some people to get an erection, and the colder air can also affect the sensitive skin surrounding the genitals in more extreme cases. But, of course, there are ways to safely have sex outdoors in frigid temperatures, so let’s explore how.

Take Care When Choosing A Spot

As with any outdoor sex, choosing the right location is everything. Places where people are likely to come across you having sex, or areas where you will be on a video camera you don’t have control of, are all locations you should avoid. Make sure to choose a spot you’re comfortable in and consider other people in your decisions.

Many people choose to have their first outdoor sex experiences on private property, whether renting a cabin in the woods, having sex in their backyard or garage, or getting comfortable in other places that people don’t frequent. But, of course, there are other considerations when having sex outside in the wintertime.

While having sex in the winter is exhilarating, be aware of the temperature outside, how windy it is, and more. If you feel your face start to freeze the moment you step outside, it’s likely too cold to have sex outdoors. But, of course, if you’re feeling adventurous, you can use some strategies to have fun in the freezing cold.

Choosing a partially indoor spot or one protected from the wind can help protect you against the wind chill factor. Some people have outdoor hot tubs, for example, that offer an invigorating contrast between hot and cold. Many people also choose to have sex outdoors while camping, opening up some windows in their tents and enjoying nature. The tent can help keep the warmth in, and some people also use sleeping bags and blankets to help keep them warm. If you can plug a body heater in nearby, that’s another option. That said, there is a more simple way to keep warm when having sex outside.

Keep Some Clothes On

Many people are used to having sex naked, but there are benefits to leaving some clothes on. This is particularly true in the winter when being able to pull down your pants to give accessibility to your private parts can be a godsend. In addition, you can wear sweaters, jackets, pants, boots, and layer up to help keep your body warm.

The other benefit to partial clothing is if you hear people coming, you can quickly pull your pants back up. There also have been scientific studies showing that people who wear socks have an easier time getting off, plus they keep your feet toasty in the snow. If you’re wearing a skirt, pair it with crotchless tights or leggings. This gives easy access to your genitals while keeping your legs warm. 

Eliminate Expectations

It’s healthy to have expectations of orgasm with sexual experiences, but that doesn’t have to be your only goal. Sex should also be about adventure and passion, all of which can be explored without orgasm. 

Also, it may be easier for one person to get off outside in the winter than another. Oral sex, fingering, remote control sex toys, and other options are available. You and your play friends can alternate who’s getting pleasured, the location, what people are wearing, and more. Keep things practical, have reasonable expectations, and think about potential obstacles beforehand.

Always Be Safe

There are many places to have orgasms in the winter, even outside. That said, keeping it safe means understanding the environment. The sex should be quick and dirty, with a minimum amount of time spent having sex. Many people also recommend using different strategies for foreplay so that both people are ready to go when it is time to fuck. Dress as warm as you can and keep your clothes off only for short periods. You can always continue the fun inside if you’re still really turned on. 

In terms of physical safety, you should always watch for signs of frostbite while out in the snow. It can be tough to focus on that at the moment, but your health should always come first no what else is going on. So before venturing out into the cold, be sure to research frostbite and make sure everyone involved in the sex is aware of potential risks.

Always Plan Ahead

Part of having a fantastic outdoor sexual experience is planning ahead. Make sure you’re getting the right gear, aware of the weather, and selecting appropriate clothing for the weather. Many people discuss the possibility of sex outside in advance but still keep things relatively spontaneous. Rather than carrying around lube, things like long-lasting vaginal moisturizers can be an alternative. Some lubricants last for up to three days, giving a larger window. Keep in mind that cleaning up after may also need to be done if you have sex on outdoor surfaces. Remember, it’s important to be courteous to those who may come along after you and your partner have left. 

Final Notes

Outdoor sex is a fantastic winter activity, though you need to be safe and mindful about it. It can also be one of the hottest experiences, and awareness, research, and planning are three things that make it even better. 

As always, have fun and be safe! 

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Tips for Car Sex And Sexual Road Adventures

Over the last few years, travel dates have become increasingly popular among those looking to expand their sexual horizons without the need to visit crowded airports, bus terminals, and train stations. Naturally, that gives rise to a renewed interest in road head, car sex, and all kinds of other automotive action. So let’s take a closer look at the art of getting busy between the bumpers!

Play Safe by Going Off-Road

Sex in the fast lane may sound exciting, but it can also be dangerous. Playing on a private road, pulling over, or finding a romantic parking space at a scenic stop is a much safer move.

Find the Right Soundtrack

You’ve got a sound system to work with, so don’t just leave the radio on and listen to commercials while she goes down on you. Instead, find the right playlist on your phone and use it to amplify the eroticism of the moment.

Stretching Matters 

If you’re in a spacious RV, road sex can be a lot like quality time in a full-size bedroom, but if you are trying to get busy in the backseat of a Camry, you may end up in some awkward positions. Nobody wants to cramp up at the moment of glory or walk around aching after your interlude is complete. Take a few minutes to stretch out your body before getting in the vehicle, just in case things get frisky.

My Car or Yours?

Give some thought to which vehicle you want to take on your next trip. Climbing across bucket seats and straddling the stick shift may seem exotic the first few times, but if your partner has a big car with more room, you should consider which vehicle is best for your adventures. Sure, a bigger car gets worse gas mileage, but that’s a small price to pay for having access to all your favorite positions without having to hang your head out the window to make room so he can get behind you.

The Best and Worst Vehicles for Sex on the Open Road

Minivan 

Since the earliest days of the VW Love Bus and throughout the hippie era of the 1960s, it has been patently obvious that the second-best vehicle for sex is a minivan. Sure, there are plenty of car enthusiasts who will frown at you for driving a minivan, but millions of soccer moms have been letting their lovers score in the back of their vans instead of standing on a cold sideline in the rain for decades. A few pillows and an air freshener are about all you’ll ever need to turn this bedroom on wheels into the kind of sex coach you’ve been dreaming about since you first saw Cinderella’s pumpkin.

Motorcycle

On the opposite end of the spectrum, you’ll get plenty of fist bumps from other bikers if you take your date out on your motorcycle, but aside from a complete lack of privacy, there’s no way to get road head on a bike safely. Even worse, you’re left with just a small seat to stretch out on if you pull over somewhere secluded to have sex. Even a car hood offers more room to get comfortable than a bike ever will. 

Tesla

It’s a high-end vehicle with a price tag to match, but they’re coming down in price fairly quickly with all kinds of tax incentives and the warm feeling that your ride is helping the environment as well. What makes them appealing for car sex (even though the driver’s manual tells you not to) is their ability to drive themselves. Hands-free steering, even if you’re fully alert and ready to grab the wheel, still makes it easier than ever for your lover to bob her head in your lap without having to be a contortionist. But, of course, try this one at your own risk. 

Limousine

If you really want to have sex in a moving car, the safest and best way to do it is in the back of a Limousine. We don’t recommend sex in a moving vehicle if either of you is driving, sure. But with a driver at the wheel and plenty of room in the back, you and your lover can turn up the music, have a drink, and get into all your favorite sex positions. Be sure to bring some hand wipes for cleanup, however. Most limo drivers won’t mind if you get busy in the back, but nobody wants to clean up the fluids you left on the floor.

Ferrari

What a beautiful piece of automotive imagination, right? Wrong. Nothing is worse than sex in a supercar. The space allocated for each passenger is tiny; they always have individual racing seats and a difficult center console to climb across. Worst of all, when your lover is riding you, the last thing you should be thinking is, “I sure hope she doesn’t make marks with her fingernails on this very expensive headrest.” Leave your Ferrari at home and find something much more practical to fuck in.

Your Current Car

The best car for road sex is definitely the car you have right now. Nobody expects you to go out and buy a new car just for its ability to make road sex easier. Look through your own vehicle, and you’ll find plenty of ways to make it more appealing. For starters, clear out all the clutter so your lover doesn’t trip over the cardboard coffees in your cup holders. Also, find the time to deep clean your car, so it smells nice and maybe get the windows tinted to add a hint of privacy. It’s your car and likely to be your vehicular bedroom, so put a little time and care into it, and your lovers will be glad you did.

The American love affair with the open road has been ongoing for over a century, often commemorated in popular songs of each era and beloved by car groups across the country. It isn’t a coincidence that the passion for cars in this country coincides with the fact that many people have their first sexual encounters in the backseat or on the hood of their partner’s vehicle. So play safe, wear a seatbelt and enjoy all that the open road offers on your next date, whether you’re in the driveway or out on the highway exploring your sense of automotive adventure!

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How to Have Sex in Public – Five Easy Tips

If you’re looking to make your sex life a little more interesting, a public tryst could be just the thing to get your heart racing in all the right ways. Sure, it’s risky, but it’s also a lot of fun if you know what you’re doing. Now, when I say in public, I don’t necessarily mean a scenario like the one in the movie “Crank,” where Amy Smart gets nailed in front of a bus full of tourists. Sure, that may sound fun, but it’s also a sure-fire way to end up in jail…or on some random person’s Tik Tok. However, if you’re looking to enjoy the thrill of a public romp without the need for bail money, these five tips could help.

Make a Plan

When it comes to great sex, spontaneity is best, but if you’ve never done it in public before, you’ll be far better off if you come up with a plan ahead of time. This will help you relax and not spend the entire time looking around to see who’s coming (ha, see what I did there?). If you’re not sure how to start, try asking experienced couples for advice. Before my first public adventure, I spent a lot of time chatting with other exhibitionists to see what worked for them. I ended up getting some great advice that made my first time sooooo much easier.

Dress for the Occasion

Your Insta-worthy floral romper may make for a cute selfie, but if you’re trying to bang one out and not get caught, you may want to opt for clothing that’s easier to deal with should you have to make a run for it. Stick with skirts and dresses (sans underwear) and button-up blouses that allow you to let the girls out without having to take your shirt off completely. It also helps to avoid bright colors that are hard to miss, so save your colorful neon garments for another day.

Location, Location, Location 

Picking the right location is vital, especially if you want to relax and enjoy yourself. Find a place with minimal lighting, limited foot traffic, and an easy escape route should you inadvertently find yourself putting on a live sex show for unsuspecting passersby. It also helps to scope the location out ahead of time. For example, I once met a guy who was really into the idea of banging underneath the Golden Gate Bridge. We weren’t sure how to make that work, so we planned an excursion a few days before to check out the location and found a perfectly secluded parking lot directly under the bridge. A few nights later, we went back to the spot (which by that time was entirely deserted) and went at it for nearly an hour without ever seeing another passing car or human being. That’s still one of my favorite sexual experiences to look back on.

Keep it Clean

While the world is slowly getting back to normal, one can’t ignore that we’re just coming out of a pandemic. So please, be conscious of that fact and stay off surfaces used by the public, such as park benches and public bathroom counters. And always be sure to clean up after yourselves. 

Leave the Screamers at Home

It’s always nice to know your partner is having as much fun as you are, but if you have a loud moaner on your hands (or dick, whatever), you’re pretty much guaranteed to get caught. It’s also a great way to get the cops called on you. I may or may not know that from experience…

Don’t Be a Creep

While the idea of having sex in public is exciting to you, it won’t be as exciting to anyone else who may happen upon your public sexy time shenanigans. So be conscious of those around you, and for the love of Thor, be sure you aren’t near school or playground. Seriously. While you’re at it, you may also want to check out the laws in your area, as some places have stricter rules than others should you get caught. For example, some jurisdictions will let you off with a ticket, while others charge you with public indecency, exposure, or some other such thing you most definitely do not want to fuck with.

If you’re still a little apprehensive about going all the way in a public place, start slow and work your way up to the good stuff. Try a hot n’ heavy make-out session at the theater first, or even a quick and dirty car blowjob if you’re feeling a little extra. Whatever you do, just have fun doing it!

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Can Self-Driving Vehicles Make Safe Car Sex a Reality?

The era of electric cars has always been about more than saving the environment. Sure, that’s a huge bonus, but for many, the real allure of this new generation of vehicles is more about the possibility of fully autonomous self-driving. For the first time, people in the know are claiming Level 5 fully autonomous vehicles could be available less than a year from now, and that could change everything – including how we define “road head!”

“I’m extremely confident that level 5 or essentially complete autonomy will happen and I think will happen very quickly,” Tesla CEO Elon Musk said in the remarks he made via a video message at the opening of Shanghai’s annual World Artificial Intelligence Conference (WAIC). “I remain confident that we will have the basic functionality for level 5 autonomy complete this year.”

There are six distinct levels of self-driving. Let’s look at each level and see how likely people are to be having sex in a moving vehicle that doesn’t even have a steering wheel soon:

Level 0 (No Driving Automation)

Most vehicles on the road today are manually controlled Level 0 machines. Of course, there are things like anti-lock brakes that make it easier for the driver. Still, the driver controls every move the vehicle makes, which makes sexual activity extremely dangerous while the car is in motion. 

Level 1 (Driver Assistance)

This is the lowest level of automation. Some high-end cars now have basic driver assistance tools like adaptive cruise control, which allows your vehicle to keep itself at a safe distance behind the car ahead of it. These actions qualify as Level 1 because the human driver monitors the vehicle’s decisions and can override them rather than doing it all manually. While this feature is convenient, it offers nowhere near the amount of autonomy needed to engage in car sex safely. 

Level 2 (Partial Driving Automation)

An Advanced Driver Assistance System or ADAS takes you to Level 2, which means the vehicle can control the steering and accelerate or decelerate. Tesla Autopilot and Cadillac Super Cruise are among the systems that now qualify as Level 2. However, these systems come with all kinds of caveats and terms agreements that make the driver aware that their car is not authorized for hands-free sex while driving… yet.

Level 3 (Conditional Driving Automation)

Level 3 vehicles have “environmental detection” capabilities and make informed decisions like accelerating past a slow car. But the driver must remain alert if the system is unable to execute the task. Audi announced that their next generation of the A8 would be the world’s first Level 3 vehicle, and in 2019 the Audi A8L arrived. It features Traffic Jam Pilot, which combines a Lidar scanner and many other advanced sensors. However, U.S. regulation shifted from federal to state-by-state mandates, so the vehicles have been shipping without the key hardware and software required to achieve Level 3 functionality. 

Level 4 (High Driving Automation)

Level 4 vehicles can intervene if things go wrong or if there is a system failure. And while some Level 4 test vehicles can operate in self-driving mode, until legislation and infrastructure evolve, they can only drive in minimal areas at top speeds of about 30 mph. This kind of geo-fencing is meant to keep the public safe while allowing engineers to test and gather data from the first generation of Level 4 vehicles. 

Alphabet’s Waymo recently unveiled a Level 4 self-driving taxi service in Arizona, where they tested driverless cars. Now, other car companies are eager to get into the automated robo-taxi business, including Uber and Lyft, that allows you to safely fuck other passengers while moving.

Level 5 (Full Driving Automation)

Level 5 cars won’t even have steering wheels or acceleration/braking pedals. They will be free from geofencing, able to go anywhere and do anything that an experienced human driver can do. No Level 5 car has ever been produced, but it’s mainly a matter of ethics more than tech. For example, if your car detects a J-walker and must choose between crashing to avoid the pedestrian (putting the driver at risk) or keeping you safe by running over the J-walker, which decision should it make? 

These decisions will have to be made, and many technical challenges will have to be met before the Level 5 car can become a reality. Still, Musk says they have almost done it, and as much as people have been wrong by disbelieving him in the past, some are ready to give him the benefit of the doubt. 

It’s important to note that the difference from one level to the next isn’t a linear climb technologically. While the leap from Level 1 to Level 2 was just a matter of time, some theorists and futurists have predicted that getting from Level 4 to Level 5 self-driving vehicles will be technologically impossible. Still, the human condition and our urge as a species to continue doing newer, bigger, and better things are driving many of the world’s brightest engineers to pursue the impossible with a passion that might prove all the naysayers wrong again.

The real question is, how quickly can fans get a car big enough for 8 or 10 people with all the seats removed and a king-size mattress mounted to the floor of the vehicle instead?

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AFF Erotic Stories – Chance Encounter with AdultFriendFinder Member Leads to Public Fucking

I’ve been chatting with a woman on Adult FriendFinder for the last few weeks, and on Tuesday, fate took things into its own hands when we randomly bumped into each other for the first time at, of all places, a local pub. We were standing next to each other at the bar, ordering our separate drinks, when we figured it out. I don’t think either of us was prepared for the bizarreness of it. Just the night before, we had swapped sexy pics and erotic words. Now she was standing right before me.

It was awkward at first because we could only call each other by our usernames. But once she introduced herself properly as Jane, things began to feel somewhat normal, though I had no idea what to talk about.

 Luckily Jane was the first to speak. “You’re sexier in person.” She said with a crooked grin. Before I could respond, someone at a booth across the room called out for Jane.

She leaned in and whispered in my ear: “Meet me in the parking lot in twenty if you want some fun.” Then she turned and went back to her friends, leaving me standing there. I went back to my own friends, but for the next twenty minutes, I couldn’t think of anything other than Jane and what was waiting outside in the parking lot. A motley of emotions churned inside me. My usual shy self was nervous and unsure. I had never done something like this before, sneaking off to have “fun” with someone in the parking lot, whether a guy or girl.

But the emotion that grew until it pushed the others out of my mind was excitement. It was a thrill sitting there, tantalized by the possibilities of what was to come. Occasionally Jane and I would catch eyes from across the room, and she would give me the sexiest looks that made my insides squirm.

Finally, twenty minutes on the dot, I saw her get up from her table and start to walk outside. With a stomach filled with butterflies, I told my friends I needed to make a call and left to follow her. As she strolled ahead of me with long, sexy legs, I watched her hips sway side to side, and my heart pounded, stopping in my chest when she looked back at me with a seductive smile.

Outside it was a warm night, and Jane headed towards the small parking lot on the side of the bar. There was only one car, a red SUV. Jane disappeared behind it, and I followed, finding her leaning against the passenger door.

“You’re just as beautiful with your clothes on.” She said, giggling. I wanted to say something witty, but at the moment I couldn’t think of anything. In a moment of bravery, I decided to fuck words. Her lips looked so delectable, red, and luscious. I went straight for them, and we kissed for the first time. I was nervous when we broke away, scared I had been too bold. But just as soon as our lips had come apart, Jane was rushing to taste them again.

We kissed deeper and deeper until she had me pressed up against the side of the SUV. We raced toward second base until Jane abruptly stopped and pulled out her car keys. With a devilish smile, she pushed unlock, and the SUV beeped and lit up.

A minute later, we were making out hot and heavy in the backseat, our hands racing to explore each other’s bodies. She grasped my breasts with both hands as our tongues danced together. We didn’t waste time. Soon her lips were trailing downward until she pushed my legs apart and pulled my panties to the side. My spine curled as she finger fucked me before finally running her tongue over my soaking pussy lips. I moaned. She attacked my clit. I screamed. She kept going with her fingers and mouth until I was nearly bursting with pleasure.

People walked by the car. I could hear them in the background and see their shadows. Maybe ten minutes ago, I would have cared. But at that moment, the only thing I gave a fuck about was that the pleasure didn’t stop now. And so I prayed, Jane, don’t you fucking stop. Another person passed by. Don’t you fucking stop. I was so close. She was rubbing my clit like a madwoman when I finally felt the orgasm explode between my legs and rush through my body.

When I caught my breath, I eagerly returned the favor, eating her out until she grasped the back of my head and pulled me closer. “Fuck Yes!” She started to shriek. It was so fucking hot. Somebody walking by paused outside the car. I could almost make out their face through the tinted window as I slipped a finger in Jane’s pussy and searched for her g-spot. She shrieked even louder, and the person immediately hurried away. My lips, planted around her clit as I slobbered on it, curled into a smile. Turns out I fucking love public sex.

When Jane came, her eyes left this world, rolling backward until all I saw were white balls rolling uncontrollably under twitching eyelids. When they returned we made out in the backseat, our juices clinging to each other’s lips. Then it suddenly came back to me that my friends were waiting for me to return. We put our tits back in our dresses, fixed our hair, and walked back over to the bar, high on the ecstasy each of us had just unlocked in the other. I must have been smiling when I returned to my friends’ booth because they asked me what was so funny. “Nothing,” I told them, smiling wider. I left with them a little thereafter, and as I did, I made sure to glance over at Jane. She was already looking at me, smiling. Needless to say, it won’t be the last time we see each other.

Story submitted by Adult FriendFinder member Speakingofsex.