The modern world is all about the art of the written word. That may sound odd until you look around and take notice of the way we all interact with each other.
There are plenty of photos and videos on the internet, but they are almost always accompanied by text. Social media posts, search engines, and even photographic memes are made more interesting by the text that creative people embed in our digital expressions. Add in the fact that texting has replaced talking on the phone, and you start to see the value of being a good writer when communicating your ideas to others.
Do You Give Good Text?
Text can be an essential element in sexual situations, especially in modern dating. It often starts with what you write on your dating profiles. Is your text original and clever or just something you copied off someone else’s cliché profile? When it’s time to send messages, are they simplistic one-liners that rely on the other person to carry the conversation, or can you add something to make them tingle before you mingle in person? She sends you an impromptu poem or makes a very sexy remark about what she wants to do with you on your upcoming date. Are you only able to reply with a dick-pic and that ridiculous eggplant emoji, or do you have more to offer?
Stroke Your Erotic Muscle By Writing Erotica
Your ability to create the sort of text that your potential playmates will adore is as much about practice as any other form of performance. The same way you go to the gym to strengthen your core, you can exercise your ability to turn a few words of text into the sort of orgasm-inducing appetizer that damn near guarantees your new fan will be down to meet up in person.
The easiest way to exercise your mind is to write your own erotica. All you need is a keyboard or a pen and paper to get started. It’s a great way to pass the time, it costs almost nothing, and it can be a titillating experience as you begin to discover things about your sexuality while cranking out scenarios worthy of your time and your playmate’s affection.
Start With What You Know
Step one is simple. Always start by writing about something you’ve experienced for yourself. It can be anything in your past that gave you the sort of urge you want to evoke in others. A non-fiction account of an actual event makes it easy to recall all the juicy details and paint the canvass in your mind with the kind of facts that you already know are capable of shifting your libido into gear.
Be willing to embellish or augment those facts with fantasy as much as you see fit. Writing is one of the true freedoms in life. There’s no way to color within the lines because writing has no lines or boundaries to stay within – it’s all about letting it flow out of your soul and onto the page.
Turn Your Second Best Fantasy Into A Reality
Many novice erotic writers make the mistake of trying to start with their best fantasy ever. You won’t be able to do it justice right out of the gate, so leave it in the back of your mind for later. Instead, choose your second hottest fantasy and give it a go. Try to be as grounded in reality with facts, locations, feelings, and faux memories as you were when writing the fictitious example we explored earlier.
The Two True Tests of Erotica Writing
Can A Reader Tell Which Is Fact And Which is Fiction?
This first test is pretty simple to pass once you get some practice. If you write one fiction example and one non-fiction, can a reader tell which is real and which is fantasy? Did you gloss over the details of what kind of jeans he was wearing in the fiction account but remember every wrinkle in the other version? Are you recalling the way her cherry lip gloss tasted with urgency in the factual story but only lightly skipping over the way her lips looked when trying to create a story out of thin air?
Keep trying; it may take two, ten, or a hundred attempts to reach the point where you’re able to recall imagined events as well as you do real ones from your past. Nevertheless, it’s a worthwhile exercise that will also make you more observant, more in touch, and more present for other aspects of your life as well (perhaps that’s why good writers are also great lovers).
The Second Test is Far More Challenging
The second test is even more straightforward but much more challenging to accomplish. Simply put, did your own story make YOU cum?!
If you write a story so hot and engaging that you have to stop reading to rub one out, congratulations, you now have something worth showing to someone else!
Erotica is an expression of yourself. If what you wrote is good enough to get you hot under the collar, it’s already worthy of anyone else’s attention. You can be proud and confident that it will be well received. Most importantly, if it doesn’t turn a particular person on, that doesn’t mean your erotica is faulty. It likely just means you aren’t sexually compatible.
Once you can bring someone to climax with nothing more than your words, not only have you finally written a great erotic story – you’ve also found a new playmate and future muse.
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