As an Adult FriendFinder member, you’ve likely already experienced the benefits of having access to open-minded people from around the world. But now, you might be asking yourself how you can stand out from the crowd and garner the widespread attention you deserve. Creating a blog on Adult FriendFinder may be the easiest way to get attention and make your voice heard in the world’s largest sex-positive community.
Think of Your Blog As An Extension of Your Profile
Instead of just showing people how you look and giving them some basic stats about yourself, you can use your blog to help prospective members better understand what you’re into and how your mind works.
Your Blog Keeps You Current
When someone sees your profile stats, they may wonder if the information you have listed is still current. When they see a new blog post, they know your info is current, and they can see your way of looking at the world right now, as opposed to how you felt about things years ago. As your dating horizons expand, so does your blog.
Your Blog Can Set The Mood
Are you looking for a romantic date? Interested in a one-night stand with a new mate? Have a fantasy you want to explore for the first time with someone patient? Your blog can explain that to potential mates browsing your profile, which helps you sort out real potential dates from the rest of the pack. Sharing your interests and what excites you is another way to find the right dates even faster.
Amateur Erotica Doesn’t Require A License
You can’t take a class on writing about what you think is sexy, as you’re the only arbiter of that domain. Many people think erotica is only written by professional authors and that their own skills are somehow insufficient. Your blog is the perfect place to showcase your own amateur erotic fiction, and with a bit of practice, you’ll find your voice on the page pretty quickly. Here are some helpful tips:
1 – Start by writing about something that really happened
Pure fiction is actually much harder to write than reality, with a few embellishments to enhance the story. Of course, you can always change real names and places, but keep the framework of your past encounter as the backdrop of your stories. Did you once get busy in a bathroom at a bar? Are you the guy who tried having sex underwater in a public pool while dozens of other people were only a handful of meters away? Those moments are great starting points for your most amazing blog posts.
2 – Leave Out What Isn’t Sexy
In your story about having sex on a pool table after hours in a swanky hotel, you don’t have to mention the part about the lube bottle spilling out all over the carpet unless you think that adds something sexy to your story. Arguments and “make up sex” are common themes, but your blog should be much less about the argument and much more about the make-up sex!
3 – Make Sure The Story Is True To Your Desires
What you write on your blog should always be about what you think is sexy right now. For example, if you used to be into cosplay, a new blog post about your past cosplay sexual experiences is likely to bring out potential lovers who want to try cosplay with you now – even if that’s not what you are into any longer. Keep your blog current with themes, ideas, kinks, and come-ons that match your current mood, so you’re attracting the kind of people who share your sentiment and can give you fuel for many blog stories to come.
4 – Practice Makes Perfect
Read your blog after you write it. Try to read it as if you were seeing the words for the very first time and see if it brings out the sort of reaction in you that you want to bring out in others. If it doesn’t, don’t fret, that just means you may need to rewrite part of it or write about something else instead. Nobody is expecting your first draft to be perfect. The simple truth is, the more you write, the better you get at it, and each new story or blog post you post will be better than the last. Enjoy the process, be excited to share your stories, and help your potential dates discover who you are.
If You Do It Right, You’ll Cum Too
Your blog doesn’t have to be some PG nonsense. You can get as down and dirty as you like, sharing your own flair for erotica, sprinkling in stories of your past, or ideas from your favorite fantasies to create the right mood. So go ahead and show your potential dates that you have what it takes to make any date memorable and enjoy your own posts as much as they will. Many dating enthusiasts agree that a great read can be even more erotic than a handful of photos!
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