Traditionally, the word cuck (cuckold) referred to a man whose wife was having a sexual affair behind his back.
The word cuckolding was derived from the cuckoo bird, which has a habit of laying its eggs in other bird’s nests and was metaphorically used to allude to a woman laying with a man who is not the husband, or what we now know as adultery.
Today, cuckolding is known as a sexual fetish in which the cuck gets sexually aroused by watching their partner (the hotwife/cuckoldress) engage in sexual intimacy with another person (the bull). It’s not restricted to a heterosexual relationship, meaning any couple can jump at it, provided they are both comfortable doing so.
Cuckolding is indeed a form of BDSM, but you might be surprised to know that some couples use it to build stronger and happier marriages.
The Psychology Behind Cuckolding
From a psychological perspective, cuckolding is meant to arouse feelings of humiliation and inadequacy in the partner who is being cuckolded. The subconscious inadequacy could have formed early in life due to lack of privacy, abusive parents, lack of attention, or narcissistic parents. The humiliation plays a significant role in the power-play dynamic, which arouses the cuck, fulfilling his fetish.
There are different levels of cuckolding, like any other fetish, depending on how far the partners are willing to go. If you’re not comfortable with the thought of watching your partner have sex with another person, you may derive pleasure from listening to them flirt explicitly without getting physical. The details of their sexual fantasies or previous sexual experiences can be an excellent way to dip your toe into cuckolding if you’re scared to go all the way at first.
If you don’t mind trying a higher level, you can watch your partner flirt with another person in a bar or watch them make out. Even more interesting, you can instruct the bull on what to do to your partner, watch from a distance or even join in and make it a threesome, because why not? Whichever level you decide on, make sure both you and your partner are game before you get started.
Why Do Men Love to be Cucks?
Some men enjoy being sexually humiliated and feeling inadequate for their partners. The fetish turns deep-rooted feelings of insecurity and inadequacy into sexual pleasure. Primarily it’s based on the woman’s (or partner’s) ability to enjoy sex with the bull rather than with their partner (the cuck.) Losing control, moaning harder, orgasming, and letting loose scales the levels of inadequacy in the partner, causing them to become more aroused.
Some men also enjoy cuckolding as it’s a safe space to release their deep sexual desires. It demands high levels of communication between partners, which leads to a more powerful, playful, and emotionally intimate relationship. Plus, it spices up the act of sex by engaging in fantasy play, making sex more intense and more pleasurable.
What do Cucks Get out of Watching their Partners have sex with the bull?
Pleasure, and lots of it! Some also say that it doubles as a stress reliever because it rips away the expectations of having to satisfy your partner, opening both you and your partner to a pool of explorations.
Cuckolding fanatics also say it helps them explore their sexuality and keep sex fun and novel. The cuckoldress is given the dominance and right to have sex with other people while the cuck remains loyal. The roles are, however not fixed, and can thus be switched at any time. You can also give the bull dominance while in action to shake things up a bit.
The Downsides of Cuckolding and How to Avoid Them
Any game of power can be dangerous, and one involving intimacy is even worse. Cuckolding can push one past their sexual and psychological limit, causing the relationship to go south. One might be up to trying it but halfway realize they weren’t ready for it, only to feel upset that once your partner engages in sex with another person (the bull), it can’t be reversed.
To avoid such, make sure that you both understand the consequences before you dive in. Also, make sure to maintain open communication between you and your partner, both before and after cuckolding. If someone gets uncomfortable and decides to stop halfway, the others should respect their decision. It would also help if your relationship is not founded on toxic monogamy and jealousy, and both of you are on the same page when it comes to exploring wild and freakier fetishes.
Common Questions to ask the “Hot Wife” after Cuckolding
The goal of cuckolding is to make the cuck feel inadequate in satisfying their partner, which in turn satisfies their fetish. For this reason, they tend to ask the cuckoldress some explicit questions to help scale up the inadequacy.
The questions include:
– Did he fuck you better than me?
– Did you enjoy his cock?
– Is his cock bigger than mine?
– Did he cum inside you?
– Did he penetrate deeper than me?
– Did you tongue kiss?
– Did his cock fit in your mouth?
– Was his tongue game better than mine?
– What freaky thing did he do to you?
Are you ready?
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