Anyone who has ever masturbated knows one is too few people for a quality orgy. But if you’ve gone to a big sex party and felt a bit out of place, then you also know that hundreds of people make an orgy much less intimate than you may desire. So, how many people should you invite to your next orgy, and what else should you know about creating a great guest list that will satisfy every participant?
Planning an orgy takes time, consideration, and tact. There are numerous ways to plan one, so if you’re interested in hosting an orgy, the tips below can help you get started. In orgies, consent is vital, as is trust. While some people prefer to have orgies with strangers, others only invite people they know and trust.
Space is a Consideration
Many people consider five to be the minimum number of participants for an orgy. Three people is a threesome, four is a foursome, and five or more is an orgy. The amount of available space is a determining factor in finding your ideal orgy numbers. People should be able to get comfortable, with a proper amount of furniture to play on. In most cases, oversized chairs, beds, and couches will suffice. Some people choose to put placemats and mat covers on the floor, another option for creating more space where many people can roll around at once. Smaller pieces of furniture can be limiting if multiple people want to touch each other simultaneously.
If you’re considering having an orgy and don’t mind who hosts the event, you can talk amongst the people involved to determine the ideal space among those available. However, keep in mind that if you don’t know someone well, you may want to do some vetting before considering their place for your next orgy.
Think About Establishing Safety Protocols
Will your orgy require people to have condoms and switch between partners? Are you going to be asking for a recent STI test? People have different standards when it comes to setting up an orgy. Those who are considering attending will have questions. They will want to know about safe sex practices, and they will also want to know about how you are vetting people for the party. Gather your thoughts on these things and communicate them to your guests in advance so they can be prepared.
The Right Number of People For an Orgy – It’s About the People
The best number of people for an orgy is also impacted by who is there. If one person is sucking the positive energy out of the room, one less person (that one) might be better. This is why vetting is so necessary. If you’re hosting a party and a person is causing issues, removing them may be the best option. The goal is for everyone at the party to have a good time, so be a good host and help that happen.
Sending Out Invites
When organizing an orgy, do not give the address of the orgy to just anyone. To maintain an ideal number of people in the orgy, you will want to limit the numbers. After determining the perfect number, it’s time to find people for the event. For example, if you’re inviting friends and friends of friends, pick two or three people to invite first, and ask them if they have people they vouch for who would also like to attend.
Ensuring that each person has somebody they are least familiar with outside of themselves can help increase comfort levels and get the action going faster.
If you’re looking to meet new people you can invite to your sex party, Adult FriendFinder is a fantastic resource. You may already have people in your network looking for orgies to attend – all you have to do is ask! Adult FriendFinder makes it easy to vet potential invitees so you can discuss consent and their thoughts on what an orgy should be.
Don’t Start Too Big
Orgies have many moving parts, and one mistake people make is trying to plan an orgy that is much larger than they can manage easily on a first go ahead. There are logistics to planning an orgy, including space, snacks, vetting, and others. Each of these things takes time, and some take experience as well. As you continue to plan orgies, the vetting aspect will get easier. It also takes some time to figure out the appropriate amount of people for the space.
Having too many people in the space can make it hard to have the sexual fun you would like to have. Remember, people need to move around and get into different positions. There should also be an area dedicated to socializing for people who need a break or are not interested in watching other naked people fuck for the entirety of the night.
On the other hand, if you have ample space with few people, the party can feel empty. This can take away from the mood for some people, who may feel like “practically nobody showed up.” Starting small allows you to alleviate these fears. One way that people move through this is by starting with four people they know will show up. Then, invite a few more people, and know that even if only three or four people show, fantastic group sex will happen. If you have enough space for more than five people, take some time to invite an additional two or three people as not everybody will come to your event each time.
Final Notes
It is always wise to think about your goals for your event. For example, if the goal is sex with strangers, the vetting process may differ. In addition, there may be more people overall. For example, many sex lovers are interested in orgies, and gangbangs are also popular. When considering the number of people to invite, consider specific genders attending. In orgies, people touch other people’s bodies, and gender is often not an issue.
Once your plan is in place, you’re ready to get going!
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