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The Benefits of Creating Your Own Blog On Adult FriendFinder

As an Adult FriendFinder member, you’ve likely already experienced the benefits of having access to open-minded people from around the world. But now, you might be asking yourself how you can stand out from the crowd and garner the widespread attention you deserve. Creating a blog on Adult FriendFinder may be the easiest way to get attention and make your voice heard in the world’s largest sex-positive community. 

Think of Your Blog As An Extension of Your Profile

Instead of just showing people how you look and giving them some basic stats about yourself, you can use your blog to help prospective members better understand what you’re into and how your mind works.

Your Blog Keeps You Current

When someone sees your profile stats, they may wonder if the information you have listed is still current. When they see a new blog post, they know your info is current, and they can see your way of looking at the world right now, as opposed to how you felt about things years ago. As your dating horizons expand, so does your blog.

Your Blog Can Set The Mood

Are you looking for a romantic date? Interested in a one-night stand with a new mate? Have a fantasy you want to explore for the first time with someone patient? Your blog can explain that to potential mates browsing your profile, which helps you sort out real potential dates from the rest of the pack. Sharing your interests and what excites you is another way to find the right dates even faster.

Amateur Erotica Doesn’t Require A License

You can’t take a class on writing about what you think is sexy, as you’re the only arbiter of that domain. Many people think erotica is only written by professional authors and that their own skills are somehow insufficient. Your blog is the perfect place to showcase your own amateur erotic fiction, and with a bit of practice, you’ll find your voice on the page pretty quickly. Here are some helpful tips:

1 – Start by writing about something that really happened

Pure fiction is actually much harder to write than reality, with a few embellishments to enhance the story. Of course, you can always change real names and places, but keep the framework of your past encounter as the backdrop of your stories. Did you once get busy in a bathroom at a bar? Are you the guy who tried having sex underwater in a public pool while dozens of other people were only a handful of meters away? Those moments are great starting points for your most amazing blog posts.

2 – Leave Out What Isn’t Sexy

In your story about having sex on a pool table after hours in a swanky hotel, you don’t have to mention the part about the lube bottle spilling out all over the carpet unless you think that adds something sexy to your story. Arguments and “make up sex” are common themes, but your blog should be much less about the argument and much more about the make-up sex!

3 – Make Sure The Story Is True To Your Desires

What you write on your blog should always be about what you think is sexy right now. For example, if you used to be into cosplay, a new blog post about your past cosplay sexual experiences is likely to bring out potential lovers who want to try cosplay with you now – even if that’s not what you are into any longer. Keep your blog current with themes, ideas, kinks, and come-ons that match your current mood, so you’re attracting the kind of people who share your sentiment and can give you fuel for many blog stories to come.

4 – Practice Makes Perfect

Read your blog after you write it. Try to read it as if you were seeing the words for the very first time and see if it brings out the sort of reaction in you that you want to bring out in others. If it doesn’t, don’t fret, that just means you may need to rewrite part of it or write about something else instead. Nobody is expecting your first draft to be perfect. The simple truth is, the more you write, the better you get at it, and each new story or blog post you post will be better than the last. Enjoy the process, be excited to share your stories, and help your potential dates discover who you are. 

If You Do It Right, You’ll Cum Too

Your blog doesn’t have to be some PG nonsense. You can get as down and dirty as you like, sharing your own flair for erotica, sprinkling in stories of your past, or ideas from your favorite fantasies to create the right mood. So go ahead and show your potential dates that you have what it takes to make any date memorable and enjoy your own posts as much as they will. Many dating enthusiasts agree that a great read can be even more erotic than a handful of photos!

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AFF Returns to Young Swingers Week This March!

AdultFriendFinder.com and Young Swingers® Week (YSW) are back and ready to party in Jamaica after a two-year hiatus due to the COVID-19 pandemic. Young Swingers® Week takes place from March 19, 2022 – March 26, 2022, at the Hedonism II resort in Negril, Jamaica, and it promises to be hotter than ever!

About Young Swingers® Week

Young Swingers® hosts parties, events, and swinger travel for adults in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s. The company offers swingers many opportunities to have fun with other couples, but Young Swingers® Week is their largest event, with hundreds of people gathering for a week of dancing, soaking up the sun, and sexy good times.

YSW offers people a chance to explore new fantasies, temptations, and interests that may not be available to them in their everyday lives. The event is held at a nudist resort where guests can be free to roam naked and explore their sexual desires in a safe, comfortable environment. Young Swingers® Week helps younger people enjoy sexual experiences with other couples, make lifelong friendships, and hopefully start a new yearly tradition.

The Resort

At Hedonism II, there’s no judgment, so attendees feel free to be themselves. The sexy atmosphere makes tensions quickly disappear as new and curious young people mingle with more experienced couples to create memories that will last a lifetime.

At the resort, you’ll find a sparkling pool, hot tub, all-inclusive beachside liquor bars, theme nights, and organized games run by the wonderful (and nude) staff. Not to mention the gorgeous surroundings as you enjoy the tropical paradise that is Jamaica. Sun, surf, and sex – what more could you ask for?

Cost

When planning this event, YSW decided to make the experience as budget-friendly as possible because they realize not everyone can afford expensive swinger vacations. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have the chance to try new experiences together as a young couple, however. Hedonism II is an all-inclusive resort which means food, liquor, beer, entertainment, and “TIPS” are all included. This eliminates the need to bring more than a few extra dollars with you. Besides, who wants to carry cash or credit cards around a nude resort?  Where would you even put them?

Safety First

The COVID-19 pandemic is still heavy on everyone’s minds, and Young Swingers® Week and the Hedonism II resort take guest safety very seriously. All guests will have to provide a negative COVID test upon arrival at the event, and anyone who tests positive will be given complimentary quarantine accommodations. The resort has also implemented rigorous sanitation measures to ensure guests are free to play in the cleanest environment possible. For more detailed information on safety protocols and travel restrictions, visit the Young Swingers Week website.

Meet Swingers From All Over the World

Young Swingers® Week draws people from all over the world who have two main points in common; they’re young and interested in the swinging lifestyle. Aside from those two factors, it’s a melting pot of the world’s hottest couples. YSW welcomes all races, nationalities, body types, and backgrounds.

Guests will spend a week hanging out with people who grew up on the same movies, music, TV shows, styles, and trends. They can meet others who graduated college around the same time, got married around the same time, and have kids back home. If you go to most swinger/nudist resorts in your 20s or 30s, it’s hard to find people your own age and not feel like you’re the youngest person there. That’s definitely not an issue here!

Choose Your Own Comfort Level

Upon arrival, YSW attendees will receive a beaded necklace with their name on it. This helps people get to know each other and easily identify everyone’s lifestyle level. You can choose the color of the beads you want on your necklace; GREEN is for “We’re Open-minded,” RED is for “Full Swap -Situational “(swap at the right time with the right people), and BLUE is for those who want as much action as possible. This will help like-minded people find what they desire without feeling pressured to go farther than they want to. While everyone at YSW is interested in swinging one way or another, not everyone who attends is ready to participate right away. Many new couples will go just to hang out and gauge their comfort level first before diving into the action, and that’s perfectly ok! Just remember to wear your necklace at all times, so it’s clear to other guests. Plus, it really helps keep track of who you’re meeting and partying with.

Mingle With the Adult FriendFinder Team

The Adult FriendFinder team will be there the entire week to meet current members, sign on new members, and hand out lots of great AdultFriendFinder.com swag!

For more information or to book your trip, go to youngswingersweek.com. To meet other AFF members who will be attending the event, go to AdultFriendFinder.com and start mingling now!

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How To Keep Your Family Holidays Sexy With Adult Friend Finder

Many people dread spending time with their extended family over the holidays. The awkward questions about your life, family tension, and drama can make it hard to have a good time. However, you can still have a good time this holiday season by making the most of your casual relationships. 

The Benefits Of Casual Dates For The Holidays 

Whether you have a good relationship with your family or not, there are a lot of benefits to having casual dates around for the holidays. Not only is it good to have someone on your side when the awkward conversations start but knowing you’ll be getting laid later can really take the edge off as your family drills you about why you’re not married with 2.5 kids, a dog, and a house with a white picket fence yet. 

If you’re hoping to turn your casual fling into something more, having them around for the holidays can also be a great bonding experience. Just be sure to communicate your intentions upfront, so everyone is on the same page. Of course, if you aren’t looking for anything serious, you can always invite a friend with benefits with nowhere to go for the holidays, so the arrangement benefits everyone involved. 

Keep Things Light Over The Holidays

The appeal of casual sex is a simple arrangement where both parties connect for physical pleasure and nothing more. However, this arrangement can get a little more complex during the holidays when emotions and Christmas cheer are flowing. By keeping things light, you can minimize any confusion about intentions. 

If you find yourself in this grey area, you can keep a few rules of thumb in mind. First, people you’re in strictly sex-only fuck friendships are not generally someone you would bring to your family events over the holidays. However, people you have casual friendships with can be excellent to invite. Since you have already established a friendship, chances are you have enough in common to carry on a conversation at the party, and you know if they will mesh well with your family members or not. 

Taking the Right Partner is Essential

Take some time to vet potential candidates before the holidays, so you aren’t struggling to find a date at the eleventh hour. Think about who would be an excellent fit to get along with your family and keep things relaxed and simple. 

Those who have no expectations for the future are generally the best choices, as you don’t have to worry that they will fantasize about one day joining the family. This also lets you have a few brief conversations about your relatives, so they know the proper etiquette and what to expect. Be open and direct while expressing your needs, wants, and desires. If you invite a friend or acquaintance, also talk about plans afterward. Managing expectations is essential.

Choosing someone who will not make things weird is also essential. Tact is necessary for family gatherings, dates, work parties, and more. Most people know that talking about casual sex, polyamory, swinging, BDSM, and other topics are not appropriate for certain types of gatherings. 

Hold the Line

Many people choose not to meet the families of their casual sex friends. If you have a casual fling and are not interested in meeting their family or having them meet yours, stick with this boundary. 

How To Ask

If you are in a casual relationship with someone you are interested in inviting to a family event, you need the right approach. First, make sure they know that you do not need to meet their family in return and that they will be attending the function in a “friend” capacity. Also, be sure to ask if they have any boundaries in mind so you (and your family) can be respectful at all times. 

Event Etiquette

Bringing someone to a family event is one thing, and planning to have raunchy sex after is another. There are plenty of ways you can add sexy fun to your evening without giving your aunt Edna a coronary. Keep your phones on you and occasionally send naughty or dirty text messages to each other. 

Also, make sure to let the other person know in advance if you plan on sending nudes from the bathroom so that they can open with discretion. You don’t want someone in the family leaning over and catching a glimpse of something you don’t want them to see! 

If you want to get a little physical, plan to take a little walk or head to a more private area for a quick make-out session or peck on the cheek. However, be tactful and talk with the other person about their comfort level before doing this. Things can be a little flirtatious, but know that the comfort of everyone, including family, is important. While you and your casual sex friend might be more polarizing in general, try not to be too polarizing in family or work environments.

Have Fun!

Make it hot, make it fun, and make it welcoming. So talk it out and get ready for some sexy fun this holiday season!

 

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The Benefits of Creating Your Own Blog On Adult FriendFinder

You’ve been an Adult FriendFinder member for a while now and have seen the benefits that come with having access to a massive amount of sexy people worldwide. But, now you may be asking yourself how you can stand out from the crowd and garner the widespread attention you deserve? Creating your own blog on Adult FriendFinder may be the easiest, most creative way to get the attention you deserve. 

Think of Your Blog As An Extension of Your Profile

Instead of just showing people how you look and giving them some basic stats about yourself, you can use your blog to help them better understand what you’re into and how your mind works.

Your Blog Keeps You Current

When someone sees your profile stats, they may wonder if the information is recent or something you posted years ago when you joined the site. When members see a new blog post, they know your info is current, and they can see your way of looking at the world right now, as opposed to how you felt about things when you were new to the site. As your dating horizons expand, so does your blog, and all your AFF friends are along for the journey! 

Your Blog Can Set The Mood

Are you looking for a romantic date? Are you interested in a one-night stand with a new mate? Have a fantasy you want to explore for the first time with someone patient? Your blog can explain any of that to potential mates browsing your profile, which helps you sort out actual potential dates from people who are on another wavelength. Sharing your interests and what excites you is another way to find the right dates even faster.

Amateur Erotica Doesn’t Require A License

You can take no class on what you think is sexy; you are the only arbiter of that domain. Unfortunately, too many people think erotica is something “a professional author,” writes and that their writing skills are somehow insufficient to create one sexy paragraph after another. Your blog is the perfect place to showcase your amateur erotic fiction, and with a bit of practice, you’ll find your voice on the page pretty quickly. Here are some helpful tips:

1 – Start by writing about something that actually happened

Pure fiction is much harder to write than something that really happened, along with some embellishments to enhance the story. You can change names and places for the sake of privacy, but keep the framework of your past encounter as the backdrop. Did you once get busy in a bathroom at a bar? Are you the guy who tried having sex underwater in a public pool while dozens of other people were only a handful of meters away? Those moments are great starting points for your most amazing blog posts.

2 – Leave Out What Isn’t Sexy

In your story about having sex on a pool table after hours in a swanky hotel, you don’t have to mention the part about the lube bottle spilling out all over the carpet unless you think that adds something sexy to your story. Arguments and “make up sex” are common themes, but your blog should be much less about the argument and much more about the make-up sex!

3 – Make Sure The Story Is True To Your Desires

Remember, others will be reading your blog, so if you simply want personal memories to look back on, use a diary instead. What you write on your blog should always be about what you think is sexy right now. So, if, for example, you used to really be into cosplay and aren’t any longer, a new blog post about your past cosplay sexual experiences is likely to bring out potential lovers who want to try cosplay with you now – even if that’s not what you are into any longer. Keep your blog current with themes, ideas, kinks, and come-ons that match your current mood, so you attract the kind of people who share your sentiment, and you can get sexy with the sort of dating enthusiasts who can give you fuel for your next few blog stories to come.

4 – Practice Makes Perfect

Read your blog after you write it. Try to read it as if you were seeing the words for the very first time and see if it brings out the sort of reaction in you that you want to bring out in others. If it doesn’t, don’t fret, that just means you may need to rewrite part of it or write about something else instead. Nobody is expecting your first draft to be perfect. The simple truth is, the more you write, the better you get at it, and each new story or blog post you put up will be better than the last. Enjoy the process, be excited to share your stories, and help potential lovers discover who you are – because all the wonderful things about you are just waiting to be unearthed. Your own fictionalized erotic stories are the best way to share more than any picture or video could ever convey.

If You Do It Right, You’ll Cum Too

Your blog doesn’t have to be some PG nonsense. You can get as down and dirty as you like, sharing your own flair for erotica, sprinkling in stories of your past, or ideas from your favorite fantasies to create the right mood. So go ahead and show your potential dates that you have what it takes to make any date memorable and enjoy your own posts as much as they will. Many dating enthusiasts agree that a fantastic read can be even more erotic than a handful of photos!

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AFF Featured Member of the Month – ambpea

The world’s hottest singles and swingers are right here on Adult FriendFinder.com. In this new series, we’re highlighting our hottest members and getting their advice on how to make your AFF membership work for you. This week, check out our Q&A with ambpea!

How long have you been an AFF member?

About a year, maybe longer.

What made you decide to join the site?

We were wanting to fulfill his cuck and hotwifing fantasies.

Tell us about your favorite AFF hookup.

Meeting several of the men here on AFF has been incredible! One was the guy of my dreams, and he stops by regularly when hubby and I approve.

What is your favorite thing about the site?

All the guys I have met. Its been a wonderful experience. This has most definitely worked in our favor and it’s exactly what we both wanted. He wanted me to meet men (I have!). He wanted to watch me have sex with them (it’s totally happened more than once). We vet our guys pretty good before inviting them over. The best thing is being invited to adult theaters, parties, gangbangs, and all by members. We truly try to make the invite special to us and try to make the guys happy at the same time

Do you have any advice for new members who don’t know how to start mingling with people on the site?

Advice to new members; take it slow and know what both, or all that are involved really want. Vet them. Ask a lot of questions and do not be scared. Look within your community/ your own hometown, because a lot of times you may know each other via other people and so on.

 

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Online Dating How-to: Break the Ice With Great Conversation

Starting a conversation is often one of the most challenging aspects of online dating, right behind maintaining those conversations and using them to help score more dates. There are many variables when it comes to online dating, and some may find that the people they message don’t respond as promptly as they would like. Sometimes people are just too busy, and sometimes they’re just not interested. Whatever the reason, don’t take things personally. With millions of people using dating websites online, odds are you will find people who click with you and some who don’t.  Here are a few pointers to help you tip the scales in your favor.

Be patient. Send out a lot of messages and don’t be so quick to block those who don’t reply right away — especially if you’ve already had an interaction or two. It’s possible they just got busy with real life and will come back in a week or two when things have calmed down. You don’t want to miss out on great hookups because people can’t always prioritize checking their messages when more important things come up.

While patience is an integral part of the picture, so is putting together messages that people actually want to respond to. Some use pickup lines or messages that just say “hey,” while others will send pictures of their dick. These tactics are annoying to those who are really looking for a connection and often will not garner a response.

Instead, write a well-thought-out note that utilizes the information they have in their dating profile. This lets them know you know that you took the time to read their profile and found them interesting in some way. Touch on an interest they have, make a comment on one of their pictures that is not sex-related, and let them know a little bit about yourself and why you think they’re interesting.

Another key element to getting noticed is including photos and videos that are enticing. Profiles that don’t have pictures are far less likely to get replies, so try to include at least one image to show people you are the real deal. At least one picture of your face is ideal, but acceptations can be made for casual sex dating sites like AdultFriendFinder.com. People on hook-up dating websites may be more hesitant to show their face, and in those cases a body shot will do instead. Whatever image you choose to post, make sure it’s a clear, high-quality photo that shows off your best features. Having a good picture or two on your profile heavily increases your message response rate and therefore increases the chance you’ll find a date.

Also, try to be as consistent as possible.  It’s easy to get into a wonderful conversation, leave it for a few weeks, then come back and wonder why the person isn’t as responsive once you return. If you’re really serious about making a great connection, log in to your online dating accounts every day or two to check messages and respond. Even if you just check in to say you’re having a busy day and will write a longer response when you have a moment, it’s still better than no response because it shows the other person know you’re willing to take 30 seconds out of your day to give them an update. Not only is this great for maintaining conversations, but it’s also attractive because it lets people know you can follow through on dates and notes. This tends to put you a step above those who aren’t paying attention to their dating accounts as much.

Maintaining conversations can seem to be a little bit difficult at times, but try to find a balance between talking about yourself and asking about the other person. Think of it as a normal conversation, translated into text. If they respond with a question about your interests, go ahead and answer that question and follow it up with a question about their interests, or ask their thoughts about what you just said. The latest television show, the season in your area, and general activities you enjoy are all great ice breakers. Try to stay away from upcoming local events during the “get to know me” phase though so as not to give out too much information on places they can find you. Remember, you are still in the vetting process.

Finding a way to relate to the person you’re interested in can really help you land the date you’re after, so take the time to read profiles and make thoughtful comments about them. Even if you’re just looking for casual sex, don’t make it the main focus of the conversation. Be clear about what you want, but don’t be too blunt about it either. Try to warm them up by asking if they’ve found any great connections on the site yet, or keep it simple and ask how their day is going.

Millions of people use AdultFriendFinder to hookup, so login now and find the fun, casual sex you’ve been searching for.

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AFF Featured Member: Jholelucky

The world’s hottest singles and swingers are right here on AdultFriendFinder.com. In this new series, we’re highlighting our hottest members and getting their advice on how to make your AFF membership work for you. This week, check out our Q&A with Jholelucky!

How long have you been an AFF member?

I have been a member for over 15 years on and off and I’ve loved my time here!

What made you decide to join the site?

I first got on due to my love for more active NSA good times that were not happening naturally as often as I would like and it sounded like a good way to meet like-minded people

Tell us about your favorite AFF hookup.

I would have to say that my favorite hookup from AFF was an older lady that came to my town on a vacation with girlfriends and hit me up after searching the local area. We had a couple interactions at my home and then she asked me to hit on one of her friends and we worked on her for a night and gave her the night she won’t forget. Four days and nights of naughty sucking, handling, and fucking fun for three of us!

What is your favorite thing about the site?

I would say my favorite thing is the private videos and member webcams, sharing myself with others and watching people enjoy themselves fully is so much fun.

Do you have any advice for new members who don’t know how to start mingling with people on the site?

My advice is to go slow and find what makes you comfortable yet excited, and allows for your most pleasure release to come out over time.

Find Jholelucky and lots of other sexy members on Adult FriendFinder!